Indian institute of marriage system changes a chirpy girl to an anxious and nervous woman. Deshapnde is concerned with the middle class and lower middle class where male repression shows a repulsive phase especially within marriage. She also demonstrates marriage as a patriarchal institution to enslave women to a lifetime of male domination. Marriage and so called sacredness that is attached to it, is the strongest weapon in the hands of men to silence women. Marital rape is one form of sexual assault where a husband gets license to rape his wife night after night. Activists, far and wide have raised their voice against the patriarchal bent of mind to look down upon woman as an object or a possession of man. They are against the trends of denying the woman, her right as a free individual who can exercise her discretion and intellectual capabilities, make her own choices in life and play her role in decision-making. This paper tries to depict how the above factors are neatly woven in Shashi Deshpande’s The Binding Vine. FORCED SEX IN MARRIAGE WITH REFERENCE TO SHASHI DESHPANDE’S THE BINDING VINE
Forced sex on wife is not identified as the crime of rape rather it is viewed as ‘wifely duty’. It is a very violent method of man to show his power over woman. It is widespread problem for a woman that man wants to dominate woman is universal and our traditional marriage provides ample opportunities for this. Husband wants his wife to be patient, all suffering, ever faithful and
There has been an oil scam near the Black Vine Swamp. The Red Diamond Energy Corporation (REDC) is an oil company. They're trying to find as much oil as they can without pumping the oil out of the ground. The government would pay them not to pump the oil. A man named Drake McBride is the head of the RDEC.
In Picking Cotton, is a story about how both character life was destroy by a triable crime due to some issue that was happening during the time period the incident happen in 1984. About how during those era how race play in it and how injustice the system was. About how most people were sentences to jail due to racial prejudice or how African American people were not allow in the juries section and how often they were arrested, tried and convicted with a little cause. Furthermore, the author concisely gives as many example throughout the novel about how we should shine light upon the main issues going that was happening around the characters and causes their life to be ruining. In novel, the author by powerfully focus on the controversial issue going on such as the injustice system, false eyewitness, racism and the concept of forgiveness.
Domestic violence can be described as when one adult in a relationship misuses power to control another. It is the establishment of control and fear
As mentioned earlier in this piece, a South Asian woman’s sexual pleasure is not included in the discourse of sexuality, but rather her role as a reproductive being, regardless of consent. With husbands able to have full sexual access and control over their wives, they also dictate reproductive outcomes such as when to have children and how many children to have. Some ways in which the husbands enforce their control over their wives’ reproductive rights include forced abortions, forcible impregnation, and forcible use of contraceptives. Some of the women in the ethnographies conducted faced physical violence from their husbands while pregnant, particularly if the pregnancy was not wanted. Although there is a societal pressure that women are expected to be married, stay married and have children, there is also the pressure that a woman may face if her husband (and his family) is
The Kudzu vine is an extremely belligerent and invasive plant that can grow out of control once established. Kudzu overtakes and covers all plants in its path which results in the elimination of native plant species. It can cover trees and block out the light needed for the photosynthesis process or damage the limbs of the tree with the intense weight of the vines. It also has the capability to leave land worthless for agriculture or forestry. This amazing and terrifying vine covers the South and is spreading throughout the country at an incredible rate.
This theory chiefly focuses on that men are aggressive and use force throughout their lives. Which came from a patriarchy social system we had in place which held men in power in every aspect of life, from women and children, political power, control of property to the moral authority. Also, some patriarchy religious ideology love to take certain biblical verses and misused them ,and take them out of context. This promotes a model of power and control of the women and children in certain relationships , which manifest into domestic abuse (Pence & Paymar, 1993).
Spousal Abuse Spousal abuse is a serious and a recurring theme in A Thousand Splendid Suns. In the novel, Mariam is continually beaten and raped by her husband Rasheed. Rasheed forces Mariam and Laila to do unthinkable things. The abuse that they endure is verbal, physical, and sexual. If marriage is supposed to be an everlasting bond, then why would anyone do something like that to their, so called “loved one”?
Everyone has a mentor in their life. Some may not realize, but we all do. It may be a parent, a friend, or anyone. Someone to be there for you and to act like a sibling. In the novel “Tangerine” , Luis Cruz acts like a mentor to Paul by helping him find new interests, helps him with his grades and projects, and cares about his health, and Paul in general.
There are many symbols in A Raisin in the Sun worth describing, but one that particularly stands out is Mama’s plant. It is old and barely a substantial piece of nature, yet it makes many vital appearances in the play. The small plant seems to personify Mama’s stubborn nature in its intent on survival despite its close to death appearance. It also represents Mama’s dream that seems close to being crushed, yet never dies. As a whole, the plant is an extension of Mama’s character and an important symbol in the play.
Imagine trying to live in a town with muck fires, lightning strikes, sinkholes and constant bullying. This is what Paul Fisher has to endure every day with his classmates and his dissolute brother in a novel titled Tangerine by Edward Bloor. Paul Fisher and his family move to an erratic town called Tangerine County, Florida. Natural disasters strike there everyday, but Paul’s dad doesn’t care he cares about one thing and one thing only, Erik Fisher and the “Erik Fisher football dream.” Paul Fisher is a loving and kind person with an enormous heart.
In society, women are expected to follow the commands of their husband and never ask for anything in return. As a way for women to feel some control in the relationship, they dominant their husband in the bedroom. The interactions between Lucius prove this to be true through Fotis ' control of the seductive act of drinking wine and during the act of sex when she physically is on top of him. This physical dominance represents the mental dominance women seek towards the men. Sex is also used as a way for women to manipulate their husbands, and benefit.
Relationship abuse is a pattern of coercive and abusive behaviors. Most of the time when abuse goes on during a relationship, it is kept a secret because the victim is afraid of telling. The behaviors that go on are to maintain total control over a spouse or an intimate partner. Relationship is a choice or in other words it’s a learned behavior. Most abusers believe that they can do what they want and get away with it.
Most likely with other abusive behaviors, like emotional and verbal abuse Psychological, emotional, and mental abuse which are linked together, the abuser uses emotional abuse to wither away their partners self-esteem and reduce their confidence to increase their reliant on the abuser. Tactics such as criticism, intimidation, isolating them from their family and friends to gain control over them(Lwa,2018). The last country, I chose is Saudi Arabia. Women were the victims in 45 % of domestic violence cases filed in the last year with the Ministry of Justice. They were seeking protection from their abuser, they were physically abuse, financial abuse, their children taken away from them, sexual abuse, all tactics to control the
I will look at how it affects the women and whether can it be brought to an end by looking at what other authors say about this issue. I believe that there is no problem without a solution; I will therefore come up with possible solution that will end this issue. 1.5 Outline of arguments 1.5.1 Forgiveness I believe that if men can learn to forgive themselves and those who have wronged them, then women abuse will come to an end; since anger is one of the factors contributing to women abuse. Forgiveness solves everything and unloads the burden that you are carrying.
According to the famous sociologists Sylvia Walby, patriarchy is “a system of social structure and practices in which men dominate, oppress and exploit women”. Women’s exploitation is an age old cultural phenomenon of Indian society. The system of patriarchy finds its validity and sanction in our religious beliefs, whether it is Hindu, Muslim or any other religion. For instance, as per ancient Hindu law giver Manu, “Women are supposed to be in the custody of their father when they are children, they must be under the custody of their husband when married and under the custody of her son in old age or as widows.