For Nora, the goal was not to simply escape her life but instead to make a life for herself that she could be proud of and live with happily. Torvald did not treat her with the respect that a husband should treat a wife by modern standards and while this might have been considered a controversial decision for the period in which it was written, by modern standards it can easily be shown as the logical way to end the
Your friends, parents and relatives might express some doubts over your relationship but once you get married they take it seriously. 9. Values One cannot be judgmental about relationships but the fact remains that there are certain values attached to marriage that lends to its sanctity. Married couples follow these values which lead them towards a healthy, successful married life. In a casual relationship people may not necessarily adhere to these values and could take each other for granted.
Both partners have a significant amount of responsibility marriage. But despite marriage having bad times like family issues, infidelity and money, there can also be good times that successful relationships thrive on. Marriages traditionally depended on societies to the person that you love to stay and have a steady home life for raising of children. However, marriage is out of fashion today and it appears nobody is marrying thus making it become less significant and could be completely outdated in future. There have been various changes over time to the system of marriage such as polygamy, polygyny, polyandry, exogamy.
Amy Morin said, “They often encourage their children to talk with them about their problems, but they usually don't put much effort into discouraging poor choices or bad behavior.” This shows that as parents, they can make their child open up and talk to them but never help them make the right decisions. While they want to be more of a friend, you can argue both sides. A child would love if their parents were their friend and they can be as open as they want to them as if they were in school. But If a child does not have authority figures to protect him/her then there will be little to no rules/boundaries on what they can do then they can have lack of self-discipline, become self-centered, battle with authority, act out, and also take in bad habits such as underage drinking and the use of drugs. Now, why do parents become this way?
I’M RIGHT AND YOU’RE WRONG” statement makes it worst. Remember that you’re in a relationship not because of self-satisfaction. You don’t have to think only for yourself. Consider your relationship with your partner as a trial marriage, as your family. Don’t be mad if he or she is not in a good mood to talk.
This article states “ Love can often let you down, whereas an arranged marriage is based on expectations that are reasonable”(Bentley). The couple will most likely not meet each other until the day of their wedding, so they don’t expect a lot from each other. In free-choice marriages, couples will find that what they think is “normal” behavior may not be the same to their spouse. An article states “ We all come with the expectations based on past experiences”(Nelson). People get these unrealistic expectations with marrying for love, but they don’t understand that their partner won’t ever be the “perfect” person they dream
The Houyhnhnms procreate for eugenic reasons, and their marriages lack romance. Once “the matron Houyhnhnms have produced one of each sex, they no longer accompany with their consorts” (1122). This statement shows that the superficial nature of the Houyhnhnms way of life is demonstrated by the absence of profound sentiments such as courtship, love, presents, and jointures that are essential to human experiences. They treat each other with “the same friendship, and mutual benevolence that they bear to others of the same species who come in their way” (1122). There are no feelings of jealousy, discontent, fondness, or quarreling, which indicates an inhuman way of living.
There are many reasons people get married. Some get married for money, arrangements, extracurricular activities, for the benfit of their children, regilion, they might both have the same likes for somethings or maybe simply just because they love one another. It does not matter what you think but there is always a reason. Companionship is a big reason some people get married, so in there relationship they can talk about things, be there for each other through the hard and good times, and practically just have the greatest best friend of all time. If you can get through all these things such as the thick and thin then you are probably getting married strictly because you love one another so much.
Overall, I believe that Browning has an idealistic and romanticized view of love. She believes that love should be pure and not based on any superficial qualities, like personal gain. If this ideal can be achieved, she believes that love can last eternally and remain undeterred by any outside forces. 4) I believe that eternal love is not a common theme in society today as love is becoming more based on appearance and less on the feeling within. Today’s society consists of many multiple marriages in an individual 's life because after his/her husband or wife passes then he/she moves on to another relationship wherein a marriage that is bonded with eternal love the passing of a loved one would not affect the relationship at all because the individual would still love the person even after the passing.
Privacy of secrets: Husband and wife should never reveal their secrets and the faults that Allah has kept hidden to anyone including your parents, best friends or siblings. The confidences shared should must be taken with extra care. A married couple instead should protect each other behind their back from mortification, ridicule and accuse even if its coming from a well-wishing biological relative. There should be an unbreakable agreement of privacy in marriage only then this relationship can be fully flourished. The couples who share details of their marriage life with others; from any type of subject related to intimacy to every tiny detail of their marriage life will eventually lose the best part of this relationship, TRUST.