“Stumbling on Happiness”, authored by Daniel Gilbert, is a book that will quite possibly change the way you think and look at with just about everything. Through perception and cognitive biases, people imagine the future poorly, in particular what will make them happy. I chose to read this book because as I go day-to-day, I want to do everything in my power to be happy, and do things happily. Making each and everything that I do have a meaning, or a reason for doing it. Many people think that they know what makes them happy, or what they have to do to make them happy. However, I do believe that one must really have to find themselves in order to be happy or know what happiness is. Overall, my understanding of the book is that Daniel Gilbert’s …show more content…
Gilbert also uses yellow as an example. When one is describing the word “yellow” they may describe it as the color, however that is incorrect. Gilbert explains the word “yellow” as a psychological state. One might think that describing what the color looks like or what is relevant to the color yellow, however, that is not necessarily correct. Indicating a rubber ducky, a school bus, or a lemon, “see all those things? The thing that is common to the visual experiences you have when you look at them is called yellow,” Gilbert expresses. Every form of happiness occupies a different point on a scale of happiness. Emotional happiness is an experience, so what we each experience has a relation to emotional experiences whether they cause happiness or …show more content…
How to please them and do what satisfies them. What consumers want, and what marketers think they want, may be very apparent. For a marketer, it is one of the most important, if not the most important thing to know the wants and needs, and what makes a consumer happy. What really matters to consumers? According to, “The 3 Psychological Triggers that Matter to Happy Customers”, the first trigger is personal touch, making something more personal to the consumer. The second trigger is reciprocity, by going out of your way to make sure that the consumer is satisfied, creating a connection with the consumer. Finally, the third is “being a VIP”, making sure that your consumers are loyal customers. “78 percent of customers say they show loyalty to a brand by telling others about it.” (The 3 Psychological Triggers that Matter to Happy
In his article "In Pursuit of Happiness: Better Living from Plato to Prozac," Mark Kingwell describes how there has been many debates on the meaning of happiness for many years yet still a singular, justifiable definition eludes society. The pursuit to define and understand happiness has invited several debates, questions, arguments, and suggestions alike. In 1996, a hand full of genetic and behavioral studies suggest evidence that one’s achievable degree of happiness is genetically decided, with evidences showing that no achievement will change your happiness, you are either happy or you’re not. Some studies demonstrated a correlation between dopamine levels in the brain and expressions of personal satisfaction, while others indicated that
The book “Happy, Happy, Happy” was written by Phil Robertson. Phil stars on the show Duck Dynasty, he has also written other books such as Duck Commander Family and Si-Cology. Phil Robertson started the very successful business Duck Commander. Phil had been building duck calls before he started his business. He got the nickname “Duck Commander” from his friend when he was duck hunting, and had pulled out his duck calls he built and started using them.
Instead it’s the decisions you make or the way you choose to see things that can really make you happy. For instance, at the beginning of the reading there was an example of two different people who both just had a baby and are facing long nights, but one has a better outlook than the other: “She sees challenge where you see only threat. She takes an uplifting, optimistic perspective when you feel distrustful and beaten down.” (28) This shows that in a rough situation, the only thing standing between you and happiness is yourself, you can choose to look on the brighter side and be happy, or you can choose to look at all the negatives and be unhappy or possibly even depressed.
People need authentic human interaction to be truly happy. This claim is supported by the novel, Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury, the film, Pleasantville directed by Gary Ross, and the article, Why Loneliness Is Bad for Your Health by Nancy Shute. In Fahrenheit 451, people need authentic human interaction to be truly happy. This is supported with Montag and Mildred’s relationship and how Mildred says the parlor walls are “really fun” (18), but she still tried to commit suicide.
People want to be happy, isn’t that right? Well, aren’t they?’” (Bradbury 56). All people want in life is to be happy. They want to be untroubled and not have to stress about what’s going on in the real world.
Sometimes a person feels immense happiness like how David and Bobby feel in Earle Birney’s story “David.” People feel this level of happiness in different places and situations. Some people feel it when they accomplish something, others feel it when they are participating in an activity. I feel it when I build in Minecraft and see great improvements or progress in the build. People might feel it in different ways but the feeling is essentially universal in some aspects.
The average brain goes through multiple experiences each and every day that impact your emotions in various ways that one cannot control. The most enjoyable and complex emotion would have to be happiness. Happiness is ultimately subjective to the individual themselves based on the experiences they’ve had. According to author Daniel Gilbert who wrote Paradise Glossed explains that actions are also based upon emotions and that it drives the individual to do certain things. On the other hand, Author Matthieu Ricard describes happiness to be a burden of sorts causing one to eventually depress themselves.
It is important to want to obtain true happiness instead of just having it
People miss the fact that happiness comes from within. In an attempt to find joy – we must also be cautious about over excessive desire to acquire material objects and wealth. There is a delicate balance that must be reached between the pursuit of happiness, satisfaction, and contentment. While there are many conditions that fulfill ones emotional wellbeing, happiness and how we acquired it, depends upon the
Nicholas A. Roes writes about the road to recovery in “A License to be Happy.” In this article, Nicholas tells his readers of the main denominators in the “ingredients of happiness.” The ingredients are known as optimism, gratitude, forgiveness and mutually satisfying relationships. He goes on to explain that one of the biggest obstacles in most people’s day-to-day lives is the constant thought of never being happy and end up supporting the idea that others can obtain happiness. Instead of seeing what we have, they often avoid looking at the good in their life and lean more on the negative aspect of their life.
Working on what you know will bring you happiness is a long term effect of happines. For example if i know being fit and healthy is something that will bring happiness to me i need to work for it as time pass by seeing my developments will bring happiness to me. “Ask yourself to be happy, and you cease to be so” he states; this is a powerful claim. I ask myself and to be truthful i am not. We underestimate the power of happiness that surrounds us.
In American society today, there’s debates centered around how to be happy and to stay happy. There is generally lots of ways to stay happy and make you happy but sometimes those objects that make you happy are temporary happiness. As the prominent philosopher John Mill is that people shouldn’t be so focused on being happy, that shouldn't be your main purpose in life. Mill’s argument about happiness is correct in that we shouldn’t be focused on making others happy or the world a better place, try to be more focused on our own happiness.
While many people feel like they are not capable of achieving true happiness it is possible. In Sandra Cisneros' essay, Straw into Gold: The Metamorphosis of the Everyday, she speaks of how she needed to stray from the conventional
Throughout the year, my mind has matured after reading the many sophisticated novels and inspirational true stories assigned to me in english class. Although many of my basic principles that I believe will lead to a happy life have remained the same, one major principle has drastically changed thanks to the reading I did this year. I use to believe building yourself up through education and financial stability were the two most important things to happiness. After reading Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck, building relationships became more important than financial stability, which had moved down to the third most important thing on my list of things that will lead to happiness. The House on Mango Street by Sandra Cisneros really solidified my stance on why building yourself up through an education is very important to happiness.
If happiness was unattainable, I had no means of chasing it. However, while reading this book, the author taught me otherwise. Combined with humorous, inspirational, and uplifting stories, Dr. David Khorram allowed me to view the positive side