What does it mean to be a black family? In todays society a typical black family would be described as a single parent home, drug and/or alcohol abuse, or being on welfare (Stereotypes of African Americans). However, not all black families are structured as such. I believe every black family is different. For instance, my mom’s family, the Turners, have different patterns, values, beliefs, and traditions than my dad’s family, the Jeffries.
The Turners The Turner family began in Spartanburg, South Carolina. The Turners are a multigenerational family. Therefore meaning there are 4 generations that provide support and care for each other (Martin & Martin). The first generation consists of my great grandmother and great grandfather when they
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Although 3 out of the 11 grandchildren resided in Washington, DC,
FAMILY ANALYSIS the cousins still had a bond that was outstanding. The DC kids would get sent down south almost every summer to spend summer vacation with their grandparents, aunts and uncles, and cousins that they don’t see on the regular. Although the grandparents didn’t have much the cousins still enjoyed spending time together. For instance, they would oddly enjoy packing up in Granddad’s car during the summer. Although he would drive really slow. To this day they laugh about having to do that. Followed by the third generation was the fourth generation (my generation), which consists of 12 great grandchildren. Of the twelve I was the only one who didn’t reside in South Carolina. Although sometimes I felt as though that would affect my relationship with my cousins it didn’t. With that being said new traditions were created, such as spending holidays down south and family trips. Not to mention just like the previous generation I would spend a lot of my summers down
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As for the other 7 they have good jobs or went to trade school. On a count of only 3 of us went to college out of ten we enforce school on to the fourth generation. The fourth generation as of right now has six great grandchildren. Although they are all pretty young right now the previous generations take their schooling very serious.
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Although both sides of my families are different they also have similarities. For instance, both families finding their bonding time during the traditional trips that we take. With that being said the patterns, traditions, beliefs that has been passed down for generation to generation in the Turners and Jeffries families I will pass down to my own family. The most important thing my family has taught me is no matter how far or what we go through during life we will all always be there for each other. Isn’t that what’s family all
There are many open wounds in the African-American community that have not healed what so ever. Disintegration of family structures in the African-American community has been a persistent problem for far too long. High out of wedlock birth rates, absent fathers, and the lack of a family support network for many young African-Americans have led to serious problems in America's urban areas. The persistence of serious social problems in inner-city areas has led to a tragic perpetuation of racial prejudice as well. African Americans still face a litany of problems in the 21st century today.
Their parents were well educated by white standards and were employed. Even though they were raised in a high status environment, the women were taught to respect black people. The ladies in "Growing up White in the 1930s" talk about what made a "good family" in the South. What do they say makes a "good family"?
My grandmother never knew her grandparents. They had all passed before she ever got the opportunity to meet them and converse about their family’s history. She regrets not getting to see her grandparents and says that that is the reason she tries to be the best grandmother she can
Interview Questions for African American Families Please find a person of African American descent to interview. The person needs to at least 21 years of age. Please inform the person that this interview is for an assignment in class (educational purposes only) and the information provided will remain confidential. Please try to obtain more than “sound bites” yes/no answers. Asked follow up questions if the interviewee’s answers are too brief (ex: Can you please provide an example or elaborate, tell me more etc..).
They found it crucial to continue their beliefs and traditions. They believed they were effective and kept them content. Some examples of these traditions were the Naming Ceremony, tribal dances, and their Dreaming Journey. Along with all this, the quote talks about telling their grandchildren the ways of their people. This is because it was one of their culture’s customs.
The tradition of education in the African American culture implies the cultural values of the better opportunities for the family. Education provides an efficient ways to avoid the struggles that other African American’s families had to endure to provide a stable life for their families. An understanding of your ethnic culture
#3-Examining how death and the losses were addressed within my African American family is openly discussed and always some one’s fault. The experience of my grandmothers death relates to the statistics of the life expectations of African America. According to (Walsh 2004 p. 56) African American woman life expectancy for older adults is 70.2 years and African American men life span is 66.1 according to the national Vital Statistics Report (Volume, 47 NO.28). My grandmother died young
Doning the title as a hispanic goes far beyond how one looks and speaks, but rather how one conducts himself through every step of their life. I greatly contribute my hispanic roots in shaping me into the young man I am today. The morals and traditions instilled in me such as my unparalleled work ethic and family values leach from my upcoming in a strong hispanic lifestyle. My Grandmother and her family immigrated from Mexico at an early age in a dire attempt to discover a life that bettered their quality of life. She had to tolerate working in fields to make money that then fed her at night.
What does it mean to be black? This a question that many black children seem to ask themselves as they are growing up. There is a popularization of black culture in America. From the music that people listen to, to television shows, movies, dances and various other things, the black culture is entertaining for all. African American children who grow up in a predominantly suburban area with many different races are always searching for their racial identity.
Usually in African American communities you hear a wise saying “it takes a village to raise a child” and that that is exactly how it was. My friends and I were always watched by older neighbors around us. We knew to respect them and also knew they had our best interest. The candy lady down the street always gave us free treats if we brought her good grades on report card day. Although we may not have had a lot we had love.
Normally, the more educated the lady, the more probable she is to wed. Yet, a school taught black lady is not any more liable to have a spouse than a poor Caucasian lady with scarcely a secondary school certificate. With regards to shaping a family, black ladies are not profiting from cutting edge training — nor are they passing those advantages onto the cutting edge. His contentions lie in the sexual orientation unevenness inside of the African American group — where two African American females move on from school for each one African American male. In spite of this irregularity, there is still huge social weight on dark ladies to just marry black men — to "support" the race and manufacture solid black families.
Previous generations help define who we are. We can try to ignore them or celebrate them for passing down important traditions, but they will always exist. They influence the way we tend to behave and the interactions we have with those around us. The previous generations may be separated by age or technology, but they can also be strongly connected through important principles. This is illustrated in two short stories discussing the interactions that characters have with others from different generations.
“Family” is a hard word to create a concrete definition for. If one were to ask three random people on the street, it is likely they will receive three completely different answers to defining a family. The textbook definition of family according to the etymology dictionary is: “Origin in early 15c. “servants of a household” from Latin familia “family servants, domestics collectively, the servants in a household.” The traditional dictionary describes family in a more narrow fashion stating, “a basic social unit consisting of parents and their children, considered as a group, whether dwelling together or not.”
Through all the tough and terrible situations a person may be wrapped up in your family is usually the group of people you can go to, and get the best most helpful advice. In my family I have certain people that I can automatically go to and tell them my problems without being judged, and I always get the best advice. People in your family are the people you keep closest to you because they are blood, and they’re not friends that come and go. They are blood and will always be apart of you and want nothing but the best for you. People in a family that give the best advice are the ones who have gone through so many battles in their life because they know what it takes to overcome them.
Whether it's making up new games, telling jokes at the bonfire, or saying grace before dinner, the Downey family always sticks together as a unit. I am one of 6 members of my immediate family, but the Downey clan extends much farther than that. With over 20 cousins, it can get pretty chaotic at times. Although we are one of the crazier bunches, it's a great environment to grow up in. Once a week during every summer the entire Downey family meets up at our cottage in northern Michigan.