Representations associated with marriage and polygamy
Marriage in Arabic culture reflects how the religious and social factors are linked to each other. Therefore, religious rituals and social traditions penetrate the whole process of getting married. In the novel under study, there are many terms associated with marriage and many of them pose certain problems in translation. The difficulties of translating such terms are due to the overlapping of social and religious factors in the Arab world in general and the Islamic world in particular. Social customs, cultural values, and, most importantly, religious rules and conditions make the procedures of marriage and divorce highly complex. Without a total understanding of these issues, the translator
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Hatte sie nicht ihr ganzes Leben vergeudet? Was hatte sie in den letzten Jahren eigentlich dafür getan, um jetzt mit funftzig nicht allein and einsam zu sein? (Machfus. trans. Kilias 2015:33)
Both translations of Gassick and Kilias are functionally and communicatively successful, but the difference between Arabic culture and Anglo-American and German cultures results in a loss with reference to the source culture’s attitude towards marriage. It is clear from the text that, for a woman, nothing can replace marriage and the tranquility of marriage, but the target reader may view this differently, depending on his/her culture. From a religious point of view, marriage is desirable and is viewed by Muslims as one-half of religion. In the following excerpt, marriage is looked at from a religious point of view:
كيف يعيبك ماهو شرع وحق! أنت ست عاقلة شريفة، والكل يشهد بذلك، فالزواج نصف الدين يا حبيبتي، وربنا شرعه حكمة، و أمر به النبي عليه الصلاة والسلام (Mahfouz 1985:
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Hence, the source and the target readers have a different attitude towards the phrase ‘marriage is one half of the religion’. Mrs. Afify wants to marry, but her prospects do not appear to be very good because she is no longer of child-bearing age. El Saadawi explains that in traditional Egyptian society
[t] he value of a woman deteriorates with age…. The life of a woman is, therefore, less than that of a normal human being, since it only extends over thirty years. Once she no longer has any menstrual periods, her life is considered over, and she is said to have reached Sin El Ya-as (the age of despair or of no hope). (El Saadawi 1989: 78)
What is the motivation of a woman to get married after spending a decade being adamant that marriage brings nothing but misery? How will it be possible for Umm Hamida to find her a husband? Despite her insistence that she is younger, has reached the age of ‘Sin El Ya-as’ meaning the menopause period. It appears that over the years, Mrs. Saniyya Afify has found herself increasingly isolated from society. Despite her wealth, she has no social status because she is an unmarried woman. In this regard, Wédad Zenie-Ziegler in reference to Egyptian women states
Whether ancient or modern, polygamous or monogamous, marriage has rules. There may be ages and genders to consider. In early America, there were races to consider. Often, those considerations draw on religious beliefs. The Quran allows a man to take up to four wives.
It is evident that marriage is full of ups and downs, but the way couples manage these fluctuations in their relationship determines the strength of their connection. Both partners in a committed relationship must feel the same way and work equally as hard to push through potential obstacles. Being devoted to the relationship can ensure that the marriage will be able to survive the hardships and maintain a healthy, successful marriage. The emotional hardships and positives that a married couple endures on a daily basis are presented throughout the entirety of the poem, “Marriage”, by Gregory Corso. Corso’s poem explores the pressures and factors that influence marriage and sheds light on Updike’s short story about a couple facing divorce.
The video I chose is about a girl being forced into a polygamist marriage. In the video, the Jones, go to dinner at a family restaurant outside of Colorado City. The family consists of Frank and his three wives Sherry, Laura, Cathy, and a 15 year old named Susan. This video illustrates the bystander effect because the Jones family is placed in an environment where people could intervene. Susan is crying and is told to stop because it is her time to become a wife.
This paper will dig into the rites of passage we call marriage in the American culture, from
The rise of rock and roll, the cold war, the first credit card, color T.V., school desegregation, The first organ transplant, the space race, Frank Sinatra, and the Barbie doll, all emerged in the 50’s the decade. Yes, it was remarkable one. While not all the technological advances we have today existed, one thing was certainly superior; Marriage. The once sacred institution has experienced a devastating deterioration in the last six decades; marriage in the 1950’s is unparalleled to today’s a depreciated and artificial version of this union.
Monogamy was insisted upon, divorce and re-marriage became more difficult. Concubinage, though it could not be abolished, ceased to be lawful. A general rule is that respect for women is only found in a society in which monogamy is the rule. We must distinguish between the affected idolatry which was enjoyed by the customs of chivalry and the equality which was upheld by the Church.
Marriage is one of the most important aspects of a woman’s life during this time. Women play many roles in marriage such as greeting their husband with a smile when he returns. It’s the women’s responsibility to provide the husband with a joyful home. It is the norm for most women to be involved in this type of marriage. That is the reason why most women get married, because that is what
Marx and Pozdnyshev Decry Marriage The Catholic Church defines marriage as a covenant which by a man and a woman devote their entire lives to a mutual partnership. By its nature, marriage is ordered toward the good of the spouses, and has been elevated by Christ as a sacrament. (CCC 1601). In spite of the Church’s view on marriage, however, various writers such as Karl Marx and Leo Tolstoy have espoused a different position on the matter.
Marriage is an important institution in a society and although there have been changes in the trend of marriage pattern, it is still very clear that marriage still matters. Marriage exists and its main aim is to bring two people together to form a union, where a man and a woman leave their families and join together to become one where they often start their own family. Sociologists are mostly interested in the relationship between marriage and family as they form the key structures in a society. The key interest on the correlation between marriage and family is because marriages are historically regarded as the institutions that create a family while families are on the other hand the very basic unit upon which our societies are founded on.
Forwardly, the dilemma is addressed with references and happening globally. Forced Marriages are compared to Arranged marriages with the motives defined and changing of the meaning of marriage in today’s world from opposite sex to same-sex marriages. Judicial stance on this issue with the voices filed under the human rights slogan, deeming over a little on Islamic and Sharia law. The pros and cons in a society for a couple and the myths and facts hounding the families to commit a crime of honor in the name of forced marriage. GIRLS NOT BRIDES ‘Forced marriage is a means of controlling female sexuality and women’s autonomy.
B. Leon Stephen, I-Year MSW HRM, Tambaram, Inspired by “Why I want a wife” a hilarious but reflective essay written by Judy Syfer, a feminist writer, where she depicts her ironical expectations of why a woman particularly she herself, being already a wife, wants a wife, I composed “Why I want a husband”, a simple write-up. It is neither to refute her nor to hurt anybody. Why I want a husband is simply because I want a husband. I want a husband who is the most handsome person in the world with 5.10 feet tall and 65 to 70 kilo gram weight.
People want to get married because they are ready to take the relationship to a higher level of responsibility and commitment. The satirical argument made throughout the video is that one’s freedom is being compromised and ties, especially with the family are ruined once marriage gets in the picture. The video satirically highlights how individuals will not want to marry because of the huge commitments and responsibilities involved. This is ironic because, when it is decided that the goal of a relationship is marriage, it shows that the couple is ready to commit and love each other unconditionally.
Is there really a need to be married anymore? Does marriage actually benefit your relationship, or is it an outdated institution that we’ll be better off without? In this speech, I’ll convince you that marriage is a thing of the past, and that society’s views on marriage have changed enough in the past decade that marriage really isn’t necessary anymore. One of the main purposes of marriage is to maintain a permanent relationship, but nowadays marriage doesn’t lead to a permanent relationship due to the increase of divorce rates.
What is happening to the Arab family today? What are these changes doing to the family in the Arab world? Traditional or postmodern Arab family? What are the forces that have shaped Arab families of the past and families today? What are the family values in the Arab world today?
Preceding the arrival of Christianity and colonialism, polygyny is widely practiced in Africa, as it signifies the aspect of culture. More reason polygyny is prevalent in African homes is due to the fact that children are considered as a form of wealth by the society and a larger family is considered influential and powerful. Therefore this practice was deliberated as one of the way one could build an empire in Africa. It was after the era of colonialism in Africa that polygamy appeared to be a taboo as it was a norm in ancient times. Polygyny has been linked to the positive (the hustling and survival of the fittest spirit already instilled) and negative causes of child survival, but in general, high mortality and poor health are well-experienced in polygamous families.