Another character is Connie’s mother. Connie and her mother argue and bicker on a regular basis. She seems to be constantly getting after Connie "Stop gawking at yourself, who are you? You think you’re so pretty?” (Oates 308). Suggesting that she envies Connie because she is young and beautiful. She too was beautiful once in her own way, but as the years passed so did her beauty. Despite their differences Connie loves her mother and in the end she screams and cries out for her when she is attacked by Arnold. The final character is June. June is the opposite of Connie. She is a twenty four year old plain Jane, who is overweight, is a secretary at the local high school, and who still lives at home with mom and dad. Her mother and Aunt constantly …show more content…
Such as, in the first quote “The place you came from ain’t there any more” (Oates 320). Meaning in reference to Connie, that she grew up in a family with both parents, and has an older sister June who she secretly looks up to, she is blessed to have friends that she loves to hang out with. She also has the warmth of her home that provides security and protection, which holds her childhood memories of her playing with her friends and neighbors. This is where she blossomed into a beautiful young girl with aspirations of pursuing what the future has in store for her. “and where you had in mind to go is cancelled out” (Oates 320). Meaning, the many goals she will set for herself and her dreams of becoming a woman, graduating from high school, attending her high school prom, perhaps becoming the next prom queen and marrying her high school sweetheart. To be able to spread her wings and venture into the world to tackle obstacles and turn them into triumphs. Where she can one day become a mother and raise a family of her own, providing security and shelter for her children just as her parents did for her. All of this has been stripped away from …show more content…
Suggesting that Arnold will simulate a safety blanket around Connie as a means of providing protection and security. But in reality his arms around her masquerades a web of deception. Once she is trapped in his web she will not be able to escape. Connie will remain helplessly stuck to Arnold’s grip where she will establish a permanent dependence on him. “and I’ll show you what love is like, what it does” (Oates 320). It is to say, that Arnold will take away everything and everyone Connie knows and loves. He will show her how ungrateful she has been to her family who loves her unconditionally. The way she takes advantage of her mother who she fights with constantly wishing her dead. Connie will then realize love is not what she believed it was, but what she has now lost. One does not know what they have until it is
She 's portrayed as blunt and emotionless . Because of her intelligence and non-emotional personality, her siblings often referred to her as the “perfect one” and the favorite because Maud and Malcolm believed that emotions were a hinder acne to success. As the story progresses,she
She is the main female character of the novel and is the leader of the family. She would never let the family spit up. In Chapter 16, Tom suggests that the family should go to California while him and Casy stay behind and fix their car. Ma responds with “‘On’y way you gonna get me to go is whup me.’… ‘An’ I’ll shame you, Pa.’”
June is a smart, reasonable, and determined person. When Metias died she vowed to bring Day in if it’s the last thing she did. She is that determined “[June] will hunt [Day] down. [she] will scour the streets of Los Angles for [him].
At first glance, we are made to believe that Connie is a static character through her infuriating naivety and cliché persona. When we delve into the story we see the altruistic and sincere characteristics, which
Another reason why Connie why wants to be independent from her mother is because she does not want to be like her. “Her mother went scuffling around the house in old bathroom slippers…” ( Oates 616). Connie’s mother is an image of the future Connie doesn't want -the life of a domestic housewife. Lastly, you can see that Connie has a love-hate relationship with her other, with whom she identifies, but at the same time she has to distance herself from her mother in order to establish her independence; “Sometimes, over coffee, they were almost friends, but something would come up – some vexation that was like a fly buzzing suddenly around their heads – and their faces went hard with contempt.”
June didn 't want time to pass, every passing second just led to Tuesdays which was the day she would get assaulted and bullied. June doesn’t tell her mom that any of this is happening. All she does is tells her mom that she fell on the cement. Little did June know it would get much worse when she coincidentally moves in next to the other June. In the end, as the other june was going to stab June, the teacher saw and and she got sent to the office.
Connie did not care about what she would be called, she cared about living her life and not to be bother by anyone. Still, Connie was strapped by society web of expectations for all
Within the story there is a lot of family turmoil between mother and daughter, and sister to sister. Connie has an older sister June, who her mother compares her to: “Why don’t you keep your room clean like your sister? How have you got your hair fixed—what the hell stinks? Hair spray? You don’t see your sister using that junk” (308).
When Connie realizes that Arnold is much older than she thought, she is taken over by fear of what’s going to happen. This situation is much different than anything else she has ever
In her short story "Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?", Joyce Carol Oates utilizes a variety of literary devices to strengthen the story in its entirety. This short story is essentially about a 16-year-old girl named Connie and the conflict between her desire to be mature and her desire to remain an adolescent. Throughout the story, the audience sees this conflict through her words in addition to through her behavior. The audience is also introduced to Arnold Friend, a rather peculiar man, who essentially kidnaps her. This short story by Joyce Carol Oates functions and is additionally meaningful because of her usage of literary devices.
This interpretation of the story explains how Connie simply fell prey to the common theme of men acting as predators in society. Therefore, Connie had no say in her fate, so she just decided to go quietly with him. However, this theory completely disregards the psychological disorders that Connie has. Connie did not go quietly with Arnold because he was a dominating male. Instead, Connie left due to her numerous unconscious mental problems.
“Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been,” is about a teenager named Connie who is trying to come to terms with her transformation from childhood to adulthood. Through this process, Connie attempts to act older than she is an tries to gain the attention of boys. In “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been,” Joyce Oates portrays Connie as obsessed with men to symbolize how one’s obsession and narcissistic attitude can cause danger to seem surreal. In the short story, Carol Oates describes Connie as having two different personalities, one being a narcissistic attitude.
We couldn’t have gone on like we was today we was going backwards instead of forwards- talking ‘bout killing babies and wishing each other was dead… When it gets like that in life- you just got to do something different, push on out and do something bigger…” Mama is the one who keeps the family together by doing something different when times are tough. Mama influences the plot in a positive way and tells everyone how it is to make them understand why she does what she does and what’s going on in their family. Lena Younger in one of the most positively influential characters in the book.
Not only had Connie given up all the physical things she owned, but also her own free will to Arnold. She gave up everything she had available to her, a feat that could only be accomplished by a passive victim. A noble heroine wouldn’t submit herself to someone as easily as Connie
In Joyce Carol Oates’s short story “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been” the main protagonist finds herself in a very hostile situation. With an all most fateful encounter with a man known as Arnold Friend. Forcing her to choose whether to run off with him or taking her by force. This man known as Arnold Friend to the reader comes off as almost a demon. A person who uses many temptations, word play, and threats to take advantage of the young protagonist Connie.