Chapter 4 PRESENTATION, ANALYSIS AND INTERPRETATION OF DATA This chapter presents, analyzes and interpret the answers to the statement of the problem. Problem 1. What are the common struggles of Filipino seafarers’ wives in terms of? 1.1. Child rearing Table No. 1 Common struggles of Filipino seafarers’ wives in terms of child rearing Participant Common struggles of Filipino seafarers’ wives in terms of child rearing Participant 1 • Being alone and no one to accompany her in everyday life, raising children, financial problems • Implements strict parenting but did not affect the relationship of the child with his father • Children getting sick and husband is not with her during these events Participant 2 • Being alone and no one to accompany …show more content…
Children but did not affect the relationship of the children with their father • Children getting sick and husband is not with her during these events Participant 4 • Feeling of longingness and sadness; and sometimes financial problems • Authoritative style of parenting. . At first the children is not close with their father maybe because they become shy with him. • Children getting sick and husband is not with her during these events Participant 5 • Having emergencies like children getting confined due to illness and deals with it alone • Implements strict parenting style but did not affect the relationship of the children with their father • Meaningful part of parenting is to see them being raised properly and in the right direction Participant 6 • Thinking about the condition of husband. No communication • Implements strict parenting but did not affect the relationship of the father and children • Most meaningful part of parenting is being balanced to all children regarding with their needs Participant 7 • Being a mother as well as the father of their child and raising their child alone • Implements strict parenting but did not affect the relationship of the children with their
Acknowledge and draw on parental knowledge and expertice in relation to their child. Focus on the children 's strengths as well as areas of additional need. Recognise the personal and emotional investment of parents and carers and be aware of their feelings. Ensure that parents and carers understand procedures, are aware of how to access support in preparing their contribution and are given documents to be discussed well before the meeting. Respect the validity of differing perspectives and seek constructive ways of reconciling different viewpoints.
Special attention needs to be given to health and education to ensure the child is healthy in all aspects of their life and their education is paramount to ensuring confidence and growth so they can become healthy confident adults and can go out into the world armed with a good education. If not the child could become withdrawn, depressed, and have low self-esteem which can bring its own
Poems are pieces of writing in which writers express their senses of feelings, and ideas for particular events. Every word, line, and paragraph has its meanings. Poems come in different shapes, sizes, tones, and stories. Some comes in sad moments. Some comes in happy moments.
They listen and care for their kids. Some factors that may be out of a parent's
In order to contribute a positive relationship it is essential to demonstrate and model an effective communication skill when dealing with children which means that considering both how the practitioner approach other people and responding the children. It is effectively more likely to communicate information to one another if having a positive relationship. Effective communication plays an important role in developing positive relation with children, young people and adults. It is also essential that the practitioner is interested in development of the children by using effective communication skills, building a positive relationship, approaching and responding in appositive manner, making feel comfortable or supporting which it’s required.
The children may struggle without the presence of their mother, and the migrant women may tend to displace their love. These personal hardships are discussed within the introduction and the article "Care Crisis in the Philippines: Children and Transnational Families in the New Global Economy." In the introduction, we are told about Josephine, whose work as a nanny enables her employers to devote themselves to their careers and avocations. Josephine's case is an example of global inequality. Except for one two-month trip home, she has lived apart from her children in Sri Lanka for about ten years.
I believe that communication, trust, and professionalism are the three most important factors when it comes to maintaining positive and productive relationships with all of the families. Communication is the glue that holds us together because parents want to know and be educated on their child’s developmental progress. Trust is the foundation of our relationships because honestly, without trust, we wouldn’t have relationships to begin with. Last but not least, Professionalism is very important because it helps keep the relationship focused on the most important thing; the
The JL family is a family with young children. The adults are the caregivers to the young children. The addition of LD with prematurity needs, creates challenges for the JL and CD relationship. In addition, the relationship between CD and JL’s two older boys is very weak. JL stated she is unsure if CD is able to handle the additional responsibility of two older children who are quite energetic.
There’s no typical family as nuclear families as in the past and not everyone lives in a multigenerational household. Same-sex families are also on the rise as sexual ambiguity is undergoing its own wave of acceptance in all political, social, and economic spheres. With the absence of the parents’ presence in the home due to an inability effectively balance work and home life, children could develop an emotional void/absence. Good communicative dialogue between children and their parents where the adults describe their work situation as it relates to the home to create resilient children, could possibly benefit the household.
The man is in charge of the house, and he is to be followed at all the times. The women are assigned to more menial jobs like sewing, gardening, cooking, and shopping. Women were very limited with how they could spend their days. The Filipino families are dependent on the father to be the bread winner. The mother is usually expected to stay at home and take care of the children even at the expense of her career.
The children learned basic norms and values from the parents. The parents supply the economic needs for the child such as foods and education (ResviseSociology, 2014). In a family, different person performs different role and function such as a mother should take care of her child. The important is the child can feel the love and support from their parents (Gordon, 1997). Family dysfunction may appear in broken families, violent families and divorced families, etc.
As divorce has become more common place in society, millions of children affected by separation of the nuclear family. For children, it is very hard to lose a parent because they just a little children that did not known what the situations really is. Also, a child 's life becomes more stressful because of the losses of parental support and economic. Significantly affect the child 's welfare. Since many children do not adapt well, their behavior is affected.
Figure 1 Macoby and Martin’s simplification of parenting styles as seen in Bee’s The Growing Child (Source: Adapted from Macoby & Martin, 1983, Fifure 2, p.39.). Parents only want what’s good for their children and for them to grow intro great adults, for their children to be independent and to be able to undergo hardships. There are quite a few advantages of being over protective parents. Because over protecting parents control their children’s decisions and day to day activities, they are able to monitor their children and ensure their safety (Overprotective Parents, n.d.).
Chapter 4 How Divorce Effects the Child, Family In this book, our purpose is to make the world a most habitable place for the children- the future leaders of this world. We must be able to temper heated emotion with a not so heated temper. We must be able to walk away from volatile situations to prevent crisis. Divorce on children is absolutely dreadful.
In relation to home, it is quite unusual in the Philippines to journey a long distance from home. Being a tight-knit Asian family we are prone to have big families with extended relatives living under one roof. We are unlike the westerners who encourage and expect independence of its members upon reaching a certain age. A number of factors page in as one leave, which includes the people involved and affected by such movement.