About a year ago, I lost many close friends. They were changing from the people I once knew, into strangers. They all started to act in ways that I couldn't. I remember when they had finally done it, and drove me away. So I decided to change my friend group and they didn't like that. Soon the people I would say anything to, became the people I wouldn't say a word to. Ever since then I have been careful with the people I meet and the friends I have. I guess that plays a role in this situation. A few months ago I meet someone new, someone I’d never thought I'd know. But like I said, it was great at first. Her name is Shannon, she has reddish hair with the greenest eyes. She has freckles all over and dimples that can deceive anyone. We would hang out practically everyday, talk about our problems, and help each other with them. She soon became my best friend, a person I would do anything for, and I loved it. But I was so glad with this new person in my life that I forgot about the rest. I forgot about the friends that helped me through my roughest times, the friends that could change my mood instantly. Luckily they didn't forget about me, and when I needed them again they were there. My new “friend” eventually started to show her true colors. She started to act …show more content…
They help me out and give me very useful advice. Long story short, I became close with the people I should have stuck with. I still talk to her, but things have been different and we aren't as close. We say hi to each other in the hallways, or at lunch. But we never hang out or have an actual conversation. Through all of this, I got a reality check. I got to remember that the people I should be hanging out with, are the people that have always helped me through any mess i'm in. I'm just really lucky to have friends that would stick with me through all of my troubles, but that's what friends are
And she apologized and said she “didn’t realize” she was hurting me. We are definitely not close friends at all, but we don’t ignore each other and we talk at church, but it will never be the way it was and frankly I am glad that this “obstacle” happened. It was a big page turner and I like to think of it as a blessing in disguise.
I thought about writing this long and exaggerated speech about me leaving Maryland but I think I 'll just keep it short and sweet. These past few months people constantly asked me why I wanted to move somewhere I do not know anyone. My response, I know Jesus! No matter where I go I have a friend that is watching over and protecting me. This is a picture of my closet door, in my apartment, at Morgan.
The move back to Maryland was one of the biggest challenges in my life, everything was okay in Ohio until my step dad caused problems with me and my mom. It all started when my mom tried kicking my step dad out of the house for domestic violence. She kicked him out because not only has he fought with my mom, but he and I have fought a few times. Everything seemed fine at first until he kept bringing police officers to our house claiming almost all of our household items were his and he wanted to get them back. Of course the officers eventually weren’t allowing him to keep coming back to bug us about it and told him to go to the court and take the problem to a civil court judge.
Suddenly, the connection I felt with them all the years prior began to fade and it felt like I was talking to strangers whenever we communicated. At the time, this had such a huge impact on my life. I was in my peak year of middle school, I was starting to figure out who I was, and these were people I had grown up with and whose company I felt familiar with. I had decided to branch out and do something that I had not felt comfortable enough in my own skin to do. Receiving judgement for my own personal leap of faith, taught me that happiness within yourself is the most important happiness you can have.
To have good friends you have to be a good friend, to be a good friend you need to be kind and helpful and always supportive. If you stay strong, be yourself and just keep going in life, the outcome will teach you a great lesson. Ponyboy learned a lot being alone with Johnny, he realized how much he loves his brothers and the gang and he didn’t want to live in the countryside after staying in an abandoned church there for a week. Ponyboy changed
School was getting harder and more social things mattered. I established a good friend group and continued to live my life. I met this girl and built feelings for her, but in the long run, it dint work out. Because of the occasion of this happening, my friends make fun of me to this day. It was become a characteristic of mine, a trait.
My challenge to my female friendship has changed me entirely. Personally I am still outgoing, but now I tend to try less to keep a friendship from breaking. Sadly, I can see myself giving up when I feel like I am losing a connection with them. I do think that how we refer to each other does effect and take a toll on a friendship. During the narrative assignment, I called my closest friend my ‘BFF’.
What kind of friends do you hang out with? Will they take a bullet for you or will they point a bullet TO you? You may never know until your friend show their true colors. For example in the novella Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck is about the friendship of two men, George and Lennie. Lennie is not the brightest out there, but George puts up with him and takes him in.
When I was a freshman, I had a close friend whom I had been friends with for about a year and a half. She and I had become much closer as to traveling places together and working as partners in pretty much everything we do. As soon as our friendship bloomed was as soon as it ended. She pulled me away from everyone that i loved because she was jealous of my life. I let her take a hold of me and it ruined my life.
Often, songs that sound really happy and giddy, have slightly darker meanings. For example, “Roses” by George Watsky sounds really upbeat and all, but the meaning is much darker when you actually listen to the lyrics. The song has about five stanzas and is four minutes and nine seconds long. The speaker can be determined as either Watsky himself or just someone having to make a tough decision. The mood of the song is believed to be hopeful or sad because of the deeper meaning behind it.
In many ways we related, our parents were divorced, w bth had not so great dads, we both were close to our families. This was one thing I couldn’t relate with her on, something I hadn experience with. Finally, I realized the only thing I really can do is listen. This recollection makes me understand nothing I say will be right.
I always felt a sense of jealousy every time she fit into her size 0 shorts when I was wearing size 6. Abby and I were inseparable, we hung out almost every weekend. Abby would push me around and was controlling at times, but I needed her friendship, I needed her approval. I remember her calling me crazy sometimes and got annoyed by me easily. This was very confusing to me because I thought I was a really good friend towards her.
Friendship is based on mutual respect and trust. When a friendship is betrayed it is one of the worst feelings that people can experience. Friendships that last from childhood through old age are some of the best in the world. Friendships that come about in times of adversity can be even more important as the people suffering the adversity have no one else who understands their situation as well and that creates an incredibly strong bond. When people, who have experienced these types of friendships, are betrayed after having been so close for so long or in extreme circumstances, the betrayal seems all the more horrible.
Together we planned school dances and rallies for the rest of the year. Little by little, I got to know her more and she saw me as her older sister. The girl that I saw at my senior barbeque was filled with shattered memories of her childhood and I learned that she did not have a good fundamental support at home. I have always noticed that she had scars on her wrists that looked like they were from deep cuts, but I noticed she always wanted to hide them. One day, I noticed that the cut on her wrist looked really recent so
Close friends, people that do not have a good friendship, friendships being broken. Losing a friendship can be a terrible thing to happen, and it happens quite often in many different forms of literature. This excerpt from the novel Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson, shows that losing a friend is really tough. The main character, Melinda Sordino, lost her best friend, Rachel over the summer.