Atticus may have many flaws, but those flaws are what makes him a good character, and not bad father. This essay is on the book To Kill a Mockingbird, by Harper Lee, and the subject is that Atticus is a good parent to his children because he helps them grow, does not coddle them and tells them the truth. The essay will start with evidence of how he helps them grow, then how he does not coddle them, and finally, how he is truthful to them.
Firstly, Atticus shows good parenting skills by helping Jem and Scout grow and mature. For example, “’What Mr. Radley did might seem peculiar to us, but … not … to him. Furthermore, had it never occurred to us that the civil way to communicate … was by the front door instead of a side window’” (Lee, 65). Atticus
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For example, “’When a child asks you something, answer him, for goodness sake. … but they can spot an evasion quicker than adults, and evasion simply muddles ‘em’” (116). This shows he is a good parent because he does not run in circles, as Uncle Jack was doing in the scene before with Scout. It is evident he does not believe in dodging difficult questions his children may have. My second example is, “’What’s rape?’ I asked him that night … and said rape was carnal knowledge of a female by force and without consent” (180). This is evidence he does not coddle his children unlike most parents from this time period, he just bites the bullet. He does not sugarcoat the truth, and this is good because it helps Scour get ready for life back then, and the risks. Lastly, “’In our courts, when it’s a white man’s word against a black man’s, the white man always wins. They’re ugly, but those are the facts of life’” (295). This shows Atticus does not baby Jem because, as this essay has stated before, he does not run in circles around the topic. He says the facts, straight and narrow, and gets to the point, which not a lot of parents in this time …show more content…
For example, “’Atticus, are we going to win it?’ ‘No honey’” (101). He shows truthfulness to Scout here because she questions if he is going to win Tom Robinson’s case, and he knows he is not. He realizes that the white man’s word has more weight to it, and that is what he tells Scout. Secondly, “’nigger-lover is just one of those terms that don’t mean anything … ignorant, trashy people use it when they think somebody’s favoring Negroes over and above themselves’” (144). Atticus is being a truthful person to his daughter because she wants to know what this derogatory slur is, and he tells her. Granted, it is his personal opinion, but it is an accurate one. Finally, “’ If you had been on that jury, son, and eleven other boys like you, Tom would be a free man’” (295). Atticus is being truthful, and a good parent, to Jem here because he is reminding his son of his strengths. Atticus is a good parent in this instance because he is telling Jem that he is worth it, that he is a good
" By saying this, Atticus is using the appeal of ethos by explaining how the flaws of both black and white men are similar. This effect given was to have the jury see eye to eye with black men and realize in a specific way that their flaws are the same as any white
it's not fair for you and Jem, I know that, but sometimes we have to make the best of things, and the way we conduct ourselves when the chips are down—well, all I can say is, when you and Jem are grown, maybe you'll look back on this with some compassion and some feeling that I didn't let you down." And he’s not a parent that keeps stuff away from kids but knows that they will always remember this trial and someday look back at it. (Chapter 11, page 20) As you can see in all of these, Atticus is a very smart kind and loving person.
I couldn't even tell you or Jem not to do somethin' again. You're gonna hear some ugly talk about this in school. But I want you to promise me one thing... that you won't get into fights over it, no matter what they say to you. " This quote from Atticus evidently displays his consistency in his role as a father, and a strongly moral man.
Atticus like to have adult talks with his kids so they have a well understanding of life. Next, Jem felt torn inside after he realizes the fault of injustice and prejudice within. Jem has questions, “‘How could they do it, how could they?’ ‘I don't know,but they did it. They’ve done it before and they did it tonight and they’ll do it again and when they do it - seems that only children weep.
Atticus is a character full of morals, and honesty. Atticus throughout To Kill a Mockingbird faced many hard trials. He faced many trials from Jem and Scouts fascination with Boo Radley to Tom Robinson’s case, Atticus could not seem to stay up. Throughout all the trials Atticus parenting style, morals and courageous behavior never changed. Atticus’ parenting style is very firm and patient.
Atticus, Scout and Jem’s father, is a kind man. He is a lawyer and in the story he is dealing with the difficult case of Tom Robinson. Others do not approve that he is defending a black man. He says that this is one case that affects him personally. As a result, people mock Atticus, and Scout and Jem must deal with offensive comments about their father in school.
Atticus is a good father because he will explain everything. During the story Atticus explains to Scout what a compromise is. He told Scout the importance of compromising and how she
Atticus is an outstanding father to his son and daughter. Scout and Jem. He is patient, kind, and honest with his children. He treats them with high amounts of respect and teaches them both how to be independent thinkers and problem solvers. He teaches them important life lessons such as importance and empathy and needing to stand up
I think Atticus is a good overall dad becauses he has a soft side for Jem and Scout, he also shows empathy for Jem and Scout. The reason why I think why he has empathy for them is because he shows the need to comfort them when ever he gets the chance, and is worrying when ever they are gone. Atticus cares if Jem and Scout are gone a lot due to the intimidation and the unidentified areas of the Radley Household. Atticus believes that there is a “beast” in the Radley house intimidating him with Jem and Scout going there. Atticus seems to wish that the future is going to be perfect, some reasons behind this is that he told scout that “there was no need to worry” (Lee 131).
In To Kill a Mockingbird, by Harper Lee, Jem grows from a little boy to an intelligent young man. Throughout the book, he discerns many things that shape his personality. As Jem grows, he learns how bad society is and that not everyone is perfect. Fortunately for Jem, this ends up helping him and he finds out that Atticus is a hero and that he should look up to Atticus. Through Atticus and the trial, Jem loses his innocence by learning about prejudice, bravery, and that the justice system is crippled.
As a father Atticus has done everything he can to maintain his children, Jem and Scout, informed of what really is like out there in the real world. Honesty seems to be Atticus rout when dealing with life. In times Atticus will lose trial but the courage he has won’t allow him to give up on innocent people, like Tom. Atticus is the definition of role model to follow. He’s a great father to his children showing the the truth will always push them forwards in life.
As a response to Jem’s crude behavior, Atticus sends him back to Mrs. Dubose to apologize, and enforces Jem’s promise to read to her each day. This teaching of manners illustrates how Atticus values politeness, as to teach his children politeness, he has
Atticus is also very cautious about how he explains certain delicate topics to her, such as when she brings up the issue of rape he says that “Rape was carnal knowledge of a female by force and without consent.” (Page 149) explaining it in such a manner that she is still a bit curious as to the nature of rape yet does not inquire further and lets it go. " 'I asked him if I was a problem and he said not much of one, at most one he could always figure out, and not to worry my head a second about botherin ' him.” (Page 249)These lines show how skilled Atticus is not only in comforting his children but also in showing them how much they mean to him. The relationship between Jem and Scout is much like any other sibling relationship, full of love, support and trust.
When Jem and Scout’s Aunt Alexandra was thinking about moving in with the Finch’s, so they have a woman figure in their life, Atticus says to Scout, ‘’’How’d you like her to come live with us?’’’ (pg 128). This shows he is a good father because he cares about the opinion of his daughter. He honours and respects what she has to say. He is being fair because he knows the type of relationship Scout and her Aunt Alexandra have.
A father plays a crucial role in the life of his children. One modern adage expresses a touching thought about fathers, stating, “Dad, a son’s first hero and a daughter’s first love.” This quote embraces the relationship of Atticus Finch and his children, Jem and Scout, in Harper Lee’s novel To Kill a Mockingbird. Jeremy, the older of the Finch kids, holds his father in extremely high regard and depends on his guidance in life while his younger sister, Jean Louise, trusts Atticus whole-heartedly and adores him despite her occasional indifference toward him. During the three years in which To Kill a Mockingbird takes place, the author grants a glimpse of Atticus’ method of upbringing.