Two Faced Lovers
Throughout the novel of The Great Gatsby, it is shown that Jay Gatsby is in love with Daisy Buchanan, but it is not actually love that he feels. Does Gatsby love Daisy, or does he just love the idea of her? Gatsby is a rich man that always gets what he wants. He lives in a perfect world, but he feels like there was something missing. That thing was Daisy Buchanan. Gatsby states that he once loved, loves, and will always love Daisy Buchanan, but there is proof that his love is just a fantasy. Gatsby certainly did love Daisy at one time, but that feeling is no longer existant. She was not able to be reached when they were first in love. It was just Gatsby’s fantasy to be with her. On the other hand, Gatsby creates this love for Daisy just as he brings into existence his made up, pretend life. She is an essential part to Gatsby’s dream for success. Gatsby became so desperate for Daisy that "He had waited five years and bought a mansion where he dispensed starlight to casual moths[…] so he could 'come over' some afternoon to a stranger's garden"(63). He bought his house just right across the river from Daisy and Gatsby says that he did it all for her.
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If Daisy chose another man before Gatsby, then surely their love for each other was not that strong. Also, the other man that Daisy replaced Gatsby with was successful and wealthy, exactly what Jay wanted to be. Gatsby was found out to be replaced by his future self. He is Gatsby’s dream of who he wanted to become. However, Gatsby, jealous of Tom, tries to make Daisy tell Tom that she never loved him. He wanted “... to fix everything just the way it was before”(110). Nick tries to convince him that he “Can't repeat the past”(110). Nevertheless, Gatsby would not resist to completing his perfect world. All out of jealousy Gatsby wanted to ruin the relationship the Buchanans
‘I did love him once[Tom]-- but I loved you too. ’”(Fitzgerald 132) Daisy’s indecisiveness reveals that she will remain with Tom, regardless of her prior commitments. Gatsby had thrived off the idea of Daisy never being in love with Tom, by stating that she had loved the both of them solidified the idea that she opposed Gatsby’s main intent: her absolute and individual
Gatsby becomes rich through his business, but Daisy still does not love him. ” Almost five years! There must have been moments even that afternoon when Daisy tumbled short of his dreams – not through her own fault, but because of the colossal vitality of his illusion”(p 95). Gatsby puts his hope into something that clearly is not
Gatsby’s “Greatness” Greatness is showed by the choices we make in life. From how we see the circumstances and how we react to them. Gatsby is not as great of a man as Nick claims that he is. Gatsby makes foolish, childish and delusional decisions and not at all great.
Fitzgerald provides plenty of scenes in The Great Gatsby supporting the ideas whether Gatsby’s love was affectionate, obsession, or objectification. Fitzgerald shows that throughout the story, Gatsby slowly becomes more obsessed with Daisy as he draws closer and closer to be with her. By the end of the book, Gatsby becomes obsessed with Daisy. He only thinks about her and analyze everything in her life. Even in the beginning when the reader finally meets Gatsby, his obsession shows.
Love, a deep affection, is only complete when felt by two unique individuals. In this story Gatsby has become blinded by his affection for Daisy he does not stop to consider anything else but being with her. He has this illusion and fantasy he has longed for since a little boy in his dream. While he has obtained everything else, the fame, glory, and wealth he lacks one thing, a lover. He has his life all crafted out and Daisy was his missing piece.
“Gatsby believed in the green light, the orgastic future that year by year recedes before us. It eluded us then, but thats no matter- tomorrow we will run faster, stretch out our farther…. And one fine morning- So we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past” (180). Jay Gatsby wants nothing more than to relive infatuation with the one and only Daisy.
Both tom Buchanan and George Wilson are two vastly different people but are alike in the most unusual ways. They are the only two characters in the book to use violence; both say they “love” Myrtle and both fight for their women only when they are about to lose them. That is where the similarities cease. Tom is the man who cheats on his wife daisy, with George 's wife Myrtle, and then proceeds to slap her when she would not stop speaking Daisy 's name. George, on the other hand, is a passionate and faithful husband to Myrtle and is crushed to learn that she was cheating on him so much so that he assassinates Gatsby whom he thinks was cheating with myrtle and murdered to get rid of the evidence of his adultery.
In the novel “The Great Gatsby” by F. Scott Fitzgerald, what Jay Gatsby feels for Daisy Buchanan is obsession. Gatsby revolves and rearranges his entire life in order to gain her affections. Gatsby’s obsession with Daisy resulted in him buying a mansion across the lake from her, throwing huge parties, and spending years of his life trying to become rich. Gatsby bought mansion intentionally across the lake from Daisy just to be closer to her.
It could be argued that Gatsby’s feelings for Daisy were genuine. With determination he works hard to be closer to Daisy. He settles in the house opposite of her. He throws grandiose parties, anticipating that she might appear there. In hopes to arrange a meeting with her after five years of separation.
In "F. Scott Fitzgerald 's" the Great Gatsby, there are many situations where we as the reader can see evidence of how Daisy 's love seems to be bought by Mr. Gatsby. After Gatsby and Daisy lost touch, Gatsby tried everything he could during that time period to try and gain her attention and pull her away from Tom. He throws lavish parties on the daily, lives in a mansion directly across from her house, and has made sure he has the best of everything money can buy. We as the reader truly get to see the effects of Gatsby 's plans in chapter six when Daisy and Gatsby finally reunite. There 's one question we must propose to ourselves while reading.
They were once in love, before the war. But, after Gatsby leaves Daisy finds a new man. A man with money that could give her anything she desired. Everything except love that is. Gatsby could give her love at the time, but not money.
Girls have always wished for a prince charming: that’s Gatsby. Gatsby is like the sprinkles to an ice cream, bright and colorful, like a lion who protects who he loves, and like a hungry eagle that doesn’t stop chasing what it wants. Jay Gatsby shows love and loyalty by making everything he does beneficial for himself and the ones he really cares about. He admits who he was and where he came from, but he did whatever it took to have the future he wanted with his love, Daisy. He is perhaps not loyal to many, but he is loyal to himself and the goals he wants to accomplish.
Gatsby falls in love with Daisy the first minute he meets her and never stops loving her even though she has obviously moved on. Gatsby does everything he can to be closer to her like buying “that house so that Daisy would be just across the bay” (78). Gatsby knows that if he can get the girl of his dreams he will not feel lonely anymore. " He talked a lot about the past… he wanted to recover something, some idea of himself perhaps, that had gone into loving Daisy. His life had been confused and disordered since then, but if he could once return to a certain starting place and go over it all slowly, he could find out what that thing was” (87).
Jay 's Obsession in The Great Gatsby There is a fine line between love and lust. If love is only a will to possess, it is not love. To love someone is to hold them dear to one 's heart. In The Great Gatsby, the characters, Jay Gatsby and Daisy Buchanan are said to be in love, but in reality, this seems to be a misconception.
They both love Daisy in their own way and do not want to lose her. Gatsby states, “Both of us loved each other all that time” (Fitzgerald 138). Gatsby wants Daisy to tell Tom she never loved him so that they can be together, but she cannot because it would not be true. Daisy says to Gatsby, “I did love him once-but I loved you too”(Fitzgerald 140). Daisy used to love both of them but chooses Tom because she is used to life with Tom and does not change.