In her essay “The Complexity of Identity,” Dr. Beverly Daniel Tatum author and former officers at the university Mount Holyoke states that we are often shaped by our family, our friends, our mentors, and people who are around us. “ The large part on who the world around me says I am.” What Tatum is saying is that whatever the world is doing or what ever the world looks like we try to be them and they affect how we look upon ourselves. Tatum also states that whatever these people say is what can really affect you and how we look at ourselves. Tatum states “ Who do my parents say I am? What message is reflected back to me in the faces and voices of my teachers, my neighbors, store clerks?” What tatum is saying is that how we project ourselves and our personal image the people around us start to get a picture of who we are, if we project ourselves as someone who is not right the begin to think we as a person are bad. …show more content…
For example in S.E. Hinton novel The Outsiders, Ponyboy is constantly changing because he has to adapted to other things and other people. In The Outsiders we see that Ponyboy is always trying to act tougher and stronger than his brother because he wants a good image to reflect back on him so his brothers think better of him. We realize that ponyboy doesn't like the way he looks, somthing that has a major effect on this is a movie that has Paul Newman in it, Ponyboy feels that Paul Newman looks better and is better then him. This has an effect on Ponyboy when S.E. Hinton says “ I was wishing I looked like Paul Newman- he looks tough and I don't.” (1) What S.E. Hinton is trying to tell us is that Ponyboy feels that he is not tough and after watching Paul Newman he wants to be like Paul Newman because he is tough. A few pages later
As a person goes through life he or she may wonder “Who am I?” and “What is my purpose?” The objective of this paper is to allow me to reflect and critically analyze who I am as a person. In this paper, I will discuss my social location and identity, my life experiences and my privileges and disadvantages.
The writer’s use of anecdotes, imagery, irony, and considerate syntax, portrays an incident in his life when he was said to be a person that didn’t exist. Through this usage, the reader infers that the essay creates relatable incidents to the way society identifies individuals, that leads to the formation of individualist, specified personas. Society tends to stereotype individuals depending on substantial exteriors, which leads the individual to construct an altered persona depending on the society surrounding; such as family, strangers, teachers, etc. Somewhere along our life span, we have been “labeled” or classified as people we truly aren’t
This statement is inaccurate as when we are raised in a world where everyone thinks the same and are hardly ever influenced by outside sources, choices we are forced into making can lead to a distorted idea of who we know ourselves to be. When we are forced into making choices that lead to us having this distorted identity we try to fight the identity we have created. This can be shown through both texts Jasper Jones and Pleasantville, as illustrated by Ruth Bucktin and the people who live in the town of Pleasantville. In the novel Jasper Jones we can see that choices we were once forced to make can lead to a distorted idea of who we know ourselves to be.
Whenever people, Socs or greasers, saw Ponyboy’s clothes and hair they immediately made gruesome assumptions. Contrary to these assumptions, Ponyboy was really a sweet, respectful, and courteous young man. If they had stopped to listen to Ponyboy’s personality and manner of speech, they would have judged him much differently.
“It's like everyone tells a story about themselves inside their own head. Always. All the time. That story makes you what you are. We build ourselves out of that story.
Chapter two in the textbook Reflect & Relate an Introduction to Interpersonal Communication by Steven McCornack talks all about what “self” is and how to achieve complete fulfillment for one’s self which is also known as self-actualization. The components of self, as described in the book are, “ . . . self-awareness, self-concept, and self-esteem” (McCornack 39). Self-awareness is the idea in which one can take a moment to move feelings, beliefs, and other external influences aside and just evaluate oneself in a holistic perspective that is not skewed by opinions of others, etc. Having the ability to actually think about who one is brings a lot of power and mental stability in such a way that allows for improvement.
Ponyboy Curtis is a teenage boy who learns valuable lessons about life. Although, he is the one who stood out the most to me in the book, “The Outsiders.” He is the youngest brother out of the little family they have. He has the most dramatic changes, in his feelings and attitude. Ponyboy’s reasoning for his changes are by the forces of the Socs.
Identity speaks of who we are as individuals but it also comes from two different groups: social and cultural. These groups are connected to power, values and ideology. Social identities are related to how we interact with people and how we present ourselves. Meanwhile cultural identities relate to society in whole such as religion, values, etc. In this paper I will talk about the dominant and subordinate identities.
Throughout the book, Ponyboy comes to understand that people are more complex than their superficial appearance or economic status might suggest. He learns to attempt to understand where others are coming from and to look beyond all the stereotypes and prejudices he had grown up with. This is particularly evident in his relationship with Cherry Valance, a Soc, whom he initially views as an adversary due to their differences in social class, but with whom he would eventually come to understand and even sympathize as the story progresses. This shows how Ponyboy learns the importance of empathy and understanding.
1. The movie I have selected for the identity analysis assignment will be the Breakfast Club (1986). The movie is about five teenagers who are from different groups in high school cliques; the popular girl (Claire), the loner (Allison), the athlete (Andrew), the nerd Brain) and the outsider (Bender). They spend the Saturday in detention together.
The environment in which an individual grows up in can affect life greatly. Our surroundings influence one’s personality, self-expression, and individuality, otherwise known as identity. Finding one’s true self is the most grueling stage of life and expectations of family and society make the process even harder. One’s true identity can sometimes clash with hopes of others, thus breaking tradition and/or family ties. Pressure to change will always be present, but staying true to uniqueness will prevail.
“Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom,” is a quote by Aristotle, providing a vivid understanding that if someone knows who they are as a person, it is difficult to persuade them into thinking otherwise. However, if one is ignorant of their identity, it is easy to provide them with conflicting thoughts as well as confusion toward their culture, customs, race or anything particularly having to do with their background. In Bless Me, Ultima, the author exhibits the most frequently used cultural conflict from the Chicano culture in rural Mexico in the 1940s and purposely clashes it with Catholicism and the English Language. The book introduces Antonio who can be described as a young boy who is prone to moral questioning, in search for
How others see you is influenced by material, social, and physical constraints. This causes a tension between how much control you have in constructing your own identity and how much control or constraint is exercised over you. How we see ourselves and how others see us differ in many ways, but is an important factor of our identity. “A Lesson Before Dying”,
Identity is who someone is as a person. People have different views of what identity is and what can be done to find it. Identity can be your actions and thoughts. It’s what makes someone unique and different from anyone else. The Bible has its own view of identity as well.
As I mature, my perspective of life and what it is to be a unique individual is ever changing. I believe that an individual’s environmental and surrounding contributes to their identity greatly. The culture in which one grows up in is a element that shapes one’s beliefs. When I was younger, my friends aided to shape my identity. My peers had a great influence on how I defined myself in early childhood because I deeply valued and cared about what others thought of me.