In all three texts, the parent’s lives have been drowned in alcohol because it is a way for them to cope with their own issues in life. However, their child is deeply affected by this because of the toxic relationship that they and their parent shares. When the child is older, they struggle with their dark memories but eventually finds understanding and a sort of forgiveness to their past. In The Shining, Jack is aided by alcohol to control himself as he believes because at times there is a urning to lash out and hurt his family. His way of helping himself only results in him physically hurting his three-year-old son Danny, by breaking his arm. Danny is tormented by the memory but after his father’s death, he understands that alcohol was …show more content…
This is because his father consumes alcohol all day which results in hangovers nonstop. His father has a terrible reputation in the town because he is known as the town’s drunk and Chris’ older brothers have been in and out of prison, making everyone suspect that Chris is trouble. Even though that Chris is tormented by his struggles, it builds him up to know he wants to make something of himself and never go down the road that everyone suspects him to. In Dolores Claiborne, Selena St. George’s father, Joe, shares an abusive relationship that involves Joe using Selena for sexual purposes. Selena does not suffer from those memories because she has forgotten them by finding comfort with medication and alcohol but does possess a rage towards her mother, Dolores. From visiting Dolores, she comes to realize what actually happened to her and understands why her mother is the way she is, concluding that Selena forgives herself by understanding that Dolores had meant to always protect …show more content…
Jack’s son Danny, had to witness his father’s alcoholism ever since he can remember. Danny specifically can never forget a memory of Jack when his anger issues and drinking finally broke on his family: “He had whirled Danny around to spank him, his big adult fingers digging into the scant meat of the boy’s forearm, meeting around it in a closed, and the snap of the breaking bone had not been loud, not loud but it had been very loud, HUGE, but not loud” (King 24). Danny vividly remembers his father taking a hold of him when he had been hung over and the excruciating pain that he went through when Jack broke his arm. Danny struggles with trying to love his father due to that memory because his fear makes him wonder what if or what amount of time is left until Jack hurts him again. Danny to a certain extent understands that his father’s drinking is not normal because of the fear he has of him. Danny has felt and witnessed such an amount of instability within his family that he knows he never wants to turn out like his father: “And now Tony stood directly in front of him, and looking at Tony was like looking into a magic mirror and seeing himself in ten years, as if Tony – as if the Daniel Anthony Torrance that would someday be – was a halfling caught between father and son a ghost of both” (King chapter 54). Due to the amount of pressure that Danny has dealt with, he comforts himself by
Her dad, who is irresponsible, demands for her to give him money do that he can buy beer. Jeannette argues, “I’ve got bills piling up,”... I heard my voice growing shrill, but I couldn’t control it. “I’ve got kids to feed” (Walls 210). • Alcoholism has devastating impacts on behavior and the lives of others - For Jeannette, since her childhood, her dad returning drunk, late in the night was a regular occurrence: “He came home in such a drunken fury that Mom usually hid while we kids tried to calm him down” (Walls 112).
Danny also despite getting told a lot of times to stop digging his nails in his wrist on page 4 it says “he digs into his wrist some more with his nails. Breaks previously broken skin and pulls away. A smear of blood he wipes away with his other hand, rubs off across his dark jeans. Back at home his mom is alway on him to stop digging, but that only wants him to dig more” the reason he does that is to use physical pain to get rid of his emotional pain caused by his dad leaving him and his family and that is the reason why I chose mental health as a
The Author starts his essay describing how much his father’s irresistible drinking and then he uses past tense to describe he never stopped drinking but he quit living (Sanders 36). Then in his enduring haunting memory, he describes how he enters in a garage to look at his alcoholic father’s bottles hidden in paper bags. The way his mother
The impact of his father’s addiction still reflects in every walk of his life, every string of his personality and in his life, he won’t let his children go anywhere near alcohol or any other such
In the story “Under the Influence,” Scott Russell Sanders. He tell you in detail about his father’s excessive abuse of alcohol, and the transformation that transpired. However, as he grown older he realized his father didn’t only have impact his mother, his sister and his brother, but also how it is affected his own relationship with his own children as well. He describe his father’s alcoholism problem while growing up barbaric and dark. Since he realize the neglection he felt during those times of his childhood.
Sanders explains how his father compulsively “drank” as a means of telling how it initially led to the end of him (182).He acknowledges how his father’s daily drinking finally succeeded by catching up to him with death and drinking becoming a thing of the past. Sanders goes on to explain the various siting’s of his father wayward drinking habits. On a daily basis Sanders would “slip into the garage.. to see [His] father tipping back the flat green bottles of wine, the brown cylinders of whiskey, the cans of beer disguised in paper bags” (182). Sanders switches from explanation into narration as he reveals his true feelings from within his horrific boundaries of his father. He narrates on a routine childhood memory of his dad coming home from work drunk and sparking a quarrel with his wife and how he would find cover and “curl fearfully… listening” (182).
Growing up with an alcoholic dad showed me the damage that addiction has not only on the individual, but also on the people around. I have seen my mother cry because my dad would rather get drunk than spend time with us. I have seen my father unable to walk or talk. When my dad is drunk, he is a completely different person, short-temper and
Although Jack is going insane because of isolation, it may not be the only cause for losing his sanity. It could be by what is behind the symbol of the calumet, domestic violence, or the shining itself. In contrary to the symbol of the calumet and the shining, domestic violence appears a couple of times in the film. To point out a specific
“After all he'd put himself through, I couldn't believe Dad had gone back to the booze” (Walls 123). It took a lot of tears, love, courage, and forgiveness to believe in the many broken promises of her father to their family and especially to her as an
Her father, Rex, has a severe alcohol addiction that significantly impacts the family’s lifestyle. Rex’s alcoholism leads to emotional instability and frequent, hostile aggression towards his family. One way alcoholism affected Rex, was by causing emotional instability. The article, “Symptoms and help for Alcohol Problems” by author Elisabeth
His mother warned him about his fate if he continued to drink, like his own late father, but he felt that a few drinks would not cause any issues. Little did he know that a few drinks would turn into endless nights of drinking, and the biggest tragedy of his life; the death of his daughter. His daughter, worried sick about him, went to look for him at the tavern so they
, the psychiatrist explains how reclusive and strange behavior is blindly accepted because parents are used to their children being irrational. Danny can actually see ghosts so he gets frustrated when his parents push his ‘imaginary friends’ under the rug. Along with the majority of teenagers around
When Jeannette's father is intoxicated and angry, he breaks objects around the house and leaves a mess that his kids have to clean up. He does these horrific things that Jeannette wants to forget about and avoid. Her father tries to provide for her needs while being unaware of the destruction his activities bring the family. “In my mind, Dad was perfect, although he did have what, Mom called a bit of a drinking situation”, having a false perception of her father, Jeannette is oblivious to his flaws and the harm he inflicts on the family through his drinking (Walls 23). The novel Night is similar, Ellie and his father are in survival mode, but do not seem to be aware of the harm they are causing to each other.
In the text it says, “I went out into the hall to the phone and called my father.” The narrator made quick good decisions. By calling their parents, he knew he was saving Danny’s life. So overall, Danny realized people did care for him which was family.