“I was now popular, and it was at Tiffany Stephenson’s expense.” (Skogquist, paragraph 14) Skogquist starts with the normal new kid, new school story. No one really knows what goes on at households when you are a kid. None of your friends or teachers really know what conditions you live in, fully for that matter. Skogquist was a normal girl with a not normal family, the father figures in her life were alcoholics and one suffered from schizophrenia and her mother on the other hand was stubborn and apparently not strong enough to take her child away from such a negative influence. Once she had the opportunity to have something to look forward to, she jumped at it. Not knowing the consequences it would have on a girl just like her, causing her …show more content…
Our teacher would always say “Look through things from different point of views, just because you see it as wrong does not mean that the other person does. Not necessarily that they are a bad human being, but because that is what they know to be right. That is all they know.” In my personal opinion I would not forgive Skogquist, I would acknowledge it but it wouldn’t be much more than that. Skogquist had a “horrible” childhood and who’s to blame her for wanting to fit in for once? She finally has something to look forward to and it feels so right and she feels so empowered, but this is not real friendship. This is a way for her to escape her own personal problems. Tiffany Stephenson was described as being normal, even “pretty” as Skogquist says. It is hard to believe someone when you were enemies and then they come up to you later in life and say “I was jealous of you.” Like how the typical cliche movies go. It is true, I believe it to be true here. Skogquist was jealous of Tiffany, compared to everyone else she was just so normal. Skogquist owes it to Tiffany to tell her why she “hated” her. She knows now that it was not right, but as Tiffany (I know it is hard to believe but) how could you blame her. Skogquist childhood was just about equally as messed up as Tiffany’s. Maybe Tiffany, and I would be understanding in that sense.
One person's actions affected that whole classroom. The real person to blame could be the parents of Skogquist. You can definitely tell this is eating at Skogquist and she sounds sincere, after knowing the full details I could forgive her. Her actions were not right at all and the future damage she caused Tiffany could be huge. Tiffany probably never had a childhood because she was too scared to seek out friends, or worse cause the same emotional damage to others as once was done to
Everyone wants to fit in either in school or at work and in the short essay “White Lies”, Erin Murphy discusses how a little girl is being bullied at school and what she does to prevent it. In the fourth paragraph it states, “ All of this changed in mid-October when Connie’s father got a job at a candy factory, news Connie announced tentatively one rainy day during indoor recess” (Paragraph four). Because Connie was an albino she was viewed differently in everyone’s eyes. She decided to announce to everyone that her father worked in a candy factory, therefore everyone would like her. When the news came out everyone started to like Connie because she bought everyone free candy.
Victims also have a hard time leaving because they believe that the abuse will stop because her partner truly loves them. Also, the victims often overlook the abuse because they believe it is a result of their significant other being upset.. Her satisfaction was to not way and for the victims to remove themselves from the situation as soon as possible and end the relationship. The visualization she left for her audience was that if the victims don’t get out, they can possibly die. Which usually comes next after months of beatings and other abuse.
She employs many literary devices that support her specific claim in this passage as well as she provides many clear examples of how stereotypes have shaped young girls’ lives throughout the book. Through these examples she succeeds to use them as evidence so the audience does not conform to
When Donny is performing poorly at school, the school contacts his parents to attend a conference to discuss Donny’s behavior. Tyler portrays irony with the character of Donny’s mother, Daisy, as Daisy herself is a former school teacher, so it is ironic that her child is failing at school as she should know better than other parents how best to help her child succeed academically. Daisy tells the principal that they are concerned about Donny, but that “he tells us he doesn’t have any homework or he did it all in study hall. How are we to know what to believe?” (3).
With her schedule filled with activities and keeping up with her grades she had no time to live the “real high school experience” or as she tells it, that was her excuse. Her life had always been consumed by mental illnesses and obsessions that she had never made close friends or developed socially beside her classmates. Always feeling drawn towards France and its culture, Jenny and
Everyday Braxton goes to school and does the correct things needed to be known as a good kid. One day a fight happens in front of Braxton and tries to break the fight up, instead of breaking the fight up, Braxton ends up being fought also. He is told that he is punished instead of helped. In the short run everyone thinks he will learn from his mistakes, in the long run, this is ran through all of the colleges and nobody accepts him, Braxton drops out. When it comes to student misbehavior, most schools have long practiced a basic system of crime and punishment, isolating the perceived “offender” through detention or suspension.
She seems to have sympathy for the other girls because most of the time she feels almost alone. She has sacrificed her identity of being half black half white for a false image of herself. She has silenced her black-side and prevented it from
When she was young, she could not process the way her father raised and treated her, so she believed everything he said. When she is able to understand, her tone changes and becomes clinical and critical remembering the way he constantly let her
Jeannette Walls in The Glass Castle and her siblings had a lot of trouble fitting in and trying to avoid being bullied. When Jeannette lived in Welch, West Virginia, as always, her family didn’t have money. Jeannette lived a poor life because of this; she never got the nicest shoes, got the nicest clothes that made her look cool, or be considered the cleanest person in the school since she didn’t take a shower because of the lack or running water in her house. Jeannette often had to eat the leftover food from a trash can that people would throw away because her family couldn’t provide her food. The first girl she met at Welch was Dinitia, and she bullied her because she was poor.
On the other hand, The Doll’s House’s Kelveys had always been outcasts and rarely spoke to others. Since they didn’t rely on other people as much and were more introverted, being made into outcasts as a family was still hard but easier to adapt to. “... she scarcely ever spoke. She went through life holding on to Lil, with a piece of Lil’s skirt screwed up in her hand. Where Lil went, Our Else followed,” (Mansfield 204).
The Glass Castle: Jeannette Walls- Responsibility Haileigh Williams Upon reading The Glass Castle, written by Jeannette Walls, the reader will quickly notice all of the responsibilities Jeannette; the author and narrator of the novel, takes on throughout her life. The book itself is a memoir of Jeannette’s life that takes place from 1963 to 2005 and takes the reader through the ups and downs of Jeannette’s life in poverty and somewhat neglect. While reading the novel, the reader will be shown situations where they will be shocked and heartbroken. Jeannette’s family isn’t the average family from the south.
Teenage girl’s desires to be beautiful and desired, feminism, and adolescent sexuality are a few of the issues Connie, along with others, faced during this time period (and some can argue today). Connie was responsible for her actions (obviously) but it only partially to blame for what happened to her. If she had never left her friend to go sit in some random guy’s car, maybe Arnold Friend would’ve never seen her, or had taken a liking to her. I’m not stating that what happened with Arnold Friend was her fault, he’s the pedophile that should’ve known better and not threatened her, but it could have been prevented if she had never ditched her
She states that the only reason she had waiting until she was 25 years old was because, she had fear of regretting again what she had done. At the end, she learned to love her beautiful
While reading the story, you can tell in the narrators’ tone that she feels rejected and excluded. She is not happy and I’m sure, just like her family, she wonders “why her?” She is rejected and never accepted for who she really is. She is different. She’s not like anyone else
I’m willing to bet that Tiffany was probably bullied often in school in the years that followed her fourth grade year. Bjorn and the student where relentless and didn’t allow for Tiffany to enjoy any aspect of school. When a teacher decided to post Tiffany’s art on a prize board at the end of the week as an act of encouragement Bjorn and the others used it as another source of hatred and reason to harass Tiffany. Not only did the students Harass Tiffany but Tiffany’s friend Sharon was also became a target of harassment.