Another trait of mine is being spontaneous. I have never really liked following routines and being organized so I am a very adaptable person. The chronosystem refers to environmental events, the transitions and shifts of an individual in time . Two major events in my chronosystem would be immigrating from Hong Kong to Australia when I was 3 years old and then immigrating back to Hong Kong when I was 9 years old. Going through such a drastic change of environment twice at such a young age is one of the main reasons I have become a very adaptable and flexible person. Surrounding environments do not affect me greatly physically or mentally as I have already experienced being forced into a drastic environment change twice. In the hierarchy of …show more content…
However, is this the true meaning of university education and university life? While the meaning of university may be different to everyone and a meaningful university life will also differ from person to person. I believe that a meaningful university life is where you can grow in all aspects including personally, socially and academically. Opening up ourselves towards change for the better is important in my version of a meaningful university life. Making Choices and Decisions During our time in university, we make have to make a lot of choices that may greatly affect our future. For example, our area of major, our minor subject, which classes we should take and even if we should go to class at all. Because university is such a free place, with freedom comes with the pressure of choice. Different types of decisions can be reflected by different theories. For example, some less important choices like whether we should go to class or not. This is an id and ego conflict, where the instant gratification of not having to attend class is in conflict with the realistic need to attend class. On the other hand, there are some decisions that affect us in the long-term, like choosing our majors. These choices will have many more …show more content…
Self-efficacy is the personal judgments of one’s capability to organize and execute actions to attain designated goals (Bandura,1997). Those with high self-efficacy will be more confident in their own area of specialty, on the other side, one who has experienced a higher rate of incongruent experiences may doubt their choices more as previously they may not have been able to reach their goal easily so they will reconsider each choice they make. Also, we will often prefer to choose things that I am more in line with our interests. For example, I will have to choose my practicum in my major studies at the end of year 1, since my interest lies in editing and filming I would really like to choose creative media as my practicum, but my performance in the introductory course for this practicum was not excellent, therefore I have yet to gain the confidence to decide what practicum I should take. Personal stress and anxiety may also add to the factor especially if the problem is an important issue. When we are stressed, we may experience cognitive distortions where our brain focuses on the negative side more instead of the positive. This may delude our thoughts preventing us from making a rational
We may think about trying to decide what college to go to as our own personal struggle, but those around us are experiencing it to. Even on top of that we think the choice is ours personally to make, when even though we may not realize it, our parents, those important to us, and those around us are also having a role in where we decide to go.
Often called the fight or flight reflex, stress has been known to save people’s lives, whether it be on a battlefield or some dangerous situation back home. Too much stress ultimately leads to health problems, but too little stress isn’t good for us either. When we go too long without a sharp stimulating response, the body loses its ability to handle stress properly (Tom Scheve, 2009). Somewhere between too much, and too little stress can actually be good for you, helping you perform under pressure. It is when someone cannot turn off that fight or flight feeling that it begins to show its negative effects.
College and life in general is filled with hundreds of decisions and
There were many days I would wake up and feel like not attending class but I would get up and go anyways. The
Do we control the direction of our lives, or do forces outside of our control determine our destiny? Ernest J. Gaines shows this with Grant, Jefferson. A good example of this would be Grant Wiggins. He shows that even though you may be an educated person, you can’t really choose on what you want to do. If you only have little options to begin with and if that is what society would want to give to you.
In making his comment, Hrabowski is imploring prospective students to gain as much information as possible, while also calling on colleges to advise students on what educational path they are best suited for. Ultimately, I agree with Mr. Hrabowski, that with an informed decision, students will be provided with that best possible situation to thrive in the future. Mr. Hrabowski makes several arguments for colleges including; the need to provide guidance for students, a college education creates leaders, and
Self-efficacy is best explained by Bandura (1995) who says that it "refers to beliefs in one's capabilities to organize and execute the courses of action required to manage prospective situations". More simply, self-efficacy is what an individual believes he or she can accomplish using his or her skills under certain circumstances (Snyder & Lopez, 2007). Self-efficacy has been thought to be a task-specific version of self-esteem. The basic principle behind Self-Efficacy Theory is that individuals are more likely to engage in activities for which they have high self-efficacy and less likely to engage in those they do not (Van der Bijl & Shortridge-Baggett, 2002). I think that this research by Snyder & lopez is particularly relevant to Simons case as.
Pharinet then brings up the fact that many students are not ready for the financial challenges such as the cost of food, rent, gasoline, spending money, and other supplies besides books. As for the academic reasons Pharinet says that some students do not have the desire to learn. The author then points out that there are many other options besides college. Students could attend a trade school or take a year or so off to consider who you are and what you want to do with their life. Pharinet uses specific examples to make the argument to her target audience, whom are the parents that are contemplating sending their kids to college and students getting ready to graduate high school.
Does college guarantee you’ll be successful? The reading “College Prepares People for Life” written by Freeman Hrabowski claims that college is a big step to becoming successful. In his essay, he introduces that college does not only help in finding jobs but that it prepares people for the real world. He uses examples from educators data as well as personal experiences. When Hrabowski mentions these examples in his essay he tries to convince why he is right.
William Zinsser writes in the selection, “College Pressures” about the social, political, and economic pressures of going to a major university and how it encourages students uniformity and overachieving. Zinsser states numerous times when students ask for help to balance a normal life, while still satisfying the needs of themselves, their peers, and their parents. While he explains all of this, it is hard to believe that he is not only exposing a difficult situation, but also trying to bring change to this situation. Many times Zinsser explains how everyone wants to take the “right” road, which is the safe, easy choice for students to get them exactly where they want to go in a safe way. Even if that is truly not what they want to do, or what
Your environment plays a big role in the development of you as a
This sense of choice and freedom help with a student's happiness , which will help them with their thinking, and positive
Pharinet makes it a point to let it be known that every person has the right to an education, but also lets it be known that not everyone should attend college (Pharinet 680). Though the drop-out rates vary, it is estimated that in the U.S., approximately 50% of students who begin college never graduate (Pharinet 680).Pharinet gives plenty of examples why college is not for everyone, financial challenges being the most common, working full-time, having children, or just having the mental mindset to stay focused just to name a few. Pharinet mentions that students usually end up working full-time jobs and going to school full-time, which can sometimes cause a great deal of stress and low grades. Students then usually end up dropping classes or taking fewer hours in order to keep up (Pharinet 680). Pharient states that “the best financial planning in the world will not prepare a student for the academic challenges that await them” (Pharinet
For these reasons, college is not as beneficial as it is played out to
Understanding one 's stress is helpful in many ways. High stress levels are generally accompanied by agitation, nervousness, and anxiety. People have different reactions to stress; some cope longer and others fall apart