Negotiations are considered of major importance as a positive tool for promoting peace, establishing security and stability, spreading the spirit of friendship and understanding, improving international relations, and enabling the parties concerned to live in security, prosperity, and happiness. This is illustrated not only by the fact that the legislation on Jihad occurred approximately 15 years after the coming of the Prophet, but also by the peaceful spirit and love of peace found in many verses of the Holy Quran, among them the following statement of the Almighty:
In Islam, negotiations are part of the decisive and serious dialogue that takes place between Muslims and others to end conflicts; negotiations enable the spread of the Islamic
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• How are negotiating teams optimally used and instructed to allow for the achievement of optimal negotiation outcomes?
D. Significance
E. Scope
Negotiation in Islam is based on three key principles.
1) Honesty:
The key takeaway here is to be honest in your negotiations. Honesty puts you on the long road to gaining trust and respect with your counterpart. Lying loses hard earned trust and respect immediately.
“Truth stands out from error…And God heareth and knoweth all things.”
The Holy Quran, Baqara Sura II:256.
2) Fairness:
When we look at the Prophet (S.A.W.), we find that he worked towards being extremely fair, especially to his vanquished opponents. It was common during the time of the Prophet, peace be Upon him, that to the victors would go the spoils which included killing the men and raping and pillaging the survivors. The incident with the Quraish, where the Prophet (S.A.W.) told Abi Sufian, “He who shuts his door is safe, he who goes to the home of Abi Sufian is safe.”
“But if the enemy inclines towards peace, do thou incline towards peace, and trust in God: for He is the One that heareth and knoweth.”
The Holy Quran, Anfal, Sura VIII:61
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Lying diminishes trust between human beings. If people generally did not tell the truth, life would become very difficult, as nobody could be trusted and nothing a person heard or read could be trusted Everyone would have to find everything out for himself. Lying is bad because it treats those who are lied to as a means to achieve the liar’s purpose, rather than as a valuable end in themselves. Lies are bad for a person's health also, It can cause a person's brain to get used to lying about things and to get in a habit that is not one that a person needs to get
This can cause emotional distress on both parties (The person lying and the person being lied to). According to some lying may have some benefits in our current society this is shown when Saxe (a psychologist who helped in the making of the article) points out “that most of us receive conflicting
Can peace lead to war Peace what does it mean? Some people say it means a war is over. But during World War 1 peace meant a different meaning. Some people ask what did president
In the essay "The Way We Lie," Stephanie Ericsson explains a few of the many reasons why we lie, "We avoid confrontation, we spare people's feelings, we conveniently forget, we keep secrets" (1992, p. 159). We want to avoid a big argument or fight that might make matters worse. We lie to protect another from the truth because it might be unbearable. A lie can come out of our mouth without much thought.
Stephanie Ericsson justifies the habits of lying in “The Ways We Lie” using firsthand experiences and solid metaphors. Essentially, Take into consideration before you lie, because it could be at someone else's
Stephanie Ericsson begins her explorative essay, “The Ways We Lie,” with a personal anecdote of all the lies she fabricated in one day. She told her bank that a deposit was in the mail when it was not, told a client that the traffic had been bad when she was late for other reasons, told her partner that her day was fine when it was really exhausting, and told her friend she was too busy for lunch when she just was not hungry, all in the course of a day. She shifts from talking about herself to talking about everyone, claiming that all people lie, exaggerate, minimize, keep secrets, and tell other lies. But, like herself, most still consider themselves honest people. She describes a week in which she tried to never tell a lie; it was debilitating, she claims.
Islam is a religion, so how do you think it came about. Well because of trade, military conquest, and political order. All of these subjects are why Islam spread so quickly. In document A, the passage was talking about trade. During 570, in the Middle East Islam spread so quickly through trade.
Also, it can make a person win over another person. One reason, is lying can lead people in the wrong direction because it can make another person confused what to do. Someone is telling a friend directions to the park, but the person is just going back to your home to relax, while his friend is tries to figure where he is. He makes an excuse by telling him you are busy. Then, his friend gets betrayed so the friendship is ruined by him.
When people lie, they start to feel anxious and just steadily worry about it. Lying does that to people because their going against what is right. Being truthful more often could help both someone’s mental and physical health. People may can keep a lie from someone for a little while, but it will soon come out, no matter what. It is mainly used to cover up our mistakes.
On the one hand, I think lying is not always the answer; I personally avoid telling a lie because if you are going to lie you have to be carefully thinking about the consequences that those bring. I know that big lies can be a problem. For example, hiding your relationship with someone saying that you are single when you are not. That would bring so many consequences for yourself and for others too. That is why it is better to not tell big lies because that would affect you and other people negatively.
One of the greatest commandments written in history is “Thou Shalt not lie.” From a young age we have been taught of the negative effects of lying. We are taught, as toddlers, not to cheat on tests and punished for our dishonesty when caught. But as we grow older we discover that lying is not as terrible as we were raised to believe. Sometimes lying is safer than the truth.
This course of action similarly enhances tension between idealistic Muslims who continue to stay devoted to their religion, and hence find a means to project that through radicalized courses of actions. The product of conflict is danger to entirety of the group involved, and hence it is best to find sympathy and solidarity between the oppressed and
In building peace between conflicting groups, negative correspondence examples should be supplanted by helpful or positive association designs. Like Bush and Folger, Lederach stresses the need to change the empowering so as to question groups them to comprehend their own particular circumstance and needs, and also promising them to perceive the circumstance and needs of their adversaries 1.2.5 Conflict Transmutation
As described earlier in the introduction part, I have recalled different courses of negotiation in my life from which I have tried to figure out my weaknesses and strengths. Before the negotiation course, I could only realize some of my capacity and limits, for example I might be good at emotional control and bad at active listening. I believed they were not all the weaknesses and strengths that I should realize. In addition, I found it hard to hone my strengths and improve my weaknesses because (i) I did not see negotiation in systematic viewpoint (ii) I have not had enough negotiation experiences. Thankfully, this course has shed the new light on the wide scope of negotiations and how they should be conducted.
Telling the truth isn 't always easy, but sometimes you just have to do it. Every kid grows up thinking Honesty is the best policy, but is it really? As you grow older, it seems that one loses that mindset. It 's not entirely bad or good. There is one thing that everyone must learn to do, that 's knowing when to tell the truth and when not to tell the truth.