The early Confucian thinkers place great emphasis on the concept of Ren (Goodness). To him, Ren is the foundational virtue that everyone ought to work towards. It is inevitable, then, that many of their views revolve around this concept of Ren, friendship included. Confucius holds the view that friendship is grounded in commitment to the good. He believes that friends should be trustworthy and that they should do the best they can for their friends, through which they are showing Ren. This brings us to the question of whether the commitment to the good is a necessity or merely a matter of choice. Considering Confucius’ views, I stand with the view that this commitment is not a necessity. Rather than being a necessity, it reflects two individuals’ …show more content…
While this commitment can contribute to a lasting friendship, it is not a necessity. Firstly, it is merely a common goal shared by individuals. One can simply replace that common goal with another one for example, a love for soccer or something more character-based – dedicating time for friends. The common goal is a constant which bridges the variables – friendship and something else together. Confucius’ view on friendship seems to be one that is grounded in character-building and aimed towards the ultimate goal of Ren, but there are many more aspects of friendship that are not covered. Indeed, when both parties involved in a friendship is upright and good in character, theoretically speaking, there exist less chances for conflicts in terms of morality, for they both share similar moral views (assuming they are both exemplifying Ren). Confucius also mentioned the importance of Xin in friendship, and that, I believe, is part of the commitment that friends make towards one another. Xin is important, and can be said to be a foundation of human relationships, but ultimately, it is still the person himself that we choose to have Xin in, and not us choosing the person because of Xin (or Ren for that …show more content…
Similar to Confucius, Kapur believes that friendship is based on the disposition of “benevolence” and “justice”. Not only do these moral values form part of the friendship, but these also justify “special treatment of friends” (Grunebaum, 1993). Should there not be these factors involved, there is no real friendship at all. While it is not uncommon for many to associate friendship with the unspoken promise that we ought to treat our friends well, and want the best for them, the basis of friendship is not and should not be that of morals. In contrary to that being the necessary “promise” that ties friends together, the commitment friends have towards each other (as a person) is the underlying “promise” friends make upon entering the friendship. After all, we make friends not solely because they uphold certain moral values, but because of whom they are as a person (their whole being). Additionally, it makes no sense for friendship to be based much on morality, for it is tough to keep track of whether our friends are doing their part (in terms of benevolence) in the friendship (Grunebaum, 1993). This idea seems to point towards a more utilitarian point of view, where it appears as though the friendship is forged because both parties are in a “contract” to do good for each other. This undermines the value of friendship itself, reducing it to mere benefits each can gain from
2. What is Confucius 's argument for virtue? They want to have a good leader and have faith on people and want people that follow rules. Ji said," What is killing good for?" Master knows that people will learn from that and will remember what they did wrong
Friendship offers numerous blessings that enrich life. A good friend makes happy days brighter and sad days more tolerable by demonstrating loyalty, optimism, and a spirit of adventure. Loyalty is staying faithful to a friend through both good and bad times. Optimism is looking on the bright side no matter how bad the situation may be. An adventurous spirit is being willing to take risks and try new things.
“Honesty and loyalty are key. If two people can be honest with each other about everything, that's probably the biggest key to loyalty” Taylor Lautner. This relates to the novel by John Steinbeck Of Mice and Men by showing that two men that are honest with each other will have loyalty in their friendship. George was loyal to Lennie even after all of the scandalous acts, Curley wanted to make sure his wife is safe and another significant example is Candy’s dog was Candy’s best friend. These three examples show that friends should be loyal to the extent that they do not inflict unnecessary suffering like Georges tolerance for Lennie, Curley's allegiance to his wife and Candy’s devotion for his dog.
What’s the purpose of friendship? Unfortunately, I was forced to learn this the hard way when I attended the ‘Virginia Aerospace Science and Technology Scholars’ Summer Academy over the summer of my junior year. The experience at the academy was unlike any other, but the challenge to make new friends was the most intimidating there than anywhere else that I’ve visited, especially at my own school. Yet, my school holds many of the common and well known people, such as teachers, that I could lean on for mental support, while at the academy had everything but Franklin County. What I meant by ‘but Franklin County’, I am actually referring to the wide varieties of different ethnicities and educational backgrounds that imploded into one single summer
Confucius and his disciples believed that people had a natural sense of empathy and that we owed it to one another to be kind to each other. This is a really big belief in modern society as well. We are taught as children that we should be kind to one another and care of one another. This has been a teaching throughout the centuries of human existence, and this isn’t just mentioned in the writings of Confucius and his disciples it’s also in the writing of other literary works as well. The Bible tells it reads to, “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you,” (Ephesians 4:32).
Although, friendship research has been carried out by researchers to studying friendship using qualitative and quantitative approach, however, this essay is going to evaluate and focus more on the contribution of qualitative
That the way to find peace was by allowing the natural things to happen and letting yourself to go along with them rather than trying to control the world to your own needs and desires. Confucianism, like Buddhism, is about following teachings rather than worshiping one god. The teachings claim that all humans are essentially good and this must be practiced toward all humans. Virtues and moral wisdom are essential components of a good person. Education and learning are also highly
Confucius believed that there is an order in the universe. The key idea of Confucianism is that it is political and ethical and not spiritual at all and the idea of filial piety, or idea that everyone has a specific place or job in a community or family. As in document 1, Confucius wrote “ Filial piety and brotherly respect are the root of
What is a friend? A common response to this question seems to be someone who accepts another for who they are. Another less used response to the same question is someone who leave another better than they once were. These two half definitions of friendship come to gather to explain that friend is someone who takes another how they already are and leaves that better than their previous state. True friendship often adds loyalty to ones character resulting in acts of courage.
Literary Analysis A Separate Peace Friendship is something that everyone will experience in their life. It could be either good or bad. John knowles shows both in the novel A Separate Peace.
This essay’s aims are to evaluate the contribution of a qualitative approach to friendship. I will discuss how different approaches studying friendship have been developed and how the findings influenced our understanding of friendships. Also, my focus will be on the benefits of quantitative and qualitative approaches and the limits of using qualitative methods for understanding friendship. In this paper, I will focus on two major
Friendship is an important part of the human life that guides human existence that guides how two humans in mutual understanding and relationship relate to each other. Nehamas and Woodruff (1989) provide Aristotle's description of friendship; that is goodwill that is reciprocated. Friendship is a phenomenon that happens every day in life amongst human beings with people falling in and out of friendship. There exist various kinds of friendships that are founded upon various needs, relations, and reasons. The source of the reciprocated goodwill brings the difference between perfect or complete friendships and imperfect or incomplete friendships.
Recognize good and evil is born. Is and Isn’t produce each other,” (Tao Te Ching 2). In this case, Confucius leans further toward Aristotle, as he places great significance on using correct names. A reader of both Confucius and Aristotle can immediately notice the resemblance between their views of how people should behave.
Although both Confucius and Mencius have a lot in common with regards to governance, the two do have varying opinions on certain matters such as the legitimacy when rulers are overthrown, and the relationship between the ruler and his people. In precedence to coming up with policies and administrative measures, one has to first consider the issue of human nature as it plays an essential role in the development of a state 's political system. In the Confucian philosophy, the belief is that goodness is innate in humans and that everyone shares this same trait [子曰:“性相近也,习相远也。”] (Analects, 17.2). Mencius further elaborated on this doctrine by stating that it is mankind’s natural tendency to be kind to others, just as water would naturally flow downwards (Mencius, 6A2).