Culture is a common factor that makes actions of a given person or a group of people different from that of another group of people or individuals. It is primarily a system of shared beliefs, values, behaviors and objects. This paper will focus on two different cultures, Chinese and American, on the issue of parenting. The two different cultures have different aspects when it comes to parenting.
Chinese and American cultures differ when it comes to parenting. American culture tends to complement a child and praise unlike Chinese who tend to criticize. There are main instances where Chinese Americans have been treated with a complimentary lifestyle in school but have a different culture of criticism when they are back at home. It is very confusing
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The American parents are seen to be accommodating when it comes to many issues of raising children. Chinese parenting is more abrasive than Americans. A Chinese parent, for example, will be violent in an aspect that they feel is not right with their children. They can beat their adolescent youth if they put on clothes is not right while an American will more likely to embrace the clothing (clc.org.au, 2017). American parents will request their children about something that needs to be done unlike their Chinese counterparts who will want to command that they do them …show more content…
A clear difference is the vowel sounds. The northern Aboriginal languages for example have three major vowel sounds i, a, u written which are written and pronounced with northern Aboriginal sound this is different from English which stresses on the letters i, a, and u. With Arandic languages for example, the letter “e” is used after the letters for example “w” and before a consonant to produce the sound “u” as in the case of “put” (clc.org.au, 2017). Furthermore, the use of male nouns in some languages such as American English shapes how humans think about the world. In old books preferably the one for children for example, the use of the word “mailman”, “chairman” or “deliveryman” were said to affect how children think about such jobs. They give a feeling to the kids that such jobs belong to men. This has changed in the contemporary American society which has resorted to using words such as “person” in place of where “man” was to result to words such as “chairperson” instead of “chairman.”
Conclusively, it is evident that culture is one aspect that is approached differently from various cultures. From this research, it can be argued that American parenting is more liberal than that of Chinese which is more conservative. They tend to have different
When comparing to the American culture, it is said that Mexican’s place a higher value on family. Americans tend to give more of their attention to their profession, while Mexicans put family first (Difference Between American and Mexican Culture, 2013). Mexican children will get more parental guidance, whereas American children are taught to be independent at an early age (Difference Between American and Mexican Culture, 2013). Values adopted during early childhood may be important for understanding Mexican American youths’ adaptation because these values become the guiding force for future
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The question is, is this a good or bad policy that was placed upon China. China’s policy was a good idea because the children are the center of attention, it eases the pressure on the environment, and the children get a better education. The children in China are the center of attention in their family. “A.J. Song, 23, is the only child in his family…”
Many parents have different ways of raising their children to become successful. In the article “Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior” Amy Chua explains how Chinese parenting are better than western parenting. While in the article “Mother Inferior” Hanna Rosin explains that western parenting is a better ways of raising their children. Both think that their method of raising their child are better than the others. While both authors discuss parenting, they differ in the way they praise their child, the ways they punish their child, and the manner they speak to the child.
Natalie Martinez English 10-35 September 30, 2016 In the article “How American Family Life Is Different” by Andrew Cherlin, a professor of Sociology at Johns Hopkins University states that people tend to believe that a nation should be “consistent” and “unified.” However, he also states that culture is inconsistent where people can choose between how they would like to see and view life specifically towards how Americans deal with the cultural model of marriage and the cultural model of individualism (Miller-Cochran, Susan, Roy Stamper, and Stacey Cochran. An Insider 's Guide to Academic Writing: A Rhetoric and Reader.) .
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The purpose of this study is to see how Mexican American parents’ parenting style is influenced by their perceived neighborhood danger and their cultural values. It was a cross-sectional research study that looks at how the parents' cultural values and perceived neighborhood danger along with their levels of demand and responsiveness increase the chance of one parenting style of the other. They did not measure autonomy granting. The authors of this article also state that it’s possible for new parenting styles to appear from the parents' experience with ecological challenges like living in dangerous neighborhoods and their traditional cultural values. This is an important ecological challenge to investigate because those types of
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