I am the oldest of three children, I lived with my parents and grandparents, I grew up in a very small town in Mexico, farm life, rural area type of environment. I identified with these two attachments because my mom was a very loving woman at times but was dealing with many risk factors, such as, being a victim of domestic violence, poverty, lack of moral support. Most of my memories are of pain, her being physically, verbally abuse and jumping from house to house not being wanted. As an older child, I had to mature fast for my age, to be a support for my siblings and my
Through my experiences in life I have realized that things do not always go as planned and I had learned to accept all changes in my life, except for situations where I had to say goodbye. My quince was everything I had hoped for, but sadly not everyone I had pictured there were able to attend. The absence of my grandfather affected me more than anyone could tell that night. The memory of how I lost him still leaves me in tears every time I remember it. From time to time my grandpa would stop to visit and take us to his ranch; those were the good old days.
We were both given unconditional love and we still get all that from my parents, we are in our mid and late forties. My sister and I grew up to be good people, hard working woman, which we learned from our parents and surrounding families. But I must say that the one thing I could have done without was all their fighting and although my mother denies it, there was domestic abuse which in some way affected us or at least me. There should be no domestic violence; no physical or verbal or mental abuse to have a functional healthy family. In some way, I feel that part of my childhood made me dysfunctional at least during my first marriage.
Anyone who has siblings understands that growing up there will be arguments and fights. After my brother left to go live with his mom I did not get that sibling rivalry, well until my cousin and I started spending more time together. Growing up with a cousin that is only about eleven months younger than me lead to many disagreements in the future, mainly because of us living side by side we did everything together. In February of 1999 I was born into an amazing family, being the newest baby in our mediate family I was adored by everyone. That lasted until December of that same year when Jannie was born, everyone can see that she got more attention for the next few months after she was born.
Being an only child, for the most part, I firmly agree with Adler’s claims with regard to the birth order theory, as well as their corresponding characteristics. Throughout my childhood, I, indeed have been heavily pampered and I have been the center of attention for my parents. I was practically spoiled with everything that I wanted, given the fact that my parents never had a child before. Along with the birth order theory, its corresponding characteristics have definitely surprised me for it seems that these descriptions could be considered as accurate. Contrary to popular belief, such general principles, indeed still have a place in a subjective family situation.
I have always been a person who has loved his family, but you know how it is as you get older, You have more responsibilities, you have so many worries, family seems to be pushed to The side, Isn’t it strange how you can get so caught up in work, or life and forget about the ones you love, Go on about your day, as if you have an ignorant belief your love ones will live forever. My grandfather was My best friend while I was growing up, he even had a nickname for me ,he called me beetle, but as I became a teenager we started to drift apart, I was interested in girls and hanging out with my buddies, you know how it is, you try more to fit in ,less willing to hang out with family, as time went on my grandfather’s health started to slowly decline,
That’s a funny idea. Maybe I did know, somewhere deep down. Something the rest of you didn’t.” (Never Let Me Go 22) Ruth had always friends in her early childhood in contrast to Tommy who was an outcast. Similarly, both saw Kathy as their good friend also they both die and completing their supposed purpose in their life. In short,aside from Kathy, the most important characters are Ruth and Tommy because they represented dreams, desires, jealousy, anger, pleasure and all the things that makes one human.
She really understands me better than anyone ever will she can tell when i'm mad/sad or just flat out tired. What i learned from my parents divorce was to be very independent but also keep those i love very close to my heart and even though i don't see my dad as often as i should i know we still have a very tight bond that most father and sons do. But my step-dad has had a very huge impact in my life as well. He's very hard on me as a parents should be but i know it's always for the good when he jumps my butt for doing something wrong or when i make poor choices as most kids do at my age. Hes really stepped in and opened up a path on how to be respectable when i need to and thats really helped going through life not seeing your dad very much.
Although shy, I loved my friends and siblings and thought the best in every situation. It wasn’t until I grew older and received the guidance and outside perspective of my adopted mom that I realized how awful my home life was. I’ve since begun analyzing my behaviors and emotions that ran through my mind as a child to realize how to overcome the abuse I’d endured. The six books I’ve chosen as mirrors identify the emotions and behaviors I see myself having at a young age of nine or ten years old. Though I might not have realized why I was the way I was back then, I know now that I have developed into the woman I am today because of my home life and experiences as a child.
Before my name is Takoshi Takeo Konou,my name was Tithi...born on 30th September in my home country Brunei Darussalam, small country but it is a huge world as I see and i love my family down to the deepest of my heart,they take care of me and I took care of them especially my 4 loveable siblings Ralie the protective brother but a bit stubborn towards my mother,Inoy the 3rd sibling in my family but she is lazy compared to others except she sometimes always help with chores,MiuMiu is the 4th sibling is sadistic,dangerous and the most brutal little sister in my family!,Princess bb(because that what she likes to be called everytime) is the youngest sibling in the family and there is me Tithi is my name I am the 2nd sibling in the family.We are the most loudest in the neighborhood when we started fighting or even if we are all after one thing…..most the sound came from my brother and Inoy every single day. Inoy yelled“I want to watch my show! You had your turned now give me the remote! !” “No I am the older brother, be patient for a bit my show is almost over” “NO NO NO NO NO, (at this rate she screamed like she lost someone or something veryx100 LOUD)I had no choice but to show no business with them and continue my gaming at my room, back when I am 10 years old. I love playing games day and night until I am tired out of energy.