To save her child from a horrible future, Kavita gives up Usha for adoption. From the text, it can be ascertained that Asha would have grown up with the resentment of her father for not being a boy and for being a burden on their family. She would have blamed for everything and hidden away. She would have never been able to become a journalist, she would have had to be a housekeeper, or even a prostitute, considering how destitute her real family was. In Shilpi S. Gowda’s Secret Daughter, Kavita was right to give up Usha for adoption because she has to deal with the resentment from her father, the suppression from Indian culture against women, and is too poor to lead a good life. In Secret Daughter, it is expressed that girls are unwanted, …show more content…
Apart from being a female, Usha would have been looked down upon in India simply for being a poor, village girl. Once again, Jasu even says as much to Kavita after she gives birth to Usha; “As it is, we can hardly afford one child, how can we have two? My cousin’s daughter is twenty-three and still not married, because he can’t come up with the dowry. We are not rich family, Kavita. You know we can’t do this.” (Gowda 15). Jasu desperately tries to explain to Kavita why they cannot have this girl. He explains that they could never come up with the dowry, or any other expenses for that matter. In Dahanu, Usha would never have gone to school, to university, or any other academic or leisurely activity. The life that she could have lived in India would never compare to the life that was given to her in America by Somer and Krishnan. Even if females were suddenly accepted as equals to males in India, Usha would never have been able to lead a life of her choosing. She would have been handicapped due to her family’s monetary stature. And considering the scenario in which Kavita and Jasu had kept Usha and had moved to Bombay, it is unlikely that they would have ever escaped Dharavi, the large slum where Kavita, Jasu, and Vijay briefly lived. Usha would have grown up in the conditions that Kavita describes upon first entering the
These children that are born an only child who is female is called an urban singleton daughter. These female children now “enjoy privileged childhoods little different from their male counterparts” (Doc D) and
The girl’s marginalization may make her willing to sacrifice their morals, identity, and sense of growth over time and become
In other words, a daughter is merely a father 's property, not as a human being who has feelings and desires. Unfortunately, the male entitlement mentality is a "plague" that knows no distinction of race, culture or social class, and easily turns into hatred and violent resentment, which can lead to the elimination (murder) of the woman who rebels against the will
In the short story, “Girl” by Jamaica Kincaid, the stories narrators tries to control, who we assume is her daughter, though directions of house hold chores and the use of a harsh but fearful tones about her sexuality, so she can make sure her daughter understands what responsibilities she has in a domestic life style, and that her sexuality control will help her be a respected woman in the community. Or how to control her sexual behavior, both which will help her be a respected woman in her community. The author, Jamaica Kincaid is from a small island in the Caribbean called Antigua, and since there is no indication of a setting in the story, we can assume that Antigua is where the story takes place. Understanding the history of Antigua and what was happening at the time, tremendously helps understand why the mother is trying to control her daughter.
This is the same idea of Tannen’s essay. The relationship of the mother and daughter and the words that were used affected the thoughts about themselves. They wanted approval just like men want approval from other men. Even though this is an issue today, some men are now choosing to break the traditions even though the are seen as an outcast of the
Society has only changed to adjust to some female role. For example, in the text and in the videos it showed how girls are more likely to be watched more than their brothers. This example comes from a long line of things girls are
Originally written in 1951, and then published in 1968, The President's Lady tells the love story of an odd couple in American History: Rachel and Andrew Jackson. Stone picks up the story where Rachel and Andrew met in 1789 and follows the story from there. Granted this is not your typical love story but it proves details of a romance that perhaps should not have been in the first place. This book also gives us a nice glimpse into a life of the wife of our seventh chief executive. Throughout the story we witness the rise and fall of this relationship as well as the pitfalls involved with it.
Finally, to better understand the gravity of an adolescents gendered expectations in direct relation to Absolutely True Diary of a Part Time Indian, I discussed the books gendered language and aspects with a fourteen year old high school freshman, Charles Ruiz who was required to read this book, his friend Spencer Benoit also joined us, and although he has not read the book he brought some real life gender issues to the table. Spencer came out of the closet this year, by talking with him a further understanding was achieved on these forced
Joseph Sheridan LeFanu’s Passage in the Secret History of an Irish Countess: Through the lens of Sigmund Freud’s The Uncanny The emergence of the Gothic Literature in the 18th century set the stage for one of the most prolific Irish writers of the 19th century, Joseph Sheridan LeFanu, whose “work is squarely in the nineteenth-century Gothic tradition” (Begnal 27), and to whose name can be ascribed The Purcell Papers, titled so due to “being attributed to the Reverend Francis Purcell of Drumcoolagh” (Sullivan 6), a pseudonym used by LeFanu to circulate his first stories, one of which was a short story, bearing the title: Passage in the Secret History of an Irish Countess. This essay will analyze this short story from the perspective of Freud’s
Due to Janie’s realization of the racial caste system and the structural misogyny in society, the focuses of
In The Lucky Few, Heather Avis wanted a closed adoption. She didn’t want to be connected to the child’s birth parents. She felt that a relationship with the birth parents would be an inconvenience. Avis said, “ While I feel a deep, deep gratitude toward our daughter’s birth family, I was also steeped in vulture’s ideas of what a relationship between an adoptive family and birth family should look like” (109-110). This is what Avis originally felt, but God nudged her out of her comfort zone and pushed her to have a relationship with the birth father “You are like my daughter now.’
John…grant me this. You have a faulty understanding of young girls. There is a promise made in any
The family’s girl may also become a victim as critics will increase towards this girl’s honor. In addition, if the woman choose to have this child; at some points in her life, it will remind her of the event when she got raped which will bring her bad memories and create a long lasting trauma. Rape of woman takes place in many countries, a woman who is coming back home from a long night in dangerous
Whereas, the conservative girls with high status create an annoyance for the boys who try to represent themselves as equal or higher. These groups of girls are classified as “ the girl that never shows up” (394). Junot Diaz quotes “Give one of your boys a shout and when he says, Are you still waiting on that bitch? say, Hell yeah” (394).
In fact, Freymark states in her article “ Let the Girls