In the novel, In Custody, Anita Desai presents the thematic problem of love and marriage in a very exquisite manner by analyzing the problem of Deven Sharma, an impoverished college lecturer. In this world of ‘sick, hurry and divided aims’ he has to face the common problems others do. After his marriage with a sullen and dull wife, Deven Sharma finds a way to escape from the meanness and helplessness of his daily life. In spite of being a temporary lecturer in a private college, he is lost in the dreamy world of fantastic fame and name that one day or other he will rise to the pinnacle of his glory by means of his devotion to art and Urdhu poetry. His extreme devotion to art and poetry leads him to the indifference to his wife and makes him …show more content…
Deven Sharma too becomes perturbed to hear the illness of Intiazbegum. Nur, for her treatment, wishes to admit her in a hospital but she refuses her hospitalization due to illness because she feels that she will be deprived of the affectionate nursing from her husband. Knowing all these feeling from her heart, Nur like a gentle conscience murmurs to himself very patiently, “I would nurse her myself” (CUS 113). It seems that such a feeling symbolizes his depth of love for his wife Begum. In the meanwhile Deven comes and stands speechless. He fails to narrate the story of his owing to the illness of Nur’s wife. Suddenly Intiazbegum studies the situation and knowing the unfathomable love flowing in her husband’s heart, she begins to weep and wets her cheek. At such a moving sight and pitiable condition of his wife, Nur’s heart breaks into emotional excitement. He tries to calm down the overflowing emotions of her heart and consoles her, “Please calm yourself, please don’t think such thing, please life still – you are ill” (CUS …show more content…
In this mental agony, he looks before and after and pines for what is not. He wanders in search of money only. As her husband plans an Utopian scheme living through pinched lips: “You have no imagination, only going to Delhi to enjoy yourself there is money” (CUS 130). Such a self – centred life is led by a number of husbands who think of others, love others, have affectionate ties with them but they maintain a distance from their wife and children. Mrs. Desai deals with such common problem of post – marital life in this novel In Custody. It is true that in cities like Delhi, Deven Sharma leads a very cultured life of a college lecturer grooming under the crushing agonies of poverty. He often feels as if his marriage has stood behind his imagination like a heavy weight. He also knows that marriage has clogged his progress in life. It has placed him in a cage from where it is impossible to escape. There is no way to get rid of it. As it is a common thinking of the impoverished husband, he feels dejected in life. But he finds consolation in the warm welcome of Mr. Siddiqui, when Siddiqui meets him with an open arm and gives a cordial welcome with these words of appreciation, “what an honour, what a pleasure, what an occasion, please come up, come up” (CUS 133). These consolatory words make Deven think about Siddiqui and his family. But
It is evident that marriage is full of ups and downs, but the way couples manage these fluctuations in their relationship determines the strength of their connection. Both partners in a committed relationship must feel the same way and work equally as hard to push through potential obstacles. Being devoted to the relationship can ensure that the marriage will be able to survive the hardships and maintain a healthy, successful marriage. The emotional hardships and positives that a married couple endures on a daily basis are presented throughout the entirety of the poem, “Marriage”, by Gregory Corso. Corso’s poem explores the pressures and factors that influence marriage and sheds light on Updike’s short story about a couple facing divorce.
Love is when one loves someone so much they will do almost anything for the person they love. The feeling that one is loved is a substance that no one can take away and love is an existence that can make one feel special. Maria feels she is too old to be going on family vacations and is sick of them, will she go with them on the trip and spend time with her family? Or will she tell her family, she sick of going and stay home while her family has a lot of fun? This is all from “Growing Up” written by Gary Soto.
The character feels an almost bittersweet sensation here due to his father not being there for him in times when he needs him. It is a tragedy that even though he is relieved that his health is in satisfactory condition, his father is not because of his own choices of an unsatisfactory
Due to the famous rest treatment in which the narrator is told to follow, her interactions with other individuals is severely limited. Most of her social interactions are between her and her husband John. The narrator’s relationship with her husband is considered to
These two sisters have grown together all through their life’s, creating a strong bound, and the fact that her family and a “old guy” is taking away her sister is something she can’t stand. In the end Nea believes that she is saving Sourdi from Mr.Chhay and her mother. However what Nea does not understand in all her youth and idealism , is that sourdi does not want to be saved: She willfully accepts her fate and her marriage to Mr.Chhay because she finds financial stability and a secure future.
This is what we encounter in this tragic story. From the beginning of the story, the author presents a lively outlook of the village life and the different people who are
His son marries, and the narrator and his wife age further, and the transition into old age is complete with the death of the narrator’s father-in-law. Between these events we can see large shifts in attitudes and ideas, as well as health and well-being. These factors provide clear character evolution within the
From the reading, I understand that in today’s culture that there are still race relations. Even though both groups of boys came from the same educational background and the same impoverished living conditions. I believe his study and findings are still prevalent in today’s society. In this essay, I will be breaking down the parts and discussing social conditions, poverty, self-esteem and motivation between two “groups’’, the Hallway Hangers and the Brothers.
In this scene, the man recalls the final conversation he had with his wife, the boy’s mother. She expresses her plans to commit suicide, while the man begs her to stay alive. To begin, the woman’s discussion of dreams definitively establishes a mood of despair. In the
She tell a story of a young girl named fwadaus who lost the house key of her uncle’s house .After losing the key fwadaus decided to burn her hand so as to attract sympathy from his uncle who mistreated her . The story says “this fateful day, she lost something not so little- she’d lost the key to the house and she was terrified of her uncle‘s wrath.” and the story continuously say.
While people are often able to identify when they feel the emotion love, love itself seems to defy definition. In her essay “Against Love”, Laura Kipnis argues that love cannot exist within the social forms associated with love, such as marriage, monogamy, mutuality, and domesticity. However, in her argument, she fails to offer her definition of love and does not identify love as an emotion.
During the era in which this short story was written, southern authors had a major influence on the way the culture was going to grow with racism, and also the way people loved each other. Kate Chopin, a traditional author who believed in southern ways, exemplifies how race and the characteristics of conditional love played a role in her story. In “Desiree’s Baby,” the author, Kate Chopin, provides an illustration of conditional love exemplified by the character, Armand, towards his wife and child; furthermore, Chopin provides instances of irony, elements of surprise, foreshadowing, and symbolism to prove that Armand’s love for both of them was not the unconditional love typically felt and portrayed by women, such as Desiree, during this era. Throughout the story, the readers notice different times where Chopin uses elements of surprise. One major surprise is when Armand opens the letter from his mother and finds out that he has African American in his bloodline.
However, these transformations have also brought freedoms and tensions as there are also high divorce rates underneath high marriage rates. The contradiction of interests among love, family and freedom has affected the perspective of relationships nowadays and hence people need to recognise their priority of personal
His idiosyncrasy remains loving and understanding, even when his younger son returned home after many of been away with not a penny to his name. The young son showed disobedience to all the goodness his father had offered to him. The young son showed traits such as selfishness as well as being ungrateful. He had no worth for his father’s property nor did he want to work alongside his father on the family farm.
Anita Desai 's first novel, Cry, The Peacock, softened new ground up Indian English fiction and is said to be a pioneer. It has been termed as 'a wonderful novel ' by the pundits. Cry, The Peacock speaks the truth conjugal disharmony, absence of personality, idealism, and a feeling of aimlessness of life. Much has been composed on the subjects and style of Anita Desai 's novels. Diverse states of mind to destiny and submission to the inevitable exhibited in her novels are additionally considered in this work.