Imagine being all alone in a world full of people. Having a bad relationship with your parents, being isolated from the world, no one you can genuinely trust. Mariam has always been alone. She never had a true and loving relationship with her parents she was seen as a disgrace, a mistake. Having no friends and being married off to a horrible person, she never experienced real love. In Khaled Hosseini's A Thousand Splendid Suns, Hosseini uses imagery and inner dialogue to depict Mariams evolving feelings about relationships from a negative perspective to a positive. Toxic relationships throughout Maraims life lead her to be a very closed-off person, this is shown through the imagery of the novel. When Mariam was young she always had a toxic …show more content…
As the novel progresses we get to see Mariam change in opinion about relationships as she builds a healthy relationship with Laila. The author uses inner dialogue to show how empathizes with Mariam’s change throughout the novel “Mariam bounced stiffly, a half-bewildered, half-grateful smile on her lips. Mariam had never before been wanted like this. Love had never been declared to her so guilelessly, so undeservedly”(Hosseini 252). Mariam is finally getting a sense of what 'it's like to be loved, she's not seen as a burden in Azzia’s eyes. With Mariam growing closer to Azzia, the readers see a shift in how she acts and feels. Mariam evolves more throughout part 3, growing closer to Laila and Azzia. Laila and Mariam's relationship was rough at first, but Mariam sees Laila as a daughter to her. Mariam reasons “Had Mariam been certain that he would be satisfied with only shooting her, that there was a chance he would spare Laila, she might have dropped the shovel.”(Hosseini 349). As Mariam contemplates whether it's worth risking it all, it really emphasizes how much her feelings about relationships have changed. Mariam is willing to do anything for Laila and her children even if it means risking the rest of her
Mariam was just something else on earth that was in his way. This proves what Nana said in chapter 2 to be right. That she and Mariam were nothing but a mug wort, they were just ripped out and thrown aside, made unnoticeable to anyone because it looked
Laila is the representation of the woman yearning to be something more, resisting the control that is over them. Time has changed Mariam's perspective. Unlike her mother, Mariam had forgiven the faults of those who had mistreated her in the past. She has matured and learned to thank the little things in
And yet, in the end, when Mariah’s husband divorces her, it becomes apparent that Mariah has an inability to recognize or prepare for more than trivial, existential, or the un-realistic: “Mariah did not know that Lewis was not in love with her anymore. It was not the sort of thing she could imagine. She could imagine the demise of the fowl of the air, the fish in the sea, mankind itself, but not that the only man she had ever loved would no longer love her” (location 691). By being placed in such an idealistic life, the ability to recognize and deal with the harshness of reality becomes apparent. This relates to the relationship she has with Lucy, as well; Mariah is unable to see the reality of the situation and friendship she has with Lucy until the end.
In the novel, Hossieni speaks about Mariam’s mother, Nana, having an affair with Jalil, Mariam’s father, and Mariam being conceived by accident. Mariam, on the other hand, lived with her mother since her father was ashamed to be around her; therefore, she was left with her mother. Her mother was forbidden from speaking about Jalil since doing so would be viewed as sinful, especially given the Taliban's government. As a result of the silence and her daughter's developing independence, she becomes emotionally stressed and committed herself. " Mariam saw.
Rasheed treated Mariam as property instead of an actual spouse. Mariam had no voice of her own, Rasheed controlled every aspect of her life, from what she wore to where she went. Mariam could not carry out a pregnancy causing Rasheed to build anger against Mariam, this led Rasheed to lash out and abuse her. Mariam dealt with endless beatings from Rasheed, over the simplest mistakes, because she was too afraid to stand up for herself or leave Rasheed. “It wasn’t easy tolerating him talking this way to her, to bear his scorn, his ridicule, his insults, his walking past her like she was nothing but a house cat.
This distinction illustrates the imbalance of power between the two, and the fact of Rasheed’s voice being heard over Mariam’s is a symbol for how Mariam’s desires and beliefs are drowned out under his. Mariam’s unspokeness stems from the immense shame she’s carried with her since childhood—because Nana’s death had occurred after Mariam defied her instructions, she’s now afraid to make major decisions of her own, and especially to disobey her husband. Mariam is only ever able to overcome her shame when it’s for the sake of Laila or her children. Near the end of the story, when Rasheed strangles Laila nearly to death, Mariam finally realizes how her shame has limited her–it says “Mariam saw now in those same eyes what a fool she had been . . . Had she not given this man her youth?
Mariam now only cared about how she could get Laila and her kids out of the house and the area to get them away from danger. Mariam goes from a self-centered quiet girl to this person who would kill a person just for a person she loves so that that person and their kids would get out of trouble
“I admit to what I did, brother,” Mariam said, “But, if I hadn’t, he would have killed her. He was strangling her” (P365). This shows that Mariam is willing to take responsibility for her action she knew that there would be conscious, but she also knew that what she did was to save Laila and her children. Mariam’s actions would lead to this moment, “Kneel here, hamshira. And look down.”
Laila on the other hand was raised by both parents except her mother did not focus much on her. She therefore had a strong bond with her father than her mother. The two grew up with the knowledge they were brought up with. My essay will focus on the comparison between Mariam’s relationship with her mother and Laila’s relationship with her mother and how these relationships prepare them for adulthood.
When Laila’s parents were killed and she was injured, Mariam took her in and sacrificed her time and space in order to take care of Laila (199). Mariam didn’t have kids of her own, yet took care of Laila as if she were her own daughter. She cared enough for the young girl’s well being to take her in and show her kindness. When Rasheed is about to kill Laila, Mariam hits Rasheed with a shovel so hard that it kills him (349). She viewed Laila as her own daughter, and she wasn’t going to let anyone hurt her daughter.
But in a matter of seconds that changed, she was orphaned and brought in. She was later forced to marry a man she never really knew and begin a life with him, a complete stranger. Laila was no longer really loved, until her and Mariam gained each other’s trust. She was just
In A Thousand Splendid Suns, Mariam is presented as a Christ figure in a Muslim society through her humble and forgiving qualities and the sacrifice of her life and freedom. When Hosseini wrote this novel, many people were stereotypical of Muslims. Hosseini presented Mariam this way to show the readers that although people may have different beliefs, they are not as different as one would
Mariam longed to place a ruler on a page and draw important-looking lines”(Hosseini ). Mariam is an example of how women are banned from an education and whose life could have been changed by education. Instead of being educated, she is sheltered by her mother and lives the rest of her life without high expectations of herself. Nana teaches her that an Afghan woman has to endure the life that is chosen for her because she does not have a say. Nana even says "There is only one, only one skill a woman like you and me needs in life, and they don't teach it in school.
Maria is trying to grow up too fast and she put her family to the side instead of being grateful. In this story, conflict, characterization, and symbolism all have an effect on the overall theme.
Mariam’s character as being playful to Aziza and Zalmai shows that she is like a mother to them on the grounds that she played with them to bring about