Creative Writing: Eulogy For Connie

Is the thought of grievance or loss dawning on you? In "The Lovely Bones," by Alice Sebold, tells the story of a, 14 year old, teenage girl, Susie Salmon, who was raped and murdered by her neighbor, Mr. Harvey. Susie watches from heaven as the Salmon family mourns her death. The Salmon family has a difficult time dealing with Susie's disappearance. However, Susie tries to help her family to move on, but unfortunately, things begin falling apart and Susie's family undergoes different stages of grief. I the novel The Lovely Bones, Alice Sebold shows the toll grief can take on people through the use of mood.

In the essay, “On Being a Cripple,” Nancy Mairs uses humorous diction and a positive tone to educate people about life as a cripple and struggles of people with disabilities. She does this to show how hard it is to be disabled and how it differs from the life of someone without a disability. She talks about the struggles and the fears that disabled people must deal with on a daily basis. Mairs use of rhetoric creates a strong sense of connection and understanding for the reader. Nancy Mairs is successful in using detailed imagery, diction, and tone to educate her readers about the difficulties of living with a disability.

Death is the hardest thing to get over especially if it’s your family members. In the course of my life, I’ve had four people passed away. My mother 's dad and my father 's two brothers and sister died. I really didn 't know much about my dad 's sister but, she died from a brain aneurysm. My dad and his siblings always said how pretty and smart their older sister was. Death can be devastating to a person 's life because they 'll never get to see or talk to them ever again.

#3-Examining how death and the losses were addressed within my African American family is openly discussed and always some one’s fault. The experience of my grandmothers death relates to the statistics of the life expectations of African America. According to (Walsh 2004 p. 56) African American woman life expectancy for older adults is 70.2 years and African American men life span is 66.1 according to the national Vital Statistics Report (Volume, 47 NO.28). My grandmother died young I believe she was 59 years old. She had her very first heart attack when she was in 50 years old and she stopped drinking and gave herself to the lord. She was on so many different medications as a child I was not aware of the different medications she was taken.

Lion, directed by Garth Davis, is a compelling interpretation of a remarkable true story of Saroo Brierley, lost as a child and reunited with his family 25 years later. Throughout Davis explores the unique circumstances under which Saroo is separated and reconnected with his family and his journey along the way. At some points of the film, I was confronted by how Saroo, a five-year-old boy, expertely navigates, with great instinct and genuine innocence, through an extended, yet life threatening ride. To put it in other words, Lion is a journey that grabs you entirely; whether you want it or not, and you are involved in each and every scene.

A. Attention Getter- I will never forget the day my mom called me and told me that she had found a lump in her breast. She immediately went to get a mammogram, and sure enough, it was breast cancer.

In the short story, “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?”, by Joyce Carol Oates, Connie met another character named Arnold Friend. Throughout their interactions Connie evolves in the story. In “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?”, Connie evolves as a character through Connie's relationship with her mother, interactions with Friend, and her emotional and physical status.

Grief is a complicated literature to describe as it is a powerful and personal human response, typically after losing a loved one. Grief is universal, every individual copes with grief in their own ways. The problem of this literature is that it has not been studied in depth and this complicated topic can become difficult to analyze due to misinterpretation of feelings and emotions, which is clearly foreseeable in the articles reported. Grief is a natural human reaction, however the outcome grief has on an individual is powerful and often dangerous to one’s own life. PubMed Health describes grief reactions into three terms; anticipatory grief, common grief, and complicated/prolonged grief. The outcomes of grief, in particular complicated grief,

“124 was spiteful. Full of a baby’s venom… 124 was loud… 124 was quiet” (Beloved 1-94-134)

The short story “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been” written by Joyce Oates demonstrates through the main character Connie, a young girl that has been trying to find her place in the world, that people always will all have to battle their fears interwinding with their desires. First and foremost, Connie is a pretty young girl that thrives on her beauty. Her obsession with her beauty in a psychological point of view is actually her desire to have a connection with her mother. Her beauty is the one compliment that her mother will give her, “ ‘ Stop gawking at yourself. Who are you? You think you’re so pretty?’ she would say. Connie would raise her eyebrows at these familiar old complaints and look right through

On July 20th 2005, tragedy struck which changed author Kimberley William’s life for years to come. Her son, Caleb Williams, went down to the Snoqualmie River and plummeted nearly 20 feet from a rope swing to the rocks below which caused a traumatic brain injury. The months following the accident tested the patience and faith of the family as Caleb lay in a comatose state. Although he lay in this state of unconsciousness for months, the family relied on God who continuously displayed his omnipotence in the healing process. When tragedy strike, believers need to persevere and continue relying on God, even when it feels like the whole world is caving in. Throughout the book Beams of Light Piercing the Storm, Kimberley Williams helps readers

When I was younger, I started babysitting as a way to make money. One home I babysat in particular will always resonate with me. I began to babysit for Lisa, a women my mother worked with, because she was not home during the day to watch her daughter. Lisa’s daughter, Caroline, was beautiful. Her hair was as blonde as Cinderella’s, and her eyes were a light hazel that anyone could fall in love with. Caroline and her mother lived in a little yellow house that resembled a doll’s. The only thing I disliked about the house was the amount of dragonflies that seemed to swarm outside. But they would scatter when her father would come to visit them in their small home.

On Wednesday 22nd March 2017 I attended my first non-Christian funeral. The deceased was my college drama teacher Sally Humphreys, who, unbeknownst to me, had been battling cancer for the last eight months. After receiving the news, I was unsure how I ought to respond. My mind began to flood with questions such as, ‘why didn 't I keep in touch with Sally and tell her about Jesus?’ ‘What does God think about this?’ ‘Should I go to the funeral?’

Losing someone you love dearly is one of the hardest things anyone can go through. Sometimes it hurts so bad that you may yourself, “What’s the point of being here anymore?” I ask myself that question all the time, ever since my Grandmother passed away.

1). When a person is going through life circumstances, it is their resilience they lean on to overcome. While it is understandable that some overcome more quickly, there a few who find it almost incapable to withstand life’s trials and tribulation. In most recent years statistical data shows that “the number of drug poisoning deaths has exceeded the number of motor vehicles accidents, falls, firearms, and fire death among adult” (Green & Donnelly, 2011, p.341). After losing a young, gifted family member to this matter, life can seem hopeless. It takes a lot of energy to look to the future and envisions a life without that loved one. Though life will never be the same, time will eventually heal all wounds. It takes the love and support of those surrounding the bereaved to help preserve. A certain mental tenacity is required to cope with the new reality after a loss. One must put forth the physical effort to get their body moving and implement the plans they have conjured to overcome. Once the mind and body are activated, in time the soul will rest easy also. Sadly, this will not happen overnight. It likely will not happen within several weeks, but more often months. In worst case scenarios it could take a year or longer. Nevertheless, once overcoming this obstacle it will add only add strength and develop resilience for prospective obstacles.