We have all tried too hard to make our outer beauty “look good” while we should be focused on how to “fix” or “improve” our inner selves. Many people have spent millions of dollars trying to get rid of their physical “imperfections” or follow trends in order to fit in with the crowd. For example, since the Keeping Up with the Kardashians debuted, some people are even getting Brazilian butt lifts so they can look like Kim Kardashian. It may seem like a good thing to do if you have the money, but what people do not take into consideration is the risks they are taking just to live up to society’s standards of beauty. The sad thing to hear is society’s standards are changing with time, so the beauty trend that may be popular now may not be popular …show more content…
The outer beauty comes from a different source than the inner beauty. Outer beauty is based on genetics, while inner beauty is based on the way in which a person thinks and views things. Our outer beauty does not reflect our inner beauty nor is vice versa true (Osho, 2018). There have been cases in which our inner beauty is so great and beautiful that it begins to light out from our inner body. Our outer beauty may not be beautiful, but the light that comes from the inside will make even a body which is not beautiful in the ordinary sense appear beautiful. (Osho, 2018) The inner beauty that a person may have can influence the outer beauty, but truth be told the outer beauty cannot influence the inner beauty of an individual. A person becomes too identified with the outer beauty and sadly said the outside may represent something that is not very pretty on the inside. Their outer beauty becomes a cover-up to hide themselves behind, and it is experienced by millions of people every day. For example, most people start dating others because they see their outer beauty and it’s pleasing to them, but after a couple of dates then they realize that the only thing they like about that person is their physical appearance because their inner beauty is not beautiful (Osho, 2018). For example, Alexander the Great had a very beautiful body but killed millions of people, just to fulfill his ego that he is the world conqueror. Later in his life he met a man by the name Diogenes, the only man who lived differently than everyone else. Diogenes was a man that was beautiful not just physically but his inner beauty was truly tremendous. Alexander could not believe or let others believe that there was a man who was far more beautiful than him. The huge shock that Alexander received was when he realized the Diogenes
In the article Beauty Standards by Kate Povey, she tells us how beauty standards have changed and how they have affected more people today. “Beauty standards have always been extremely prevalent throughout human history, and today they drastically affect everyday interaction, the media, and the commercial world.” (Povey) This quote shows how beauty standards are still an issue today, especially because of social media. On social media, anything can be edited to make you look differently.
Does appearance make up who you are? The short story “The Fat Girl” by Andre Dubus tells us a story about a girl named Louise, who struggles to fit into society's standards of the ideal image of a female body. Throughout the story, Dubus displays the mental and physical challenges Louise has to face. In our modern society, being pretty is essential to survive. Having such privileges mirrors who you are and your personality.
In modern society we are surrounded by a common body image discourse that surrounds itself with the idea that physical appearance is not related with our individual identity. By projecting this rhetoric we are attempting to articulate that it’s “what’s on the inside that counts”. Though it’s true that society and the media hold too much value on our appearances, it’s vital to understand that though it is “what’s on the inside that counts” it is also naïve to believe that the outside social world has caught up to that mindset.
In the essay What Meets the Eye, Daniel Akst argues that look or beauty does matter in the daily life, that is, people’s life can be largely influenced or even controlled by look. Through reading Akst’s essay, I completely understand how people have different perspectives of others, as many people pay attention to and worry about how they look in the daily life. And people tend to judge others by their beauty or looks to a large extent. Akst’s ideas quite conform to and reinforce Paglia’s points that pursuing and maximizing one’s attractiveness and beauty is a justifiable aim in any society, and that good surgery discovers reveals personality. Both of them hold the idea that beauty plays an important role in people’s life and it is significant to enhance one’s beauty and attractiveness.
The media portrays these unrealistic standards to men and women of how women should look, which suggests that their natural face is not good enough. Unrealistic standards for beauty created by the media is detrimental to girls’ self-esteem because it makes women feel constant external pressure to achieve the “ideal look”, which indicates that their natural appearance is inadequate. There has been an increasing number of women that are dissatisfied with themselves due to constant external pressure to look perfect. YWCA’s “Beauty at Any Cost” discusses this in their article saying that, “The pressure to achieve unrealistic physical beauty is an undercurrent in the lives of virtually all women in the United States, and its steady drumbeat is wreaking havoc on women in ways that far exceed the bounds of their physical selves” (YWCA).
Thirdly, we can discuss the healthy and suitable way to achieve your own personal appearance goals. Fourth, we can change up the media and celebrity culture. By allowing a wider variety of figures into this industry it will allow women around the world to feel comfortable in their own skin. Fifth, we can eliminate the comparison and competition we have with one another to “look the best” and “be the sexier women.” Lastly, and this goes to all women, we must learn to have respect in ourselves and look after ourselves and one another to be beautiful individuals in our own, unique way (Ramsey).
Flawless aesthetics is a goal that many individuals strive towards, women especially. In recent years, American society has been making efforts to subdue this trend. The revolutionary movement teaching individuals that they are beautiful in their own way is diminishing the negative attitude towards natural beauty. Through social media, celebrities and even cosmetic companies this mentality is being practiced around the globe. It convinces people that makeup and artificial alterations are not necessary, and current makeup trends reflect this approach.
Not Just a Bowl Beauty is one of the main foci in society today where selfies, beauty enhancement or plastic surgery, celebrities, and the media reign over society—constantly defining what people should aim for in terms of appearance. Appearances are everything to many people rather than inner beauty such as character and values. In turn, this beauty-obsessed world has led to people becoming more shallow, superficial, and unaccepting towards anything besides the “norm.” It is quite ironic to have a “norm” considering how each individual is different and live in different cultures and such. People are not meant to be or look the same neither should they adhere to a certain standard in which someone else has established.
Your decisions to comply with society’s view of “beauty” are no longer subconscious, but rather are more conscious-driven decisions. Barbie’s slender figure remains idolized; however, it has evolved from a plastic doll to a self-starving model that is photo-shopped on the pages of glossy magazines. You spend hours in front of a mirror adjusting and perfecting your robotic look while demanding your parents to spend an endless amount of money on cosmetics and harmful skin products to acquire a temporary version of beauty. Consider companies such as Maybelline, which have throughout the ages created problematic and infantilizing campaigns and products for women. More specifically consider the “Baby Lips” product as well as the company slogan, “maybe she’s born with it, maybe it’s Maybelline,” that reiterates the male notions of beauty to which women are subjected.
In 1998, people did not realize what they were doing to girl’s confidence and ability to feel beautiful in their own skin. They were showing the world what women could now look like through photo shop. For many years this trend continued, fortunately, in the year 2015 everything changed for the
Beauty There are times that beauty is more than skin deep. People who have beauty or others may call beautiful/handsome may or may not do beautiful things. What is meant by “doing beautiful things” is, most famous people are called beautiful. Do those that are being called beautiful have it on the inside? In the novel Frankenstein the creature realizing that he could never have someone beautiful like Justine Moritz.
Whether it’s magazine covers, instagram, twitter, on television or just on the world wide web in general, everywhere we look we see stunning models. Models that are incredibly thin and can look good in anything. Our society is obsessed with how perfect they look, yet at the end of the day women everywhere looks in the mirror and doesn’t see the body of the girl she sees on social media. Even though women come in all shapes and sizes in nature, the expectation to have a skinny, perfect body just seems to be the expectation for our society nowadays. Society puts too much pressure on females to have the perfect body.
Claudia recognizes that if we conform to the Western standard of beauty, we may gain beauty but only at the expense of others. However, Claudia learns to love Shirley Temple; Claudia “learned much later to worship her” (Morrison, page 16) This suggests that the idea of beauty is something that is learned and not natural or
In his documentary film “why beauty matters” English philosopher Roger Scruton introduces the idea of beauty is disappearing from our world. The philosopher implies, that Art has become ugly, as well as our physical surroundings, manners, language, and music. Nowadays, the main aim of art is to disturb and break moral taboos. It has now lost its initial duty and is used to show solely the ugliness of our world, instead of taking what is most painful in the human condition and redeeming it in the work of beauty. What according to Scruton is the main purpose of art.
However, what one may see as beautiful may not be so through another’s gaze, which leads me onto my next point about beauty and desire. Beauty & Desire Firstly, if something is considered good, it does not mean that it is beautiful or that there is a desire for it. As Umberto Eco states, we can enjoy something for what it is and not desire it. Therefore, beauty and the good are subjective, clarifying that ‘beauty is in the eye of the beholder’, a term coined by Margaret Wolfe Hungerford in her text Molly Bawn from 1878.