Chinese Wedding Essay

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Since the beginning of the history, people has been mentioning that there are important events in a person’s life. These are imperial examination, marriage and a birth of a son. Over two thousand years, marriage was so important for China. While a marriage meant the loss of a daughter for the girl’s family, it meant well-fare and the permanency of the lineage for the boy’s family. There are three letters and six etiquettes traditions in a Chinese weddings. Three letters are;
1) Betrothal Letter: It is an official letter of engagement.
2) Gift letter: It is for the bride’s family.It lists the form and the amount of the gifts for the wedding.
3) Wedding letter: It is prepared and offered
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