Teens: Barriers Between Parents And Teen

Barriers between Parents and Teens

Ibrahim Bin Hafiz

Dubai International School

May 16, 2016

Abstract

My research will contain how a parent can have a better way to communicate with a teen. Many parents find it hard to communicate with a teen, because they might have started the conversation in a wrong way like talking while you’re angry with a teen won’t make him obey your orders, for that talking with understanding and listing to a teen feelings is an important factor in a good relationship between the parent and teen. When a teen is young it is the best time have a strong base for a good relationship start. For example, showing interest in what a teen says would make no barriers between you and him. Look for creative ways

The main problem in this type of relationship is that parents would not act effectively in different kinds of situation, for example if a teen made a mistake he won’t be able to justify what he did this action because parents his family would see his way of defending himself as misbehaving, which makes the conflict rather than getting solved it gets worse. Another problem that happens between the parent and a teen is that both sides should be calm and accept each other views, in fact not allowing a teen express his feeling would build tension between parents and teens and for that at an early age many teenager seems to have a bad habits such as violence. Violence is one of the causes of being denied by parents, because they feel that this is the only way to express themselves in after being upset by their parents, for that you need to hear your child problems wants and needs to have a better relationship. The pressure on parents and teens to succeed is so great today. Parents already face intense pressures at their work place and when they return home, they are expected to be good and understanding parents. Teens are also under tremendous pressures. Parents make incredible demands on them in their academic performance. With all this pressure, it is no wonder that why a parents and teens tend to react rather than respond. Teens tend to look for a friend rather

This is the question that must pass or must be on every parent mind after every problem that steps in front of every parent and teen relationship and what to do next is to think how to solve the problem. The first thing to do if you were wrong is to admit it to your teen so that he does not feel oppressed and feel that he is being felt of but what he also must know is why did you scream at him. While talking try to make eye contact so the teen feel interested in your conversation its almost 85% that it would work on a teenager and try to communicate at your teen level this would help him understand more that he is not the only person that is being shouted on try to give him stories about how your father used to scream on you when you were a child and more importantly never threat or scare them while solving the problem. Try to express your feeling and intentions and inform them that pressure from work and pressure from life forced you to not have a well relationship. Mostly parents try to fix things their own way but this is why it made their teens go a huge step back. Creativity in introducing an idea is a must a British study said that families that try to solve problems with creativity are the families that almost never have problems with their kids. Working on problems one at a time would help to resolve conflicts and would even force the conflicts to go on another draft