Advantages Of Spending Time With Close Friends

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Generally, some people prefer to spend time with a large number of friends while some prefer to spend time with one or two friends. There are both advantages and disadvantages, but it seems to me that spending time with close friends is better for me. I can choose either to spend time with a few close friends or a large number of friends; however, I believe that spending time with a few close friends is more beneficial to me than spending time with a large number of friends due to the reasons. Close friends share similar interests that make them understand each other, and share their secrets and support each other in difficulties and emergencies. Firstly, I would rather to spend time with my friends because we share same interests; therefore, it is more fun and enjoyable to spend time with people that are similar to me. For instance, I enjoy playing football with them or go to club for dancing and drinking or play video games. I cannot get close and have fun with people who are different from me because we do not understand each other and one may do something that bothers or insults the other persons. For example, in one of our high school parties, in which so many students…show more content…
By spending time with a few close friends, we can be ourselves with them because my close friends know me very well; therefore, being with them I can confide to them without being afraid of judgments from my friends; they love me for who I really am. In contrary, if I spend my time with a large number of friends, they may judge me because people have different perspectives. Therefore, I have to force myself to change as what those friends say; I have to pretend to be someone else, which prevents me from being my own self. For example, I always love wearing some kinds of clothes that make me look attractive to the others, but when they give some bad comments to me, I feel I want to change myself to be the way they want me to be even though I don’t like

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