Arranged Marriage vs. Free Marriage Generally marriage is a significantly hard decision and affect all aspects of our lives. Moreover, all the marriage will not be successful with a happy ending. Choosing your spouse and married free with love is popular and legal in many countries and Arranged marriage in which parents choose who you can marry are two types of marriages. Both systems have benefits and drawbacks, but deciding about your life and choosing your partner seems more logical and natural. With marriage freely people have a chance to know each other better before marriage, understand their partners’ priority, and last but not the least they can marry with love.
Sue is not similar to Hardy’s other heroines. Her view on marriage also differs from other heroines because she acknowledges the fact that she 's a member of an oppressed sex rightly seeking autonomy. Despite Sue’s final return to her husband, her marriage with Phillotson and her experience with him are adequate to prove her as a new woman. She expresses her view about marriage by saying that “What tortures me so much is the necessity of being responsive to this man whenever he wishes." (Jude the Obscure P. 211) Sue criticises marriage and believes that the institution of marriage brings limitation to the freedom of the couple and bounds them into it.
If at first Adeline refuses to marry out of philosophical principles, which she openly professes, her later acceptance of that precise status of wife can be understood as a marriage of convenience which she accepts so as to elude the stigma of prostitution to which she has fallen. But before touching upon the position of Adeline in society as a married women, we first have to look at the context
Marriage and love are considered two separate entities. Austen states that the loveless marriages of this time holds back individual 's true desire because of the understanding that "a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife," (Austen 2). This implies that an individual of wealth is expected to find a wife who comes from an affluent background. A clear example of this is in the relationship between Jane Bennett and Charles Bingley. Despite their passionate love for each other, their difference in wealth and social standing ultimately hinders their path to marriage.
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“Married… Doesn’t it mean something to you, something—inexorable? It does to me” (497). Nick’s words to Susy in the final chapters of The Glimpses of the Moon echo the sentiments of the novel’s author. Edith Wharton’s works emphasize principles that should be maintained in marriage and illustrate how breaking the sanctity of marriage can potentially impact other people negatively. However, The Age of Innocence depicts a spouse directly facing the consequences of disrespecting his marriage.
He further argues that the piety is analogical with the Puritan’s notion of love, which requires not only the “outward fulfillment of the duties of marriage”, but also “the proper intentions and feelings towards the spouse” (Leites 383). Although there seems to be an existence of a general
Austen and Proposals: Why the lack of feeling? Throughout all of Jane Austen’s works, courtship and marriage both play central roles and their dominant presence reflects the importance of women finding a respectable husband during Austen’s time. However, while marriage proposals between two lovers are often high points in novels, Austen treats them almost as an afterthought. Critic G. H. Lewes in an 1859 review deemed that this apparent lack of emotion was a characteristic flaw on Austen’s writing, “She has little or no sympathy with what is picturesque and passionate. This prevents her from painting what the popular eye can see, and the popular heart can feel (THE NOVELS).” While the Austen’s marriage proposals tend to leave some readers emotionally dissatisfied, this plainness is purposeful in that it highlights the main themes of Austen’s works and comments on marriage itself.
Phil and Liz, Pran and Savita, Veena and Kedarnath Tandon Julia and James, Mr. and Mrs. Kapoor, Ada and Stanley Holme, Arun and Meenakshi, Phil and Claire-these are the couplesd united in wedlock. Among the younger couples, Phil and Savita, Veena and Tandon can be called ideal couples because their relationship involves mutual appreciation, understanding and respect. Marital discord leading to eventual break up is seen in the case of Phil and Claire. Marriages formed out of rapturous love like that of Arun and Meenakshi also stands as an example of failure. Conjugal relationships like that of Rasheed who is forced to marry his brother’s widow ends in a
In individualistic societies emphasis is placed on self realization, importance of rights rather than duties, self importance, initiatives that affect one personally and identity of one’s self based on ones attributes (Dion & Dion, 1996). In individualistic societies love would be persued on the basis of personal fulfilment, and in doing so by personal choice which disregards what the individual’s family believes. I n the event of marriage one judges based on their emotions towards the preferred partner in order to determine eligibility, that determinant being whether love exists between the two, one ultimately puts their needs before everything in order to come to a conclusion (Dion & Dion,