They both have a history and a past that influence some of the choices that they make but they essentially do it to protect themselves from getting hurt. Comparing them to one another allows us to see why they both have that evil trait and what causes it to come out. This provides insight as to why it is that they believe this is for the good of others or even for the good of themselves, when it’s all purely evil and malice. Emily Grierson and Adela Strangeworth are both rather complex characters who build a lot of walls and make decisions that others simply do not understand but in the end I think their hearts were in the right place, but they chose to go about it all wrong and instead they chose to embrace the
Instead of trying to discuss the problems they have or talking out why they are angry some find it easier to just verbally or physically abuse their spouse and feel better without caring or knowing that this might hurt the other person. Another cause of abuse is simply their past-history. If the mother of the spouse was very abusive or has never appreciated what he does, then he is most likely to take revenge on his wife. Abuses can be proven in different ways such as showing the bruise marks on the body, recording phone conversations and having a hidden camera in the
Due to the lack of friendship and a surge of loneliness, many choose to become bitter and mean in an attempt to fend off irrational emotions and rather work like machines. However, despite the rough circumstances, the two protagonists, George and Lennie find each other through insecurities and imperfections. Rather than fending off problems by themselves, the two protagonists learn the true value of friendship and support one another. As the story develops, both the characters and readers learn the true value of friendship. Although friendship means that one would have to be candid about insecurities, it prevents loneliness and unfortunate bitterness.
On the other hand, most people let the feeling eat you up inside until they find some way to get forgiveness. Hester Prynne changed her life course and ended up finding the good in her sin. Dimmesdale was the opposite, he let himself deteriorate mentally and physically. In both cases, Pearl was a leading factor in how the two characters found peace with themselves. Although, guilt and sin can be affiliated with negative ideas and feelings of shame, there are other cases where positive results come from unethical
Mistakes are universal, but everyone responds to being incorrect in different ways. The way that people choose to deal with their mistakes defines their integrity. The popular opinion is that apologizing makes up for the inaccuracy, but conversely, I believe that apologizing does not simply make a person ‘good’. A strong person is someone who proves that they intend not to make the same mistake again. An apology loses it’s meaning after it is repeated over and over.
Being told to just ignore or distract themselves from the other emotions they are experiencing is not helpful as this person’s friends may believe. Even though these feelings are painful and sometime heartwrenching, they are better to experience rather than ignore. Feeling these emotions can help the person to cope with the loss and eventually move on; experiencing them allows one to let go easier than if he or she simply bottles them up and pretends to be okay. Even if being sad makes other people uncomfortable and sad as well, people should try to face these emotions as they may lead to a better sense of closure and eventual
Usually realizing flaws about one’s self that makes you question whether these flaws will have any effects on future relationships and how to fix them. We also learn what we do not want in a person. How a person mistreated you and put you down, and how you never want to experience that emotional mistreatment again. Or maybe your significant other cheats on you which causes trust issues within yourself for the future. Relationships like these are the ones that teach us the most about
Occasionally, the expectations that are set, are made by yourself, which can limit the way you see the world. The result of individuals actions to satisfy society can cause individuals to fabricate situations, harm the people that you love, and overall it can affect the person 's happiness. In the play Romeo and Juliet it is evident that Romeo and Juliet love each other. They do not want their families to know that they care for each other because both families expect them to hate each other. Their families expect them to despise each other because of the families’ history.
Love starts with hate, as some people indicate in order to point out the complexity of human behavior. What changes our emotions is spending time with these people and seeing their actual faces. People are forced to think the same way the majority does. Consequently, society becomes prejudiced to minorities in many ways. When people see the truth behind the mask, however, they realize that it is not wrong to have an unusual characteristic or feature.
Externalising has three tendencies which are: â€¢ Overvaluing your contribution to the relationship and undervaluing the contribution of others. â€¢ Criticising others for being different to you rather than appreciating and building on those differences. â€¢ Seeing othersâ€™ sins against you but not yours against them. Acting in this way can cause major problems within your relationships. People generally act this way because they: â€¢ Find it hard to put themselves in someone elseâ€™s shoes - unable to see things from another personâ€point of view.