Planning a wedding can be an overwhelming experience. Luckily for today's bride-to-be, there are lots of resources available, in print and on the Internet, to help plan for that special day.
This guide will provide you with resources that give guidance, advice, and inspiration for planning your wedding. They are organized into two main categories: Internet resources and print resources. This is not an exhaustive list, but is designed to provide a good starting point.
Comprehensive planning resources
WeddingChannel.com http://www.weddingchannel.com/ is a site that provides the bride-to-be with a large variety of planning resources. The site is comprised of 8 areas: Your Organizer, Fashion, Wedding Shop, Jewelry, Registry, Planning, Community and Local Vendors. Each of these features provides the bride-to-be with tools to use for planning her event, including a web-based guest list manager, budget planner, address book, and an interactive planning calendar. The Wedding Website feature allows the bride and groom to create a web site through which they can share all of the details of their event with guests near and far. In addition, there is a checklist feature that can be used to manage such things as the vendor schedule, photograph list, budget, bride's list, bridesmaid's list, etc. Registration is required, but free.
TheKnot.com http://www.theknot.com/ is a site launched in 1996 which offers the bride and groom numerous tools: City-to-City guides, a Wedding Gown Search with thousands of gowns to choose from and bookmark, Message Boards to ask advice and share ideas, and a free Wedding Web page for couples where they can share wedding details with their guests. The City guides provide ideas for different kinds of reception sites, vendors, and local resources based on the city you select. They also provide overviews of member's weddings in the area which help with generating ideas for your own wedding! Registration is required, but free.
Bliss! http://www.blissweddings.com/ is a site that is simple and easy to navigate. Some of the more unique sections include invitation wording, information for second-time brides, Bridal Shower ideas and themes, Grooms, and the Floral section (with a seasonal gallery of bouquets and blooms). This site also has some of the best interactive planners in PDF formats including questions to ask various vendors, a reception/ceremony scheduler, budgeter, entire wedding planner, and photograph list.
WeddingDetails.com http://www.weddingdetails.com/ is another site with a large number of resources for the bride and groom. Of particular interest: a compilation of marriage license information for all fifty states, wedding traditions from around the world with details regarding ceremony structure, a geographical listing of bridal shows and vendors, and an "Ask the Experts" feature where one can post questions to Etiquette, Tradition, Music, Wedding Consultant, and Photography experts.
Ultimate Internet Wedding Guide http://ultimatewedding.com/ is a site which has hundreds of resources available for the bride-to-be. Some of the resources included are: a photo gallery of almost 1000 images ranging from Cakes to Portraits to Get-Away Vehicles, live chat with other couples, information about destination weddings, and sample wedding vows and ceremony ideas. This site also has a comprehensive list of traditional and modern music categorized for the ceremony and selected dances and can be listened to from the site.
Bridal Guide http://www.bridalguide.com/
Martha Stewart Weddings http://www.marthastewartweddings.com/
Modern Bride http://www.modernbride.com/
Asian Bride Online http://www.asianbrideonline.co.uk/index.asp
Bibi Webzine http://www.bibimagazine.com/
Single Topic Resources
Choosing the Date & Getting Started
Atlanta Bridal: Getting Started
Finding a Wedding Consultant
Association of Bridal Consultants
National Bridal Service
Association for Wedding Professionals International
Finding a Photographer/Videographer
Selecting a Wedding Photographer
Wedding & Event Videographers Association International's Brides Guide
Choosing Your Wedding Videographer
Wedding Readings and Poetry Resources
Shakespeare Wedding Readings
Bridal shows are a great place to find vendors available in your area. Shows generally start up around September, after the wedding season, and run through early April. Two sites which list bridal shows happening around the country are:
Wedding Attire & Accessories
Finding a dress and accessories can be frustrating and difficult. Before making an appointment at a bridal salon or shopping at a local boutique or department store, try to get some ideas together as to the styles you prefer. Here are some sites with great gown pictures across many different styles and price ranges. Some allow you to store the pictures you like so that you have a portfolio of your preferences.
Here are some other helpful resources to use when Planning a Wedding:
BooksSearch strategy: These titles were found using the subject heading "Wedding — Planning" and "Bridal books"
The best of Martha Stewart weddings (New York: Random House International, 1999) ISBN:0609604260
Bridal bargains: Secrets to throwing a fantastic wedding on a realistic budget by Denise and Alan Fields (Colorado Spring, CO: Windsor Peak Press, 1999) ISBN:0962655600
The Knot's complete guide to weddings in the real world: the ultimate source of ideas, advice, and relief for the bride and groom and those who love them by Carley Roney (New York: Broadway Books, 1998) ISBN:0767902467
The Nubian wedding book: words and rituals to celebrate and plan an African-American wedding by Ingrid Sturgis (New York: Crown Publishers, 1997) ISBN:051770501X
Sacred threshold: rituals and readings for a wedding with spirit by Gertrude Mueller Nelson and Christopher Witt (New York: Doubleday, 1998) ISBN:0385485395
The Working Woman's Wedding Planner by Susan Tatsui-D'Arcy (Englewood Cliffs, N.J: Prentice Hall, 2000) ISBN:0735201072
* indicates some content of title available online.
*Bridal Guide New York: Rosenbloom Family Publishing, LLC. ISSN: 0882-7451.
Bride's New York: Conde Nast Publications, Inc. ISSN: 1084-1628.
*Elegant Bride Greensboro, NC: Pace Communications, Inc. ISSN: 0896-5838
*Martha Stewart Weddings New York: Martha Stewart Living Omnimedia, Inc. ISSN: 1096-7958M
*Modern Bride New York: PRIMEDIA Consumer Magazine Group, Inc. ISSN: 0026-7546
*Southern Bride Memphis, TN.
*New England Bride Peabody, MA: New England Bride, Inc. ISSN 0744-6861
*Bibi Magazine Houston, TX: Bibi Magazine, Inc.
*Bride Again Magazine Anaheim, CA.
This pathfinder created by Ali Hakala. Updated by Sena Roth.
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