Ms. Vera Nazarian, a two-time Nebula Award Finalist once said that, “A woman is human. She is not better, wiser, stronger, more intelligent, more creative, or more responsible than a man. Likewise, she is never less. Equality is a given. A woman is human.” The author Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni understands the equality both men and women should have, however she also understands the struggles that women who believe in patriarchal societies that live in eastern societies have. Therefore through the feminist criticism lens, the author’s purpose in Arranged Marriage is to show that living in a patriarchal society brings negativity into differents aspects of a woman’s life, due to stereotypical, and even cultural restrictions that they are put under. This can be shown …show more content…
Sumita has the mindset of a not so western person, and believes in stereotypes of women being less powerful than a man. She is unaware of the western world, where both men and women are considered, and are treated as equals. When she sees change in herself and her character, she denies it by telling herself that she is becoming too westernized, and too modern. She depends heavily on Somesh as she has the belief that a man has more power than a woman. Negativity is brought into her life because of all of the opportunities she has lost. She compares herself to a, “[dove] with cut-off wings,” (Divakaruni 33), which represents the opportunities that she has lost, because of her patriarchal, and stereotypical beliefs. It is also symbolic because a dove is unable to take flight without its wings, and not being able to fly This makes a her feel weak, and useless to others around them. When Somesh dies after getting shot while being robbed, she realizes that it is time for change, and is a new beginning for her. It is at this moment where she realises and understands her responsibilities, and how she is able to do what a
God made everyone equal because not one person is better than another. “ in the Time of the Butterflies” the Mirabal sisters helped others see how women were invisible to society and treated unequally in the world. ‘From that time down to the present, it is clear that the changes our country has gone through have not been a product of the actions of men alone, but most of the leading female figures who acted alongside them are nearly faceless women.” Minou Mirabal . This quote alone shows that women have always helped men get the world to how it is today, but the women have never been given credit for what they have done for helping men.
Gottfried Kirch, a German astronomer, described the level of intelligence his wife, Maria Winkelmann possessed (Doc 6). He insinuated that women might be more observant than men when she observes something he does not. Another man, Gottfriend Leibniz, a German mathematician and philosopher, described that women who are educated are often more intelligent than men (Doc 7). He says how women are better at making decisions due to how conscious they are. A newspaper article that recognized women’s credibility in science wrote an article on Dorothea Scholzer the first woman to receive a Ph. D. (Doc 13).
It is evident that marriage is full of ups and downs, but the way couples manage these fluctuations in their relationship determines the strength of their connection. Both partners in a committed relationship must feel the same way and work equally as hard to push through potential obstacles. Being devoted to the relationship can ensure that the marriage will be able to survive the hardships and maintain a healthy, successful marriage. The emotional hardships and positives that a married couple endures on a daily basis are presented throughout the entirety of the poem, “Marriage”, by Gregory Corso. Corso’s poem explores the pressures and factors that influence marriage and sheds light on Updike’s short story about a couple facing divorce.
Just because you are a woman doesn't mean you can’t do the same things as men. A reason why this is important in today's society is because women are still struggling with comparison and
The novel Their Eyes Were Watching God by Zora Neale Hurston talks about Janine Crawford and the relationships that she went through in the book and her journey with loving herself. Also, her being content with being by herself. Her grandmother named Nannie feels as if she isn’t financially secure then she won’t be able to survive in the world. Nannie also, believes that a man is the only other person that can bring financial security into her life. Nannie also pushes the idea of love by getting something in return just for being married.
Equality of genders is a basic human right that all should posses. However, in the novel A Thousand Splendid Suns, by Khaled Hosseini, the reader explores Afghanistan’s true nature of extreme gender inequality towards women and how it affects all the characters within the novel. The novel explores how within a marriage, women have unequal rights, undergo major amounts of physical abuse, and are emotionally and mentally tormented by their very own supposedly beloved husbands. A marriage is defined as a union of two people as partners in a personal relationship.
“No matter how much falls on us, we keep plowing ahead. That's the only way to keep the roads clear.” the wise Greg Kincaid says. This explains resilience and that you can overcome bad situations with hard work and perseverance. In A Raisin in the Sun, by Lorraine Hansberry, this kind of resilience connects with Beneatha Younger.
Arranged marriages are not a new concept, having been around since the ancient times, nor are they extinct in today’s world. The general idea behind it is guaranteeing the parents’ choice of a spouse for their children and they take into account multiple variables when choosing a potential mate for their children. “The Family” by Alessandra Strozzi reveals the behind the scenes of a proposed arranged marriage in the Italian Renaissance. While today, it seems silly to Western civilizations to have arranged marriages, doing so in that period was common. Whether it was for convenience, power or just simply keeping up the prestige of the family, we know of these types of marriages occurred through these documents.
The mention of Sumita’s sari shows the reader that she has not yet been changed by the life she will soon be thrown into. She is told by her family that she is lucky, as this man is from America. This is the first implication of their perspective on western culture, that they are somehow of a lower status. She is fearful and apprehensive, but blocks out these emotions because to be chosen by an American man is seen as an honor, and to reject that would be ungreatful. Her father goes on to reassure her, with the use of
In Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet, Lord Capulet, Juliet’s father, decides that no matter what Juliet says she has to marry Paris even though she’s already married to the love of her life, Romeo. Getting married for a young person is the biggest life-changing event of their life and an important decision. The type of marriage a person has is mainly based on culture. Arranged marriages have evolved over time and are still in use today for certain people. Arranged marriage from the parents of a child is a bad idea because it may turn into a money pit for both spouses, it may restart old family feuds from the past, and it is unfair for a child not to be able to pick their own spouse to marry.
Love, Trust, and Family Renowned film critic Roger Ebert has praised Mira Nair’s Monsoon Wedding for the way that it “leaps national boundaries and celebrates universal human nature.” Indeed, despite the many differences that seem to divide people, there are also aspects of life that are present in the lives of everyone that can be used to relate and understand those with a different background. Throughout the story, the creators allow their audience to relate to a traditional Indian family through the emotions they share with the characters and the way that they deal with issues involving, love, trust, and family while still understanding the many differences between traditional American culture and the culture of those within the film.
I am going to extend Okin’s claims to the institution of arranged marriages, specifically in the Indian culture. It is important to understand arranged marriages because they perpetuate societal and gender injustices through it’s process. Okin describes the asymmetrical aspect of power in the family and the vulnerabilities of marriage. She claims that women are susceptible to the vulnerability with the anticipation of marriage. “The cycle of women’s
To be true we have not given women ample opportunities to develop their in born qualities. If given education, opportunities and facilities, a woman can become a Newton, or Einstein in our country. In our country she performs double role. Besides competing with men outside home in every field, she is still a good house wife an able mother and a dutiful wife. Can man compete
In Canada, many people understand marriage to be a legal union between a couple that formally recognizes their true love for each other. In other parts of the world, different cultures practice arranged marriages planned by the family or guardians of the bride and groom. Without a doubt, there are successful long-lasting love stories derived from arranged marriages. However, the whole process of an arranged marriage can have negative social implications. In my opinion, I believe that arranged marriages are wrong and should no longer be acceptable across the globe.
According to the famous sociologists Sylvia Walby, patriarchy is “a system of social structure and practices in which men dominate, oppress and exploit women”. Women’s exploitation is an age old cultural phenomenon of Indian society. The system of patriarchy finds its validity and sanction in our religious beliefs, whether it is Hindu, Muslim or any other religion. For instance, as per ancient Hindu law giver Manu, “Women are supposed to be in the custody of their father when they are children, they must be under the custody of their husband when married and under the custody of her son in old age or as widows.