THE LIFE OF A GIRL IN CHINA
“The Woman is not man undeveloped but diverse” -Tennyson. The birth of a daughter in a Chinese Family is not necessarily unwelcomed but it doesn’t bring much joy as compared to a birth of a son. There are many factors why they prefer a son rather than a daughter.
First, the daughter will not be able to carry the family’s inheritance and business and preserve the family’s surname. When the disappointment of bearing a daughter, the care received by the daughters are at the same level as the son, but when the daughters reach the age of 5 or 6, the custom of foot-binding is practiced. With the belief that small feet is a form of beauty and a sign of being respectable.
Daughter’s who were foot-bound are not capable of doing Physical Education which in turn affects the education she can attain. There were no Kindergarten or Domestic Science available at that point in time, and education was not really necessary for them. But it
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It is perceived that men are more aggressive and are most likely to be the target of aggression by other people. This factor has been affected by a person’s gender role, rather than the gender of the person itself. Masculine gender role has been studied and said that they are more associated with direct aggressive behavior. People who violate gender roles of tradition gain more aggressive behavior from those promote traditional gender roles. The aggression may influence the level of aggression directed toward others.
A more masculine opponent was found to be more aggressive than participants who thought the opposite was feminine. When a woman has adapted a more masculine role, it may affect her actions and may be interpreted definitely than if she performed her actions which feministic. The setting of where the person also works, despite one’s gender, affects her perception of his or her gender role and
Aggression and Violent Behavior, vol. 45, pp. 51–74, https://doi.org/10.1016/j.avb.2018.05.007. Accessed 16 May
“Encyclopedias routinely classified footbinding as clothing or bodily decoration.” The article said footbinding was an embellishment, because the females, except the servant girls, do not need to work, cook or even shopping. In ancient time, the only job for women was to serve their husband after they got married. Thus, when men want their wife to have small feet rather than regular feet, women begin to take the action of footbinding. It reveals that the status of women is far lower than male status in the history.
Imagine your are an elderly couple and has a son/daughter that passed away due to illness,or in a disaster and with the One child policy what would you do? Well the One Child Policy was made to prevent more increase in population the policy was made in 1970 by the chinese governors to help balance the population. The One Child Policy was a bad idea for China for these three reasons Challenge for women,Neglection of the elder,and The policy was just not necessary. One reason that one child policy was a bad idea because it was challenging for women.[Anthropologist Vanessa] Fang argues that this generation of urban singleton girls have been empowered to challenge some of the gender norms that have been long dominated by the chinese life [Document D].Nonetheless an,April [2009] study published in British Medical Journal found china still has 32 million more boys than girls under the age 20.[Document E].
As seen in Greenhalgh’s and Winckler’s book, the one-child policy resulted in many single daughters, who received all the attention from their parents and while it may have been a blessing to some, many of the “hottest and best paying jobs… are open exclusively to young women with good looks and sex appeal,” (Doc D). This statement portrays that women are thought of as objects, with prospective employers only looking at their physical appearance, not caring for their education of inner self. However, this also portrays the gender inequality exhibited by China, and shows that women in China only receive jobs because of how they look. This compares to Fitzpatrick’s article, as the practice of female infanticide, killing female infants, also became common practice in some area’s after the one-child policy was put into use (Doc E). It had long been known in China, that boys were more valuable than girls, and this practice further goes to show the chasm, between boys and girls in Chinese society.
When we talk about masculinity in America today we theorize that violence that happens more often than we like, from mass shootings or crime in general, including rape and murders in the real world and in the virtual thrill world of videogames and movies we find a parallel connection of masculinity as violent. Even though an overwhelming majority of violence is committed by men and boys we as americans rarely connect gender as a major key in violence. But when we lay out the plane lines about culture of violence were almost always hinting that it is a masculine trait that is a taught behavior. The modern society has conjured up the idea of the ideal man, that showing emotions is wrong but one must be charming, seeming smartish but more of an attitude of control showing that manhood has a hierarchy. Weakening the not so tough guy, society giving them labels to show they are outside of the gender binary.
In the second except, Injustices to Chinese Women by Qiu Jin, Jin introduced us to the hardships and unfair treatments that the women have to face under the Chinese society. In the beginning of her except, Jin basically stated that it is unlucky to be born as a girl in China. Throughout her descriptions, China was a male orientated society. Her statement about how men would kill their own children, just because they were born with a female gender, shows that women in China faced their injustices since the moment they got out of their wombs. Not only that, the beauty standard in China is really cruel and painful, as women have to bind their feet, as no men want to marry women with big feet.
Additionally, how violent someone is also has to do with how they are raised and the environment they grow up in. People’s genetics and physical characteristics may play a role in making them at higher risk for becoming criminals, but I certainly do not believe they are the primary cause in a person’s violent nature. Men are expected to be more aggressive than women, and to fit in, they become more aggressive. The documentary referred to this phenomenon as gender policing.
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