Abstract: For a long time, it is a research highlight in the aspect of differences of status between Chinese and Western women in their marriages. Although, female’s positions of marriage depend on the social system and historical background, it presents the feature that women are living in a disadvantageous position in their marriages. To this situation, by the method of using the main character’s marriage in Dream of Red Mansions and Down-ton Abbey as examples, this article tries to make a literature review about the topic of woman’s marital status on the base of the recognition of woman’s weak position. Besides, this review will try to classify and analyze the status of Chinese and Western women in their marriages by summarizing the newest …show more content…
2.1 Changes and reasons of Chinese female’s status in the marriage
In terms of the status of Chinese women in marriage, there are 7 papers discussing about this kind of problem.
2.1.1 Marriage with a great disparity between husband and wife—Jia She and his wife
For example, Yu Tingting (于婷婷 2014) wrote that as the result of the great disparity of the political status and family background, Jia and Xing’s marriage is in name only. However, Xing is more like a servant than a wife. Xing dared not speak in front of Jia She. Xing shamelessly begged concubines for her husband from Jia Baoyu’s grandma. She has been alienated by the feudal society and become one of the vulnerable groups, without her own feeling.
Lu Xian’e (卢仙娥 2014) wrote, “it is women that regard themselves as the vulnerable groups. For example, in the ancient China, people will congratulate on the birth of a boy, while they dislike the birth of a girl, especial mother-in-law. Although the view that men are superior to women is established by men, the preference of boys is instigated by women.
2.1.2 Marriage of association between strong enterprises—Wang Xifeng and Jia
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2.2.1 Marriage of seeking money and status from each other—Robert and Cora
As far as Yan Zhaoxiang (阎照祥 2000) is concerned, modern British aristocracy is a social group with a strong sense of responsibility and family concept. Over the past several years, they used the aristocratic hierarchy system, the eldest son inherited system and practices and regulations carefully to maintain their own dignity. The suitable type of marriage is a way to maintain the noble marriage. As a result, the marriage of descendant of nobility, especially the heir, has been a serious problem that their parents concerned. In general, the son of nobility wants to marry woman who has a higher title than him, the second choice is to marry woman who will inherit a great property to make his family be richer suddenly. These ideas are similar with the wife’s side. The general rule is that marriage is conducive to the consolidation and rise of the family, whether in the aspect of economy or
Men are to be instrumental and women are to be expressive. Portraying men are the ones who provide for the family and are head of the household. Men are in charge of the physical needs of family members in terms of income, food, shelter, clothes and education while the women’s main focus is meeting the emotional needs of the family by being the nurturing, comprehending, go to parent that a family needs. Marriage is seen as a mutually beneficial exchange between members of two genders, each of which enacts traditional gender roles, with women receiving protection, economic support, and status from their husbands and men receiving emotional and sexual support, household maintenance, and the production of children from their
Men were required to provide, while women submitted under their authority (15). Although they assumed this would allow for a happy marriage, this ideal was rarely upheld and led to many arguments within the household (15). Influenced by their upbringing, most women married despite these
Zhao wrote that “If a wife does not serve her husband, then the proper relationship between men and women and the natural order of things are neglected and destroyed. ”5 Here the natural role for women is to be subservient to her husband. According to Prazniak, “The worthiness of the husband and wife as individuals was evident…in the husband’s ability…to allow his wife to serve him. ”6
Male masculinity is an important concept around the world because it demonstrates and justifies the male authority over female. Throughout history the concept of polygamy is not uncommon in many cultures, and while the elite class in imperial China might have practice polygyny, several wives sharing one husbands, something that was consider as normative, it has brought to my attention that the lower class was involved in what society deemed as taboo, polyandry, the act of one wife with multiple husbands. Although polyandry bring shame and dishonor to the husband’s family, as implies in Matthew Sommer’s Polyandry and Wife Selling in Qing Dynasty China: Survival Strategies and Judicial Interventions, it seems like these husbands were forced to
Moreover, this is because, “women are more likely to have a relational orientation than men” (Campos, Aquilera, Ullman, & Schetter, 2014, p. 192). Women are usually the ones that maintain the family bonds and benefit more of the closeness and support from the family. Nevertheless, women still feel more compromised of keeping the bond, and if an issue surges they are more likely to stress due to the conflict (Campos, Aquilera, Ullman, & Schetter, 2014). • Around the world, it appears familism is coming to an end. What are the economic, political and cultural implications of the changes underway in the traditional family unit?
In the book Wild Swans: Three Daughters of China by Jung Chang, the author talks about the stories of her grandmother and mother as well as herself during their journeys as women in China. The book discusses how gender roles, political ideology, and economic ideology in China change over time. During the entirety of Chinese history, many changes and continuities transpired and had crucial impacts on China. However, a great amount of change occurred during the time period from the 1900s to present day. These changes and continuities incorporate happenings in areas concerning the treatment of women, political structure, and economic capacity.
Women in the Song Dynasty This part will evoke women’s life and rights in the Northern Song Dynasty. The Song Dynasty is often seen as the start of the decline of women status in the Chinese society: a revival of Confucianism led women political role to be reduced, as well as their public appearance compared to Tang Dynasty. The practice of foot binding also started in the Song Dynasty. However, women also enjoyed new and reinforced property rights, and social mobility and political influence were not completely impossible to achieve. Indeed, there are several examples of some lower class women managing to get considerable power by providing pleasure to the higher spheres of the Imperial Court.
It is assumed that men and women, for the most part, only married within their social upbringing. Wealth was the goal, but old money was the unreachable dream for some. Throughout the novel a major theme that is apparent is that morals
Humans have always had a unique perspective on gender roles. Throughout history, women have somehow became less superior to men. There are multiple variables to how and why this came to be. Whether it was the agriculture revolution, influential literature, or even climate events from the Mesopotamian civilization, males have managed to be more dominant. There has also been harmful sexism perspectives passed down each generation that could have triggered what women can and cannot do.
This proposes that there is a clear bias in the way we nurture girls to be more refined than boys, and encourage them to be more attentive on domestic aspects… basically everything society deems make “a good wife”. Boys are not taught to be good “house-husbands” and marry well, in fact they are taught the complete opposite. They are first and foremost projected to aim for personal success. If a man were to marry and start a family, it is often understood as being a respective choice he makes for additional gratification, but girls learn early on that marriage is not merely a goal, it’s as if it were an obligation; an unmarried man does not magnetize the same societal disgrace as an unmarried
Arranged Marriages of the Nobility During the Renaissance period, arranged marriage was very common due to the fact that money, political power, and land would result from the marriage. Even though arranged marriages are depicted as an incompetent commodity there are benefits of the marriage for both the husband as well as the wife and that is why there are still arranged marriages today. An arranged marriage is where a third party selects the couple to married. In Renaissance time non-arranged marriages were almost unheard of with the nobility.
According to the society norms, it was very rare that a married couple were actually attracted to each other. The individuals couldn’t have gone against the society expectations so, without caring about what they really want, they followed the expectations and married whoever. This shows they could not make any individual life choices without thinking of what everyone else would have done. Not only are the social expectations based on love but also small, foolish details.
Marriage is one of the most important aspects of a woman’s life during this time. Women play many roles in marriage such as greeting their husband with a smile when he returns. It’s the women’s responsibility to provide the husband with a joyful home. It is the norm for most women to be involved in this type of marriage. That is the reason why most women get married, because that is what
Marriage is an important institution in a society and although there have been changes in the trend of marriage pattern, it is still very clear that marriage still matters. Marriage exists and its main aim is to bring two people together to form a union, where a man and a woman leave their families and join together to become one where they often start their own family. Sociologists are mostly interested in the relationship between marriage and family as they form the key structures in a society. The key interest on the correlation between marriage and family is because marriages are historically regarded as the institutions that create a family while families are on the other hand the very basic unit upon which our societies are founded on.
The first key part studies the cultural influences on marriage, starting with our societies plethora of options. The overabundance of everyday choices leads people to constantly assess their decisions and