CHAPTER I
INTRODUCTION
According to The Book of List, out of fourteen human fears, speaking in front of a group is the worst-surpassing even death which ranks seventh. However, speaking in public is an experience that many people go through at least once in their life. It is a necessary skill honed from pre-school to college in order to help students flourish in their chosen disciplines. By training how to effectively express opinions, suggestions and criticisms to other people, they can further contribute to the business or company they would apply to. In school, training comes in the form of reports, recitations, projects or other extracurricular activities that requires interaction and communication. However, even with this continuous exposure, many are still nervous in verbalizing or speaking out in public. This anxiousness may come from a
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Fortunately, there are various techniques invented in order to help assuage the fear 's manifestations and causes.
There are five causes for the fear in public speaking (Radwan, n.d.). It is the fear of embarrassment, humiliation, being seen while afraid, judgment, and appearing weak. First is the fear of embarrassment. In Wikipedia, embarrassment is defined as “an emotional state of intense discomfort with oneself, experienced when having a socially unacceptable act or condition witnessed by or revealed to others.” People are generally afraid to look like a fool or to make
Post Jake Levy is a 31 years of age Caucasian male, who is married to Sheri a 28 years of age Caucasian female they have two sons, Myles is a 10 years of age Caucasian male and Levi who is an 8years of age Caucasian male. Jake is an Iraq War veteran and employed as a human resources assistance for the military. Seri teaches special education at a local elementary school. It was mention within this case study that Jake, as well as, Sheri used marijuana and the past, but now they are both social drinkers.
All humans fear judgement. The nature of some people also makes it impossible to live freely, as they can be oppressive. When we are in an environment with those we fear will judge us, we put our mask back on, and make an effort to keep it on. The goal is to meet the incredibly unreasonable standards of society, and anything below is unacceptable. If one were to meet the standards, they would be, put simply, not human.
Giving a speech whether being for the public or not, offers personal, professional, and public benefits for the individual. The individual might find it easier to obtain a profession, build better relationships amongst peers, or even propel social movements by carefully constructing and delivering a well thought out speech. A speech needs to be excellent in order to do such things; it needs to have a clear concise thesis, a preview statement, a great organizational pattern, supporting material, memory, delivery and good representation of oneself. Thus, during the process of constructing and delivering a speech, one must have those aspects. This will ensure the speaker will deliver a powerful and moving speech.
After being chosen as the President of National Honor Society, the most active club at my school, one of my duties was inducting the new members each year. I remember the butterflies in my stomach as I looked out at all the NHS members and their parents sitting in the huge auditorium. My principal and head of school were both keenly listening to me speak as I prayed not to stutter on any words. However, with every word that left my mouth, I felt my level of confidence rising. After finishing off strong and hearing the roar of applause, I realized that effective public speaking is a vital leadership skill that I definitely
One of the things I believe has contributed to this is growing up being on stage and being comfortable. When you are little, you're fearless, so starting to do something that a lot of people fear at such a fearless age and then growing from there, it never really gave me an opportunity or reason to fear being on stage or performing in front of people.” “Through dance I have built a lot of strong relationships. I have built a lifelong connection with my dance teachers as well as had some great times with my dance team. I have had the privilege of getting to dance with some girls for 12 plus years and others just a few years
I’m not an orator, nor am I a scholar. Though I do enjoy a good debate and engaging in intellectual conversations ; I feel like I am never “good-enough”. I always seem to find myself comparing myself to others. Whether it’s my grades or appearance. I never feel worthy.
Which can mean you can be more or less formal in different situations. When leading a group activity children need you to be a lot firmer and take on a leadership role, to give clear, concise instructions, they need you to take control over behaviour to prevent distractions to learning. However in a busy classroom, you may be able to have more relaxed chatty conversations, where they may bring up problems such as fall outs between themselves and others and chat to you about what they did last night. Communication differences are barriers to effective speaking such as speech and language impairments, cultural differences or sensory
Compare and contrast Fear is like a disease, it will worsen, and spread until your ability to think has vanished and you begin to die. Fear is a powerful tool used by many authors to create good stories. Many elements contribute to making the idea of fear in story too.an example of fear in stories is the The Lottery by Shirley Jackson and Examination Day by Henry Slesar. The Lottery takes place at a village that hosts a lottery every year. The main character, tessa, wins it and gets stoned to death due to tradition.
Describe the communication requirements of different audiences Knowing your audience helps you to choose which form of communication to use, for example, if I was speaking to a child I would speak calmly with a slightly high pitched voice as its more soothing towards the child, where as if I was talking to a teacher I would speak in my normal tone, depending on my relationship with the teacher, where as if I was talking to someone very important I would speak in a polite, professional manner. Different audiences require different communication styles. When communicating with other people, it is important to adapt to meet their needs. If you are trying to pass on information to someone outside of your department, it would be impractical to use technical jargon that they would not normally come across or use. When speaking to a customer who is upset or angry, you should remain calm and ensure that the instructions you give them are completely understood in order to avoid further confusion.
Rationale Written task: Britt Wesseling I have chosen a ted talk as my text type, because I think this is a great opportunity to advice people on how to be a great public speaker. The ted talk shows several techniques on how you can be a good public speaker. Being a good public speaker is having the ability to persuade and influence your audience in order to send your message. Great leaders are one of the best examples, because their goal is of course to inspire and activate the listeners.
When I was growing up I feared failing. The worst part of failing was that I could usually tell I had already failed before it was over. I would get an uneasy feeling in the pit of my stomach or not having complete faith in the work I did makes me not have faith in my work. Public speaking by myself is the biggest fear that I have, I can do almost any speech or presentation if I am in a group. Singing is one of my passions and I love for people to hear me, but not by myself.
Speak Essay “My head explodes with the noise of fire trucks leaving the station” (39). The book Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson shows Melinda being both courageous and having lack of courage. Melinda does go through some tough stages in the book, but is still shows courage sometimes. Some of her lack of courage does come from a traumatic experience at a party before her freshman year of high school. The first way Melinda shows lack of courage is at a party during the summer going into her first year of high school.
"No matter what profession or role my child chooses she will more than likely, at some point, need to be able to speak or conduct herself confidently in front of others—whether it be on the PTA, as a stay-at-home mom, or in front of a Board of Directors of a large corporation." (Wendy McElroy). In life, people will need to learn how to communicate to others in both large and small groups. “Women that are in beauty pageants like Miss. America, contribute in many community services like homeless shelters and food drives.” (Horton, Becca).
As students, presentations are something that is required in most classes yet, students do not see themselves as public speakers. Throughout high school and now in college, I have had to present material in 80 percent of the classes that I have taken. Presenting was, and still is something that I struggle with no matter how big or how small the group is that I am presenting to. I knew that Public Speaking was a required class for me so, rather than putting it off, I decided to go ahead and get it out of the was as soon as possible. Speaking in front of people is out of my comfort zone.
Introduction: The process of communicating successfully with our family, friends, co-workers, business associates and people is one of the most critical skills. Communication is such a key part of life that I often tell to a person that “Its no use of someone if he/she really don’t know by associates people in their work place or area of field”. Communication makes us to be known of others, good or bad that depends on usability of a person communication. And, it is up to each of us to learn to communicate well with those who are important to us.