Understanding Milkman
In many stories we see women as moral guides to the main character. In Cinderella she had a fairy godmother, Lewis and Clark had Sacajawea, and every President has a first lady. Women have the important role of showing us the true potential of a person and truly show us who they are. In Song of Solomon by Toni Morrison the main character Macon “Milkman” Dead III tries to find out who he is throughout the book. Three important female influences in his life are Ruth, Hagar, and Pilate. Ruth is his mother who breastfed him until he was 5 years old, but has rocky relations with Milkman, Hagar is his cousin who he falls in love with and has a romantic relationship with for 14 years, and Pilate is his the sister of his father Macon Dead II who tries to give Milkman knowledge on his life
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From Ruth, Hagar, and Pilate we learn that Milkman has no respect for women, does not care for women, and feels that everything revolves around himself. Throughout the story there are many examples of Milkman being disrespectful to women, not caring for women, and thinking only for himself. In my essay I will give examples that explain what we learn about Milkman.
The first thing that we can learn about Milkman from Ruth, Hagar, and Pilate is that Milkman is disrespectful. A good example of Milkman disrespecting someone is with his mother, Ruth. In the book it says “When his father told him about Ruth, he joined him in despising her (120).” We see Milkman disrespected his other mother because of his father’s influence. It is disrespectful because Ruth spends all her life taking care of Milkman and he returns the favor by “despising” her. Looking at Hagar we can very clearly that Milkman is disrespectful. An example of the disrespect that Milkman gives is when he writes a letter to Hagar to end a 14 year relationship by “[folding] the money and
In Song of Solomon, written by Toni Morrison, deep concern for not only the existence and development of the black community is shown, but also for human beings in general. Questions such as “Why and how are individuals isolated from society?” , “What voice is created in isolation?”, and even “How does an individual resolve conflict between personal ethics and social morality?” strictly apply to Song of Solomon. Milkman, the protagonist, embarks on an unwitting search for his roots and ties to the black community, all while feeling isolated from society.
When young Milkman first greets Pilate, “Hi”(36) she replies with “What kind of word is that?”(36) and “You all must be the dumbest unhung Negroes on earth... You say ‘Hi’ to pigs and sheep when you want ‘em to move. When you tell a human being ‘Hi’ he ought to get up and knock you down”(37) by saying this, she teaches him what's right and wrong, and what's good and bad to say. Despite Macon Dead Jr. unreasonable warning for Milkman to stay away from her, Milkman continues to visit Pilate and their relationship continues to develop. Carr Lee briefly explains their relationship in the following statement: “He recognizes, briefly, that his actions affect other people, and he also realizes that by hurting Pilate, he has hurt himself.
The first element of oppression that shows up in the film Milk is a defined norm. As described by Pharr a defined norm is, “a standard of rightness and often righteousness wherein all others are judged in relation to it.” This means that an entity, whether it be a business, a group of people, or a single individual; with influence in society has claimed or passed down a certain way of living that is considered “normal”. A common example of this is the classic societal “status quo”, which has evolved many times over the centuries from decade to decade, from generation to generation. During Milk’s campaign he was never treated as an equal or given the same respect as his counterparts, instead he was mocked and
Pilate and her family did not live in the best conditions, as they lived in “A narrow single-story house… [and] had no electricity because [they] could not pay for the service. Nor the gas”, yet they were still the characters who were the most satisfied with their lives even when they had the bare minimum to survive (27). Compared to Macon Dead, Pilate was much happier with her life in her small house caring for her family than Macon was in his nice house with his family. This was evident to Milkman as he felt more comfort while in Pilate’s house than he ever did in his own house, which was more associated with materialism than Pilate’s house was. Because of the lack of materialism in Pilate’s life, it is simple to see how Pilate was able to thrive and live in
During Gilgamesh first journey of becoming whole which will also help restore balance to himself and his land. A hero who has already withhold a legacy such as Gilgamesh comes with its pros and cons of different women. By reading Gilgamesh, women are considered beneath men in society. Women have little or no rights to uphold besides men. Other than women who are goddesses have the advantage compared to others who are often disrespected because of their status.
Without familial ties and history, Milkman lacked the wisdom that comes with knowledge of the past, causing a disconnect between Milkman and his people. Milkman’s journey provides him with the answers to his identity problem allowing his family’s past to provide instruction, and protection, and a certain kind of wisdom necessary in finding his true self. Although Milkman must ultimately define himself, he is also defined by his relationships. He cannot learn these lessons in isolation but only within the context of the present community and relations of
Despite Milkman being a grown adult, Song of Solomon is a Bildungsroman. In the first half of Song of Solomon, it is evident that Milkman is not yet an adult for he is lost. For all his life, Milkman, as a son, brother, and friend, has been found wanting. Once Milkman leaves Michigan, the work’s meaning is finally uncovered.
Toni Morrison frequently incorporates her familial background into her literary works. She is an African-American female author who was told African myths and folktales by her family members, who she credits for “instilling in her a love of reading, music and folklore” (“Toni Morrison”). Morrison is fully in touch with and appreciative of her ancestral background, and because of this, she reiterates these tales in her writings. In Song of Solomon, Morrison employs a wide variety of African cultural traditions and folklores to create a unique narrative regarding an African-American man’s quest for self-discovery and his true cultural identity, one that is absent from his current community. One of the most prominent African myths discussed
(Morrison 130). Through his condescending tone and actions towards Hagar, it becomes evident that Milkman lacks respect for women, as he views them as socially inferior. He objectifies Hagar and discards her immediately upon losing interest, which unfortunately forces Hagar to suffer the same fate as her biblical parallel, who was banished upon bearing a child to Abraham. Ironically, Milkman fails to realize that his neglective behavior was ultimately the motivating source for the negative change induced upon Hagar. Her inevitable downfall serves to highlight the extent of Milkman’s harm through the infliction of
He is represented with an oblivious mind, and sees everything around him irrelevant if it does not relate to himself in a way. As he continues throughout his journey, Milkman encounters, for the first time, a struggle of not getting what he wants. As he digs for the gold, for the first time, his mind shifts from the capitalistic north and embrace nature, “His watch and his two hundred dollars would be of no help out here, where all a man had was what he was born with, or had learned to use” (277). As he begins to separate himself from white culture, he embraces in his natural skills. This was just the first step to shape Milkman into embracing and seeing his ethnicity.
Toni Morrison’s Song of Solomon is a novel that is set in the 20th century, Michigan which follows the life of Macon Dead III, who gets the nickname milkman. His sisters are Magdalene, who is called Lena, and First Corinthians. His parents are Ruth and Macon Dead Jr. Unlike most African American families during this time period, the Dead family were financially stable and could afford things that were deemed luxurious. Even though they had money, they still were unhappy with their lives. This shows that you can be living ,but you can also be dead.
Furthermore, Ruth’s endless, captivating love restricts Milkman and thwarts his personality’s development to a mature man. His search for his self cannot be satisfied at home since he has no space to become independent or is regarded as a separate
In this scene Sethe reclaims the nourishment she was and human generosity she was denied as a slave and reclaims her identity as mother while preparing milk for the two young women she wishes to care for. The symbol of milk is prominent throughout Morrison 's novel. The milk 's symbolism allows insight into the overall themes Morrison is trying to project. Whether it be through its symbolism of motherhood, shame, or nourishment, milk throughout the narrative reveals the ways in which African Americans were stripped of their personal identities as well as their identity as
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She was the sign of misfortune in the entire novel: deprived of sexual interaction with her husband for twenty years, delivering Milkman as a consequence of a shock from a frightening accident, and withstanding the physical violence of her husband even in front of their children. She was never respected or seriously loved by any male characters in the novel—Milkman was ashamed and careless of her, Macon her Husband hated her, and even her father was somewhat embarrassed by their intimacy which Ruth intended. Ironically, she was the daughter of the great Doctor who has a street named after him and the wife of Macon Dead, who is the richest person in town. This contrast emphasizes the tragedy of the character that despite her superior or seemingly advantageous status quo, she still led a miserable life. Morrison quoted that she started the book as an attempt to shatter some of the common stereotypes the 1960s has brought to African American community, which, as she reckons, has left out an enormous portion of the racial character for over-emphasizing the beauty and strength and thereby