Margareta Kulusic-Ho
Mr. Schmidt
English 3I
March 29, 2022
A Thousand Splendid Suns Mariam Characterization Essay In literature, characterization is a key element in how characters are represented and described. Through different experiences, characters can evolve to demonstrate how unique experiences can change their nature and give the characters depth. A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khalid Hosseini displays Mariam’s progression, as one of the protagonists, who is burdened with shame for being born out of wedlock, going on to marry an abusive man, Rasheed. Mariam begins the story as an innocent and hopeful child, then as the novel progresses she grows from a resentful and inferior woman to being able to defend herself. Mariam faces
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Rasheed rushed to have a child with Mariam, going as far to rape her in order to replace his deceased first son. When Mariam proved to be infertile, Rasheed’s physical and verbal abuse intensified, leaving Mariam feeling powerless and inadequate. Rasheed moved on and took Laila, the young girl they had nursed back to health, to be his second wife. In a conversation with Laila, Mariam’s hidden feelings showed when she said, “‘And if you think you can use your looks to get rid of me, you’re wrong. I was here first. I won’t be thrown out. I won’t have you cast me out”…“Yes, that’s the other reason I came down, to thank you for taking care of me—” “Well, I wouldn’t have,” Mariam snapped. “I wouldn’t have fed you and washed you and nursed you if I’d known you were going to turn around and steal my husband”’ ( Hosseini 178). While Mariam wasn’t comfortable with Rasheed, he was still her husband. In her eyes, Laila was a new, younger, and prettier girl, which added to Mariam’s insecurities. Mariam wasn’t able to resist Rasheed’s abuse or his news of a second wife. Her bottled up emotions made her a resentful and bitter …show more content…
By the end of the novel, Laila has had two children, Aziza and Zalmai, fulfilling Rasheed’s desires for a son to replace his previous family. However, when Rasheed lashes out on Laila over trouble started by Zalmai, Mariam gets involved and tries to stop him from hurting Laila. Laila was surged with strength and went on, “Mariam raised the shovel high, raised it as high as she could, arching it so it touched the small of her back. She turned it so the sharp edge was vertical, and, as she did, it occurred to her that this was the first time that she was deciding the course of her own life. And, with that, Mariam brought down the shovel. This time, she gave it everything she had” (Hosseini 280). While Mariam had never expected her life to turn out this way, she was still able to overcome her trauma and regain her strength. She fought off Rasheed to save Laila, who was being strangled halfway to death. This was the first time Mariam was sure of herself and had enough confidence to save Laila. She didn’t second guess herself or hesitate to grab the shovel to resist Rasheed’s attack. Mariam acted on what she thought was the best action to take, killing Rasheed and saving Laila, her
Aside from the fact that he is not sure if he will ever see him again. Rasheed pushes Laila into a wedding with him. She is pregnant with Tariq's baby and wanted Rasheed to think it's his. She made a cut in her finger and put blood on the bed, to make him believe that she is a virgin. It informs readers that if she wants to make the best life possible for her child, she must sacrifice about whom the father
When Rasheed was beating Mariam because he thought that she corrupted Lailas mind, Laila did something courageous. In the text it states, "Then an astonishing thing happened: The girl lunged at him. She grabbed his arm with both hands and tried to drag him down, but she could do no more than dangle from it. She did succeed in slowing Rasheed's progress toward Mariam.”(241) Laila went to protect Mariam although she knew what kind of man Rasheed was and even though Mariam was nothing but mean to Laila in the past.
Mariam states "Was this what he did then, those nights that she did not visit her room? Had she been a disappointment to him in this particular regard?", showing that Mariam is blaming herself for Rasheed's inappropriate acts. Mariam blames herself because her anxious ambivalent attachment style internalizes her guilty and leads her to believe that Rasheed is only doing that because she's not able to satisfy all his needs. Mariam's tendency to blame herself in situations that are not her fault in her relationship reflects her need for validation and fear of
By this time, Rasheed was done with Laila, he had already been on the edge after Mariam and Laila had tried to escape their living situation and felt she would never learn to obey him. To prove his power in general, he felt that the most effective way of teaching them a lesson was through cruel behavior. Mariam has seen a lot with Rasheed, but this quote specifically exhibits how she saw the look in his eyes and knew that he was going to kill Laila. This is only one example of Rasheeds acts toward the girls, these beatings created fear and are the ultimate reason why they stayed in the situation they were in for so long, there was no escape for them. If Mariam hadn’t feared losing Laila to Rasheed, she would have never killed him and he would’ve been still alive; changing the story completely because Mariam would also be alive and we would never know if Tariq and Laila would get their happy ever after.
Rasheed treated Mariam as property instead of an actual spouse. Mariam had no voice of her own, Rasheed controlled every aspect of her life, from what she wore to where she went. Mariam could not carry out a pregnancy causing Rasheed to build anger against Mariam, this led Rasheed to lash out and abuse her. Mariam dealt with endless beatings from Rasheed, over the simplest mistakes, because she was too afraid to stand up for herself or leave Rasheed. “It wasn’t easy tolerating him talking this way to her, to bear his scorn, his ridicule, his insults, his walking past her like she was nothing but a house cat.
Mariam now only cared about how she could get Laila and her kids out of the house and the area to get them away from danger. Mariam goes from a self-centered quiet girl to this person who would kill a person just for a person she loves so that that person and their kids would get out of trouble
This distinction illustrates the imbalance of power between the two, and the fact of Rasheed’s voice being heard over Mariam’s is a symbol for how Mariam’s desires and beliefs are drowned out under his. Mariam’s unspokeness stems from the immense shame she’s carried with her since childhood—because Nana’s death had occurred after Mariam defied her instructions, she’s now afraid to make major decisions of her own, and especially to disobey her husband. Mariam is only ever able to overcome her shame when it’s for the sake of Laila or her children. Near the end of the story, when Rasheed strangles Laila nearly to death, Mariam finally realizes how her shame has limited her–it says “Mariam saw now in those same eyes what a fool she had been . . . Had she not given this man her youth?
“But in Rasheed’s eyes she saw murder for them both. And so Mariam raised the shovel high, raised it as high as she could, arching it so it touched the small of her back.” (349). This quote was the moment before Mariam’s life would end, she killed Rasheed to save the people she loved which was Laila, Aziza, and Zalmai. But, Mariam’s action would have conscious she knew that she would have to admit to the police.
The war and prejudice against women in Afghanistan changes everything for Laura. Her parents die in a bombing and she is left to find her way and determine her fate by herself. Just like Mariam, she is married and like fate would have it, as a second wife by Mariam’s husband, Rasheed. Laila however bears two children for Rasheen unlike Mariam who has none and is treated much differently from Mariam. He compares her to a brand new first-class shiny Benz.
Her husband happens to become Rasheed. He finds Laila unconscious after a bomb went off, dissipating her entire family. Rasheed then takes her in and nurses her back to health. He feels that because he saved her, he should be rewarded, “The way I see it I deserve a medal”. Rasheed later practically forces her to have sex with him.
When Laila’s parents were killed and she was injured, Mariam took her in and sacrificed her time and space in order to take care of Laila (199). Mariam didn’t have kids of her own, yet took care of Laila as if she were her own daughter. She cared enough for the young girl’s well being to take her in and show her kindness. When Rasheed is about to kill Laila, Mariam hits Rasheed with a shovel so hard that it kills him (349). She viewed Laila as her own daughter, and she wasn’t going to let anyone hurt her daughter.
Mariam sacrifices her freedom for Jalil by marrying Rasheed. In the novel, when the wives told Mariam they found a suitor for her, she tells Jalil to say something and he says “‘Mariam don’t do this to me’”(49). Even though Mariam did not want to marry Rasheed, she knew Jalil wanted her to and so she did, forever surrendering her freedom to him. Marrying Rasheed deprived Mariam of her freedom because when Rasheed tells Mariam “‘a woman’s face is her husband’s business only’”(70), it indicates that she is his and he controls her.
In the novel A Thousand Splendid Suns, the author Khaled Hosseini emphasizes the importance of education in woman. With the importance of education in women comes the endurance of woman. Hosseini displays the endurance of hardships that women face in Afghanistan through his female characters in the novel. In the beginning of the novel, Mariam wants to go to school and be able to learn like other children,“She pictured herself in a classroom with other girls her age.
When Mariam unexpectedly killed Rasheed, Laila was terrified by what had happened and Mariam “had Laila lie down, and, as she
Rasheed however asks her to wear a burqa before going out. He makes it very clear to Mariam and later on to Laila, that a “woman 's face is her husband 's business only”. However when Mariam fails to bear a child, after several miscarriages, Rasheed begins to torture her both physically and mentally. Rasheed also becomes cross on Laila when she gives birth to a girl child. Later on Laila gives birth to a boy, but this does not improve her status in front of Rasheed.