Cara Tang 134069
Paper #1: How Norms Work
Norms, in plain words, are widely understood customs and unwritten rules of how we should and are expected to behave in particular situations. In this study, the norm I will violate will be the norm of walking. In this experiment, I will attempt to walk backwards to and from some of my classes for one day.
The norm of walking forwards acts as a mechanism of social control as it acts as one of those norms that are universal and indisputable or understood for everyone, without question. I've personally never seen anyone walking sideways like a crab, or walking backwards seriously. Walking
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So I'd expect that for the first few seconds, people around me wouldn't think much of my walking backwards, but people who walk with me or follow the same path with me to wherever they're going for quite some time will definitely think it weird or strange. I also hypothesize that while some people may think it strange and maybe whisper about it, some people also won't give much attention to me and wouldn't bother to waste their thoughts on just one weird person going against the flow when everyone else is following the norm anyway. Overall however, the general reaction I'd expect would be that people would think I'm strange or weird and this might show in minor changes in their facial expressions. In other words, I'd also generally expect the feeling of being …show more content…
I also felt very conscious of myself, especially because some people were staring at me. I probable felt this way because I was going against the grain of what is normal, and felt weird about it myself. Also, because as a person, I'm really quite self-conscious anyway. From my friends, the initial reaction I got was them looking at me weirdly, but in a joking way. When they soon found out I was doing this for an experiment though, they just laughed at me and later when I did it again, started getting quite annoyed because I was distracting and walking quite slowly especially from class when there were lots of people. From acquaintances, I noticed that they just smiled at me, but with a smile that seemed unsure or dubious. I could tell that they were thinking, "What is this girl doing?" Some of them asked me why I was walking backwards though, and I told them the truth. When I did, a look of understanding then showed on their faces. For strangers most of all, many of them didn't really mind me, some made facial expressions to their friends that you could tell meant they thought I was strange, some of them were staring in an entertained way, especially with me trying to get down the stairs walking backward, while some of them just had annoyed looks on their faces. Most people actually reacted the way I expected them to react, I could tell that
Being in public and having to hide your face and changing all of your personal ways can be difficult. When having confidence in yourself and friends that build it up and help you through your low points in life are the key. Lucy had that one friend and did not understand how to cope with it. Lucy said, “One day when I had a full three or four inches of hair, I was leaving the house with Susie. At the last minute I turned and ran back up the stairs, calling out, “Just a minute while I get my hat.”
Reaching his time he began to smile and laugh a little. Being in a stressful and unwanted position can sometimes make me laugh out of the blue, its just when being in a situation that you are not so sure of all one can do is find humor out of it. A major difference between us both would be the lack of care he showed in his current situation. Despite trying to always stay calm it isn't always the easiest. But the lack of care he showed was truly crazy.
And so I started smiling at people, and saying nice things to them. And they responded, treating me even better. It felt so
The people witnessing the norm did not really have a reaction. Some of them saw me breaking the norm and didn’t say anything, and some acted like it was normal. I felt that the people were more comfortable with my partner. When Ali did it, I saw an old lady look at him and, her family didn’t really react to him breaking the norm, they probably thought we were some stupid kids playing around or maybe they felt comfortable with him doing it because his Hispanic. There was one man that asked us what floor we were going to, and then he said it doesn’t matter your just going to go up and then go down again.
Everyone would stare at me because I was new. Everything
In conclusion some norms are more difficult to break because of the sanctions related to
My prediction for the major reactions will be the other person smiling and saying thank you. The norm violation setting will be taking place at my work, which is located in Coralville mall at Paris Nails. I will be at least
I am getting some weird looks, but it doesn’t really bother me too
I expected more of them to at least acknowledge and smile or wave or something, but that didn’t happen. This might’ve been because they were familiarized with me and saw no need to. I then moved on to people that I didn't talk to or hung around. This group of people either smiled
I was scared that I would be judged for being myself, and that is the worst feeling in the world. Anytime
The society we live in has shaped us in ways we may not have every noticed. Each culture different from the next, we often get angry or frustrated when a person commits a violation we feel is just common sense. Values, norms, sanctions, folkways, and mores are a part of our everyday life, yet most do not know their meanings, definition, or how they play a role in our lives. The object is to inform of these ideas, give their definitions, explain how they affect us. Next I will give a detailed description of a two norm violations I observed along with a norm violation I committed.
We studiously stared at the wall while one of us observed the reactions of our fellow elevator riders. While I stood in the back corner observing the reactions to my partner’s
My peers were very curious. I didn't get many reactions, but many people were curious. A lot of my friends and family asked, “What is the P for in your binder?” I didn't tell them. A lot of people in the halls just looked at something or me like I was crazy.
Giving off a very normal impression when breaking a social norm for an experiment is critical to receive unbiased and accurate results. Yet, the observers of my experiment got to see what I am like when I have no control over my impression management, so much so that I am purposefully breaking social norms to see the reactions. I was extremely vulnerable when I was breaking the social norm because I was opening myself up to criticism and embarrassment. It did prove to be a good test of my ability to give off a relatively normal impression when knowingly making a socially incorrect
A sense of awkwardness, which soon turned into a sense of dread. A feeling in which I felt that the countless faces were solely focused on me. Although I knew deep down that this was not the case, it did not stop my subconscious from believing that it was. Walking from place to place I would look down, attempting to keep any form of attention away from me. I went from someone who couldn 't keep their mouth shut, to someone was reluctant to speak at all.