INTRODUCTION: In this fast pacing society, the desire to express our ego is very strong in each one of us. However, in effective conversation, the ability to speak out your mind is not one of the most crucial factors. According to Libuse Binder, the author of Ten Ways to Change the World in Your Twenties, it is not the one who talk louder will make a good dialogue but the one who can listen calmly through diverse perspective. Listening is more important than speaking when you are trying to persuade others because it helps us to understand people, show respect and gain knowledge. BODY: Paragraph 1: In communication, especially in persuasive conversation or speech, it is important to listen to understand others.
Respect Your neighbors Have you ever had a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements. Well some people don’t understand what this is or how to do it. This hard to understand concept is respect. Many people don’t know how to show respect or even what it is. You should be a role model on how to show respect to others.
No matter how great your social skills are and how smoothly you talk, if you're not confident in your skin and don't genuinely care about the person you're talking, you won't be able to make a meaningful connection and leave a lasting impression. How you feel is much more important than how you want to be perceived. You can learn canned phrases, or practice certain body language moves, but whoever you're talking to will be able to tell that you're faking it and will feel uncomfortable. I always thought that I needed to know exactly what to say and how to behave, to be successful in a social interaction, but that's just wrong. There's something much more important that you need if you want to leave a good impression.
According to Goldsmith ( 2011) there are 10 things to consider in order to give and get an emotional support. He concluded that most people get starved to be touched oftenly, with this a simple way of expressing emotional support could be share through a very powerful experience. Being respectful for the feelings of a person also let her to know that a person is available to be talked to. Giving enough space that a person's need is also a way of showing care. Giving a small gift or surprised helps to keep an emotion alive making an individual involved to feel special.
You can only respect others if you know what it means to be respectful. Respecting the rights of others starts inside you, in the importance of respecting yourself before anything or anyone else. The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines respect as a feeling of admiring someone or something that is good, valuable or important and as high or special regard for someone, something or any other entity. You can´t expect respect from others if you don´t even respect yourself. Once you have established that respect for yourself it will be projected through you, through the way you talk, move, eat and live in general.
2) In order to be perceived as confident you must not only communicate well but also stand tall with your neck elongated and ear and shoulders aligned . 3) Powerful people tend to use smaller and subtle hand gestures to demonstrate their point with authority .The ability to have eye contact while speaking shows your level of confidence .Maintaining proper eye contact shows your self confidence and know well you know the topic you are presenting to the audience .It also improves your ability to persuade the other person and build trust as well understanding . Lack of eye contact is understood and taken as a sign of deception. 4) Smiling while talking to your co workers and boss helps to build positive and healthy relation with them , making them more comfortable. 5) Maintain adequate distance while talking to someone .It shows you respect the other person’s personal space, leaving a good impression of you.
1. One of the most meaningful lesson I’ve learned in class about myself was to learn how to listen properly. Listening is one of the most important skills you can learn and yet so many of us don 't listen properly as we should when having a conversation with a peer. We tend to rush and give advice instead of listening and helping them grow as a person and help them find a solution for them self’s. Listening is more than just sitting silently while someone else talks it’s actively participating in the conversation by encouraging our peer to open up and speak by giving full attention at all time, I’ve learn to be more humble with others.
Do you have an idol or someone that you look up to? If so, you most likely look up to that person because you respect him or her. You may respect them for their qualities or admire their numerous achievements. I believe respect has a different meaning to each person based upon how they look up to someone. I feel that respect is a feeling of admiration and passion for someone because of their qualities.
Often that is a situation where we meet someone who has quite different ideas. There are several reasons why it is important for us to be aware of our values. One is that being aware of our values helps us to make choices in our lives that fit with our values. When we do that, we can respect ourselves for the way we live our lives. Another reason is that being aware of our values helps us to understand that not everyone feels the same, and it helps us to respect others even if the values they hold are different from ours, especially in a counselling situation where one will come into contact with many different people of many different
Even the best communicators have declared that communication is quite difficult and no matter how clear they have send the message and people will also have misunderstanding about it. No matter how attentively they try to listen to me, they do not understand the message clearly. The most important that we want to learn about communication we need to put afford to respect your audience, why you are communication, what you want to say, pay attention and keep an open mind. To respect your audience it need to have two key actions for communicating clearly are knowing and respecting your audience. You also need to know why are you communicating with a valid reason on it.