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Advantages Of Being A Teenager

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One of the things which puzzles me is how adults often make this comment to me, “It was so great being a teenager. How I wish that I was sixteen again.” Good manners dictate that I smile noncommittally, however, I think to myself that they must have forgotten what it is like to be a youth. I do agree that there are enjoyments of being a teenager but there are also grievances of being one. Being a teenager today, I think that it is more frustrating than delightful to be a teenager.

Firstly, being a teenager is the best time for making mistakes and learning from them, slowly discovering oneself. Being a teenager does give them some allowance in the sense that they are covered, or sheltered. For example, teenagers do not have to shoulder the …show more content…

Although teenagers have the luxury of making mistakes, we are given undue stress too. Singapore is a very competitive society. Most parents expect their children to do well. To this end, many parents will send their children to endless number of tuition classes. Teachers in school inundate us with tons of homework. Having to attend tuition classes, cope with mountains of homework and prepare for unlimited numbers of tests and examinations, teenagers are perpetually under a lot of stressed. Parents often compare their child to their siblings, cousins, or friend’s children. Being the fourth child in a family with five children, my parents often compare me to my siblings. Most of the time, the main difference between my siblings and I is how well we do in school. This causes additional pressure and stress for me to do better in school. Teenagers have their own personal ideals and goals which are sometimes ridiculously unattainable. In such a competitive society like Singapore, there is often a lot of competition for the limited vacancies in junior colleges or universities. Not only do we have to worry about our academic performances, we also have to live up to standards set in our Co-Curricular Activities (CCA) and other commitments such as Student Leadership. Having so much on our hands results in a tremendous amount of stress on

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