With marriage freely people have a chance to know each other better before marriage, understand their partners’ priority, and last but not the least they can marry with love. Many people would argue that youth make many mistake when they want to choose their life partner and it resulting in depression and lack of confidence. Moreover, they cannot trust their feelings any more. Or in an arranged marriage parents trusts the family they choose for their children so, it is good when parents choose their partners for them because they know their children. It is true that youth may find some of their experiences unpleasant and unsuccessful but, finally, they would find a suitable spouse and their experiences help them in their lives.
Sometimes their horoscope becomes responsible for the divorce because some people have two or more marriage in their fortune. 4. Misunderstanding also becomes the reason for the divorce. 5. Lack of faith and believe can be reason for the divorce But we can protect our marriage relationship by taking some good decision to solve these problems but when we do not want to change our rules of life to project love marriage then the divorce take place.
As the couple didn’t well-introduce to each other previously, they does not know the weak and plus points of each other, and consequently they will have too much troubles understanding each other. While it is good to have one’s family close where it can offers him help and support in his problems when needed, the extended family interference sometimes lead to divorce, as an example, Muslims mostly find that their partner’s family closeness is uncomfortable and unsuitable, they want their freedom and they dislike the extension opinions to interfere in their daily life with their husband/wife. Also a lot of cultures think of arranged marriages as a way of suppressing the girl, they marry them when they are still young and haven’t get the opportunity to know more about life and lifestyles. In fact, some cultures, such as the polygamist sects in the Western United States, actually have turned arranged marriages into an institutionalized form of child
The plot is structured in a traditional way as the end is happy like in almost all romance stories where the lovers end up with being united and married to each other. In addition, the end is significant because the couples who got married are from two different social classes. This suggest that traditions and norms are sometimes vulnerable to the power of love among the young generations. It is true that society would resist such marriages between people from upper and middle or lower classes .However, no one can predict what love can do and how powerful it can be. The story teaches a lesson about individuals and how their behaviors are affected by social norms and morals.
Hence their marriages are based on their economic needs and or lust. They believe their economic needs/lust are a better reason for marrying than love. Romantic love is a special right that most people never earn, and in this novel very few characters love purely. Marriage was not about love it was about forming unions between families and moving up in the world, hence women were expected to get married. Pride and Prejudice contends against the judgement of love at first sight, but proposes that the better and far more acceptable kind of love grows
Partners get the chance of meeting each other under the supervision of their families. Unlike love marriages, third parties are not involved when starting a relationship. Therefore, some people prefer love marriages for this reason and it grants them the freedom of choosing their spouse, independence and they are not forced by family members. Although, the view of love marriage over arranged sounds convincing at first but, it is not capable of accomplishing a successful marriage, since it is an individual matter, the marriage is not long-lasting and it includes multiple expectations. First, love marriages grant the opportunity for the person to choose their own partner and everyone else is irrelevant.
Many feel that inter religious marriages might survive only if the couples have extraordinary maturity in giving importance to relationship than their own religion. But when the initial love and fervor vanish in the heat of running a family on a day to day basis, the society assumes that inter religious marriages might face rough weather. Since differences of opinions could easily arise in inter
It is more likely that wives have short private time with the husband and so that may vie his favour. In a few of communities, self-worth of women is based on number of children and so that they'd like to spend more time with their husband (Al-Krenawi and Gharaibeh. 595).It is shown in some studies that jealousy between wives may increase and escalate. Women are under polygamous marriage may be seen as slaves because they wait their master (Marques.140). Nevertheless, there are good intentions and reasons behind this issue of polygamy, only if people can shift their focus from the negativity and start looking at its good reasons.
In addition to that he argues that more properly worldview could be regarded as a foundational element of culture. (Le Grange, L. 2004) state that western science and indigenous knowledge might be viewed either as disparate epistemologies are as complementary frameworks depending on whether one views science/knowledge as representation. (Maillu, 1988:8) also suggest that polygamy is the kindest solution in the case of a wife who is infertile because this is preferable to being expelled from the household, and having to look for another husband. 3.
Arranged marriages An Arranged marriage is defined as a marriage that is established before a lengthy relationship. It is a marriage that is planned by the families or a so-called “matchmaker”, the “matchmaker” is trying to find someone who will fit together with his client. In this essay I will discuss two different views on arranged marriage, both disadvantages and advantages. In some cultures and religions, arranged marriage is very common, especially in the Middle East. Religions that use this type of marriage are in the Hinduism and Islam.