Everyone knows the old saying ¨Never judge a book by its cover” but, sadly that is what every human does. Every human ever created has a story, whether the story is sad, happy, good or even bad, it makes them who they are. This often explains the reason why people may act a certain way. Patricia McCormick shows many examples of how people act based on their past, in her book SOLD. SOLD follows the life of a 13 year-old girl named Lakshmi, who is from a small village in Nepal. Sadly, Lakshmi does not come from a family with a lot of money, and has a stepfather who has a gambling problem, which is the exact reason Lakshmi gets sold into sex-trafficking. Lakshmi´s story is told through a Vignette style writing, which tells her story through shorts …show more content…
But what confused most of the girls was that Shilpa did not have a debt to pay to their boss, Mumtaz, she was just doing it. But, they did not know her past, which was very similar to these girls reality. If they would have taken the time to know who Shilpa was and why she acted the way she did, they might have saw her in a different light.¨Her mother gave it… But now she likes it too much¨. (McCormick 172) Shilpa is acts the way she does because that is all she knows. Shilpa has been in the sex-trafficking scandal literally since she was a little girl. She knows every feeling these girls feel and every experience they have had. This is the exact reason she acts the way she does , because this life is all she knows. But that is not the only thing that shines light on who Shilpa really is. When Lakshmi goes to borrow money from Mumtaz, Shilpa makes a comment that sticks with Lakshmi. ¨When I told her… You actually believe what she tells you? ¨ (McCormick 234).Shilpa knows that Laksmi is trapped in the world of the sex-trafficking scandal, because she is just like Lakshmi, trapped. Shilpa shows this by trying sneakily tries to insult her enough to change her mind, because she knows how Mumtaz does her business. Shilpa is one of the many characters in this book who does the wrong things, but has a justifiable reason. The life Shilpa lives is the only one she knows, just like any other …show more content…
It is when one truly looks into the lives of these people, where they see what makes them the way they are. People have many reasons on why they act a certain way, whether if they are like Monica, who had no choice and no other way to provide for her family. Or like Anita who had such a traumatic thing happen to them, and that is when pain and anger are the only responses they know. Or even like Shilpa who was raised the way she was, where the lifestyle she lives is the only one she knows. No one gets to choose the life they were born into, or the family and no one gets to choose what traumatic events happen to them, so why must one judge these people on the things they have no control over. If people were to take the time to know someone, they might be able to understand why this person acts the way they do instead of just judging them. ¨Never judge someone without knowing the whole story. You may think you understand but you
In Girl Rising (2013), reveals how gender discrimination negatively affects the future of many women and continues to be prominent in society through forced marriages, extreme poverty, and/or labor obstacle. Girl Rising (2013) reveals heartrending stories of nine girls from different countries to show how these girls overcome great obstacles to obtain an education and change their fate. Each of these girls was paired with a writer from their own country to help tell Soka story. Young girls that were faced extreme poverty, forced marriage, and forced labor (Robbin, 2013). Each story is written by a writer from the girl’s native country and is narrated by renowned actresses such as Anne Hathaway, Cate Blanchett, Salma Hayek, and Meryl Streep
While to step father was bartering a price for Lakshmi, it became more obvious that she wasn’t going to be a maid, “‘She has no hips,’ I hear her say. ‘And she’s plain as porridge. I’ll give you five hundred’” (McCormick 53). This shows how it is implied that Lakshmi is about to be sold into sex slavery because to be honest hips have nothing to do with house services.
Sarah Dessen used to say that “Accepting all the good and bad about someone is a great thing to aspire to. The hard part is actually doing it. (Dessen, 2013)” Similarly, Barbara Jordan, a leader of the Civil Rights Movement, said “We, as human beings, must be willing to accept people who are different from ourselves. (Jordan, 2016, 45)”
Therefore, Lupita suffered through hate because she was different and younger than everyone
Patricia McCormick wrote Sold, a National Book Award winner. This book focuses on a young girl who was sold into prostitution by her stepfather. Lakshmi thought she was going to the city to work as a maid and help her family earn money. She didn't let her situation get her down however, she stayed positive the entire time she was at the house. One way she passed time was by figuring out how long it would take her to pay off her debt and leave.
When she first becomes a prostitute, and she believes that Faraj loves her, she is in a state of perfect bliss because her life contains love, power, and wealth. She does not realize that Faraj lies to her about his love toward her. She wants to believe he truly does love her, so she can live
She knew her family was waiting patiently for her to finish her work in the city and come back home. Lakshmi thought she was doing the right thing by going to the city to help her family’s financial situation, but she did not know that she was going to have to “give herself up” in the way she was forced to. It was Lakshmi’s idea to go work in the city to help her family, so it was a big surprise to her when she found out she wasn’t actually going there to be a maid. The thought of her family at home was the one thing that motivated her to get her work over with so she could come back home: “Each night, I dream that Ama and I are sitting outside our hut...and she is twining my hair into long dark braids” (109). Lakshmi was describing how she dreams about her and her mother sitting back at home together.
It takes the average person under a minute to compose an opinion about someone they recently encountered. This opinion will be the image inside your head until you genuinely get to understand that person., but judgement with still occur because humans do this for an eccentric reason. People have stereotypes that go along with judging through age class, for example, adults stereotype judging teenagers as persistently staring at their phones all day, rarely interacting with anyone face to face. This exhibits irony; children and teenagers perceive their parents to be infallible. There are many differences between adults and teens.
A person cannot judge another until they truly know the person and their past, morals, and intentions. Just like in To Kill A Mockingbird, everyone must learn to look beyond appearances
In the short story “Mrs. Buell”, Kate learns that everything is not as it seems through a series of events. When one considers certain factors such as abrupt personality change, encounters with unexpected people, and changes in first impression, it can be seen that there are many things to be discovered that may change our impression of one’s being. Kate is startled by Mrs. Buell’s actions when, she hurts her knee while walking into Mrs. Buell’s convenience store. Although, Mrs. Buell shows compassion towards her, Kate can’t quite believe that Mrs. Buell had shown any type of sympathy. This is evident when Kate assumes, “She was probably sorry now that she’d fixed my knee.
Some of the girls think about the tea they will be able to buy, others think about how much they still have to pay back to Mumtaz. Lakshmi thinks about what she misses the most her family, her home is where she wants to be. You can see that from this quote from the novel. “I inhale deeply drinking in the scents of mountain sunshine, warmth that smells of freshly turned soil and clean laundry, baking in the sun, I breathe in a cool Himalayan breeze and the woodsy tang of a cooking fire then I can get by until the next twilight” (126). All this is reminding her of back home, it’s like she is in the happiness house, but her mind is still back home and as long as she has that she can make it to the next night.
“When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself” – Wayne Dyer Judging others is a natural human trait that everyone has. Everyone tries their hardest to not make assumptions about others but everyone does make assumptions about others. Sometimes despite their best efforts people will find themselves exploring feelings of negativity towards someone else or even making judgements about them. This relates to my prompt because you shouldn’t judge someone because you may misinterpret them for who they really are. In To Kill A Mockingbird, Harper Lee’s use of racism proves that you shouldn’t judge someone because you may misinterpret them for who they really are.
When one can judge another is once one has been in that person’s shoes, living the life
Human trafficking was a major problem in this book. Researching human trafficking can further all evidence and information on the topic which the books had multiple points to emphasize on . Patricia Mccormick writes sold to inform people about the experiences of others lives and the way they are living with this happening to them or have happened . Her personal trials have taken an emotional route to connect with Lakshmi or some of the young girls she has visited previously. This essay is important because it talks and highlights very key points on Human trafficking and how it affects women and the society as a
Her personal experience is socially and theoretically constructed and emotions play an essential role in the process of identity formation. Her identity is not fixed, which is portrayed by inquisitiveness that her own mother and Aunt thought she was possessed, enhanced and made this story an enriching experience. The family is the first agent of socialization, as the story illustrates, even the most basic of human activities are learned and through socialization people