Short Essay On Conflict Among Teenagers

A conflict is shared between many teenagers. Teenagers coming close to the age of adulthood trying to get a sense or a need to become independent. They feel a pressure of growing, finding a path which they will live on for possibly the rest of their lives. Not all understand fully the difficulty of starting their own lives without help of their parents. Teenagers often attempt to break away from living under the umbrella of their parent’s world before they have the maturity to function alone and this attempt is in actuality a misguided gesture as teenagers often fail to recognize the authentic realities and harshness of the real world.
As teenagers are more exposed to the world and taste independence, they feel as if that can handle anything

Most teenagers do not realize that they are in a “crisis impaired” situation. They do not realize what they are going to get into or what it is going to be ahead of them, how the world is going to treat them and grow as an independent individual. They do not comprehend the position in which they will stand where they have to set goals, act or speak for themselves, and contemplate about the course of actions they must take to get to a certain point. For example, “The girls, and who 'd blame them, are in a hurry to get out, so I say "I quit" to Lengel quick enough for them to hear, hoping they 'll stop and watch me, their unsuspected hero” (4). Sammy did not contemplate the idea of what was going to happen after he quit, what he was going to do, or if he had any idea at all on what to do next. Sammy could have set a goal the way Stokesie set his to become manager, thinking of a goal and doing for himself rather for attention of some random girl.
Teenagers are indecisive and yet need the guidance of a parents to become independent. It is difficult to become independent without guidance or having an initiative or maturity. They must oversee the desires that stray them away. Teenagers rush too quickly to part from their parents control and running into situations where they struggle to fit in to the harsh reality of the world and its