Rivera, Roi Meynard M. October 1, 2014 K1A/COMMUNICATION SKILLS1 DLSL-FGMR “PEER PRESSURE RUIN ONES LIFE” “No child is immune to Peer pressure”- Kathi Hudson. In fact, according from (Borkar R. 2011) “Teens are infected by 4 million new STDs every year” and “25% of 17 and 18 year olds smoke daily. Further, according www.learnersdictionary.com/definition peer pressure is a feeling that you must do the same things as other people of your age and social group in order to be liked or respected by them. Peer Pressure for the students should be stopped because it might lead to negative behavior, poor academic performance, and alienation from their families. Some people say that it has good effect in our lives. They say that friends can …show more content…
First, according to Ortiz (2012) due to the influence of their friends’ students are forced to cut their classes in school. Students just go to computer shops and play computer games, or even become bystanders. Peer pressure should be really stopped because this has a really bad effect, because the time that the students should be used for their learning will just be wasted, the money that their parents are given to them will just go to non-sense things. Second, according to Ortiz (2012) because of peer pressure students change their attitude in studying. The negative influence of their friends let students get bored or discourages them in their studies. Third, peer pressure teaches students to depend on their friends in their assignments, and quizzes. Students will just copy their assignments and quizzes in their classmate instead of studying their lessons on their own. These negative effects to the students will be the hindrances in their schooling to get high and consistent good grades. Peer pressure should be definitely resisted because if students will not finish their schooling they will not have a good and stable job that can sustain the needs of their
Teens today are fighting a losing battle against stress. Schools pressure teens into competing in tests and even when applying to colleges. According to Noelle Leonard, PhD, a senior research scientist at the New York University college of Nursing "School, homework, extracurricular activities, sleep, repeat—that's what it can be for some of these students." Pressure from parents who expect too much, struggling with school work, applying to colleges, and participating in extracurricular activities all contribute to a teenager’s stress level. More than 27% of teens during the school year claim that they deal with “extreme stress” (Jayson Sharon, USA Today) that can affect everyday living for them, along with a majority of other stressors.
This shows that many individuals struggle with balancing their time between all of their activities and their school work. Many students are peer pressured to experiment with some drug throughout their adolescence. As Moller describes himself as having an appearance of exhaustion, he states that“ he handed me a small white pill”. Peer pressure can come in many forms, it 's not always just having peers push people within their group to do something but sometimes it 's the fact that so many people that surround an individual are trying new things so it appears to be an accceptable thing. But eventually the curiosity kicks in and can lead to an individual trying new things.
In “Salvation” by Langston Hughes, he recalls a time from his childhood when he was at church. All the children of the church were being “saved” until he was eventually the last one who wasn’t. Feeling tired and pressured, Langston stood, declaring he had been saved. He felt horrible for lying, but the pressure placed upon him by the entire church outweighed the feeling of guilt. Similarly, people of all types experience a feeling similar to Langston’s; something called peer pressure.
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Peers make a set of unwritten laws that most people follow out of fear of being shunned. Peer pressure can also be explained as a tool to control individuals in society, for example, “In essence, society controls us by rewarding us when we conform, and penalizing us when we don’t. We learn at a very early age that we have to “go along to get along”. (Whittaker, Liam S. "Society Controls Us." CSGlobe.)
Peer pressure is a very disturbing thing in our culture today. In the book ScrewTape Letters, ScrewTape informs Wormwood about peer pressure. Of how this pressure can lead one astray for going into the wrong crowd. People change people. It is easier to pull someone off a chair than to pull someone up onto the chair.
At a young age, parents tend to teach their child right from wrong. They teach you this to become responsible, so when your an adult you do not have to rely on them while making decisions. In George Orwell's Shooting an Elephant, we notice he wanted to do the right thing by not shooting the elephant but gave into peer pressure to fit in. The narrator felt the need he had to shoot the elephant because the people of Burma were frightened and he wanted to be their hero. Peer pressure can lead people to do bad things for what they think are good reasons but are actually not.
Because of this students will do try for good grades in order to satisfy their parents instead of doing it for themselves to be more
The effect of this is, students will be stressed and annoyed or angry with them, if unable to raise test scores. To sum up, students will feel not needed pressure.
The students do this to because of the peer pressure that follows them. However, self-induced pressure also plays a role in convincing the students to try and defeat other students. Students put pressure on themselves to seek success in school. Seeing the success of others near them produces a panic to settle in, which leads to just he focus on their studies and nothing else.
Besides the lacking mental fortitude, these feelings of inadequacy and worthlessness within students, which may cause depression and even suicide, is caused by social or personal pressure from oneself or by their peers. One of the primary external pressures that most students face is that of parents and their expectations. Though most parents may have the best intentions for a childs future, constant supervision
An accepting and healthy environment is needed. Many people face peer pressure because they are deemed uncool and are pressured to do uncomfortable things and things that they believe are not right. If everyone accepts everyone around them for their real selves and will not judge them, people will not commit unhealthy acts and develop undesirable bad habits. People need to surround themselves around healthy and positive company that will accept each other and have healthy core values.
Peer pressure is quite the controversial matter today. It is the feeling that someone your own age is pushing you toward making a certain choices, good or bad.(The Cool Spot). The level of peer influence generally increases as children grow and it has become an important influence on behavior during adolescence. Many researches and surveys have been done to find the answer to the question whether peer pressure is beneficial or harmful for teenagers. While Karcher &Finn (2005) claimed that peer pressure is the biggest factor result in bad behavious of adolescents; Bukowski (1998) and Salvy (2011) argued that pressure from peers can bring amazing benefits for them.
Academic and social pressures are pressure from family, friends and society which leads to university
Almost everyone has experienced peer pressure at least once in their lifetime,either on a small scale or a large one, in a positive or a negative way. Peer pressure is simply when someone gets you to do something. It is quite easy to get influenced by peer pressure (especially in the teenage years) because everyone wants to fit in and not be left out. Teens sometimes give into peer pressure by doing risky things. Correct friends -are more likely to- play more safe decisions in general.