Argumentative Impact On Family

Do you consider yourself as an expressionist? How fluent are you in showing your own emotions to others? Even if you say yes, or very fluent, the answer might be different when it comes to family issue. When is the last time you said "Thank you", "Sorry", or "I love you" to your family? People agree that it's harder to show your feelings within family members. It's maybe because they are the closest people standing right next to you no matter what. We tend to think they will always be there for you, will always love you unconditionally. Taken by those thoughts, at times, we easily take their love and caring for granted. Even worse, we use cutting words which we didn't really mean, to hurt their feelings. Up until two and half months ago, I

She already had hepatitis B, and her brothers passed away with liver cancer, so we were all worried about the possibility of her getting liver cancer. After she went through all the examination process, we had to wait till the result to come out. Until then, none of us could be so positive, and as for me, everyday was so painful as if I were living in hell. Every night I would fall into nasty thoughts, losing my mom would be so horrible, and I cried, failing to fall asleep. Next morning I would wake up and thank god that my mom's still there, and started to worry again. The vicious cycle lasted for 2 weeks, when the result finally came

It was not long ago since we lost our grandmother, and the saying "misfortunes never come singly" had came to my mind. I was so frightened back then, worrying what if the second misfortune came. While I was sinking into the somber mental state, I had regretted about my attitude, how I treated her and how bad I was. I could not even remember when the last time I told her “I love you” was. I often got irritated at her, whining about the distance from my home to school, pestered her for letting me live apart from the family near school. I was such a bad daugher, not spending much time with my mom. The incident made me regretful of my past days, and I decided to change. I realized my familiy will not always be there, and I should show how much I love them while I can. Regretting afterwards means nothing, it's crying over spilt