The Adoption Process is Hindering Us Thousands of couples, or individuals, across the U.S experience infertility, and with that face the heartbreaking scenario of not being able to have their own children. For these couples and individuals though there is a solution, although not an easy and always attainable one. These couples and individuals can make the decision to adopt, yet because of the inefficient process of adoption in the U.S, couples may steer away from this choice. For some couples and individuals the reality of being able to adopt doesn’t seem attainable, and with this they may experience waves of emotions from not being able to have a family. The U.S adoption process hinders couples and individuals goals of one day having …show more content…
Couples and individuals in the U.S when looking to adopt can expect to pay as much as $20,000 to $35,000 for a healthy infant in the U.S. Most couples and individuals though, simply don’t have that kind of money laying around, and not to mention the cost has to be paid up front, there are no governmental loans or payments that people can make. For this reason alone many people are forced to give up the idea of adopting in the U.S because of the extremely high cost of a child. Not only is the price a heavy burden to face, but also the process of adoption can take as long as 1 to 7 years in the U.S. This is an extremely extensive amount of time to go through the process of adopting, expecially when it only takes 6-24 months internationally to adopt a healthy infant or child, and can be cheaper. Another issue of turmoil in the adoption process in the U.S is comparing each states laws and agencies, because each state is independent and has different adoption laws. This heavy financial cost, extensive time span, and turmoil that it takes to go through adopting a child in the U.S is taking away from couples and individuals dreams of having a fair chance of being able to raise a family of their own some
The current adoption process is broken because of the outlook it tries to portray. The message behind most adoptions is that it is a way to get a child if you can’t get one biologically. This is a prime example of what is wrong with the adoption process. Not all adoptive parents fall into this category, but most adopt for the wrong reasons. Adoption should be about being able to emotionally, financially, and physically support a child.
There are many children that are stuck in the foster care system because they do not have a biological family or an adoptive
In the United States, there are numerous legal and bureaucratic hurdles that potential adoptive parents must navigate in order to complete an adoption. These include home studies, background checks, and lengthy waiting periods, among other requirements. Additionally, the cost of adoption can be prohibitively expensive for many families, with fees for domestic adoption often ranging from $20,000 to $40,000 or more. These challenges can make it difficult for families who are interested in adopting to follow through with the process and can leave many children waiting in foster care or institutional settings for extended periods of time. Another challenge of adoption is the potential for disruptions or dissolutions.
After a series of experiments in the California area, evidence has shown that children who are placed in foster care are at a higher risk to be diagnosed with an illness or disorder. The time in which one has underwent a traumatic experience such as, abuse, also has an impact on health. For instance, an older child isn't going to carry the same effects as a toddler who went through that same crisis. People have tried to come up with ways to better the system even if it doesn't make the system perfect.
Title: The Gift of Adoption Rhetorical Purpose: To inform the audience about what adoption looks like in today’s society, including what it is, an overview of the process, and the prevalence in the media. Thesis Statement: The process is often thought of as complicated and uncommon, but with increased awareness and proper education, individuals can better understand the gift that is adoption. Introduction: I. Attention Getter: More than five million women of childbearing age in the U.S. have infertility problems (Seven myths, 2018). Or in simpler terms, one out ten couples will have problems with infertility, according to Meredith’s Women Network (Seven myths, 2018).
The earliest record of children being placed in foster homes dates back as far as the bible. In 1562, the English poor law, allow children to be placed into indentured services until they were old enough to take responsible care for themselves (1). In 1853, Charles Loring Brace began the free foster home movement (1), to help immigrant children that were sleeping in the streets of New York. During the early 1900s agencies began keeping better records; making sure children s individual records were considered when they got placed with foster parents (1). Foster care was implemented so that kids without parents or a bad sense of living got a new start with a family and they would be able to live a healthy life.
We live in a complex, unpredictable world, filled with an array of family styles and personalities. Whether or not we recognize it, the family in which one is raised or currently resides plays a pivotal role in their development and opportunities. While we should not blame our circumstance on where we came from, it is crucial that we understand how our childhood influences why we are the way we are. One phenomenon that affects several families, particularly ones with low-income, is parentification. Parentification, also known as the role-reversal of a parent and a child, is not inherently harmful for a child, but it is important to look at the situation objectively and consider the risk-factors.
The decreasing in the adoption rate can be caused by various factors on increase in child population that is available for adoption, a decrease in the number of families that are actively looking for a child to adopt, or other policies about adoption that makes it harder for people to make an adoption. Senator Abraham and Senator Landrieu wrote in the “Promoting Adoption: a no-lose proposition” that only 5 percent of a million couples that are trying to find a child to adopt in the United States could find one (1998). And one of the biggest reason for this to happen is due the lack of awareness for those mothers who could not afford to having or raising their own children to know that giving their children away for adoption is an option. Instead of being unable to provide their children a happy and nurturing environment to grow up in, the mothers could give their children away when they are still infants, and the adoption agencies could help them to match up with a family that would be able to provide a nice living environment for
Single parent adoption can result in several benefits for both the adopter and the adopted. A. The benefits of the adoption procedure by single parents on the abandoned children. 1. The welfares of adoption can be touched by a uncountable number of individuals all over the world, as approximately everybody has been affected by adoption in some kind of way. Neighbors, friends, families– not only a family is formed but also the young abandoned individual will have a Life secured for him and will be able to live with people that picked to cherish and love them.
May 16th, 2017, the day I turned 18 and my child like imagination left. It was also the day I found out why I was adopted. I knew I was adopted pretty much my whole life but I never knew why. Being adopted through the state of Florida you aren’t supposed to know anything about it until you turn 18.
Single parent adoption In today's society, one of the strongest controversy in the world today is over whether or not single parents should be allowed to adopt. Some believe it is socially acceptable for a single parent to adopt a child and that “single prospective adopters of both genders can have much to offer to an adopted child” (The Telegraph Tim Ross), others think that singles should not be able to adopt. In some eyes they see that a child needs two parents so a child can grow up having a mother and father figure to look up to, and by having two parents, one can fill in the other part when one is sick or tired or so on.
There is a story to why they decided to look for children to adopt. In 1993 my parents married and were the happiest of couples. My mother was just graduating nursing school and my dad was working in construction with his father when they decided to try to have a child. Late August of 1995 my mother announced she was expecting and everyone was excited for newly wed the couple. She soon lost their first child, Patricia Rose, to an early still born birth.
First off, there needs to be a lift on the severe restrictions and complicated procedures for adoptions. Some American families who face difficulties with the severely restricted adoption practices in the US turn to internationally sources to do so, much to no avail. Just from 2009 to 2014 adoptions have dropped 60%, not because of a declined want to do so, but a declined ability through regulations and rules to do so (Russell). Thousands more children lives could be saved if their parents were persuaded by the ability to ensure a good life for their children through the potential to be adopted. Furthermore, through it is controversial, an increase allowance of abortions could prevent babies lies from being ruined in much worse ways, especially in cases of rape or unwanted pregnancies.
Gay adoption. There is a rising amount of open homosexual couples everywhere and most of them would love to have kids, but it’s still illegal for homosexual couples to adopt children in some areas of the U.S., let alone the world. All across our country, and in other countries, there are children awaiting adoption and eager parents who would like to welcome those children into their homes but are banned from doing so. These parents have done nothing wrong and possess the same skills and resources as other potential parents, and yet they are not allowed to give a child everything he or she needs, love, protection, and security. So why are these potential parents banned from adopting?
It is important for infertility issues to be portrayed more often in the media because it could help stop the stigma and taboo of infertility (Ghahiri et al, 2015). The stigma can contribute to a higher stress level of an infertile couple and slow down or even stop the process of adjustment for the couple. If this stigma is coming from the couple’s families then it will also negatively affect the couple’s adjustment and acceptance of their infertility. This is because infertile couples who have a strong support system are much more likely to adjust and accept their new reality than infertile couples whom have little to no support system (Ghahiri et al,