According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, the term 'Faggot ' is "used as an insulting and contemptuous term for a male homosexual" and is classified as offensive language. Most people are well aware that this term is offensive. Regardless it is still often used in certain areas of our society. Language is known to evolve over time, or be used differently in certain contexts. The use of the term 'Faggot ' or its shorter version 'Fag ' has been popular in high schools across America; it was not uncommon to hear it in the halls of my high school. Author C.J. Pascoe delved in to the high school world to investigate this practice and wrote the book Dude You 're A Fag: Masculinity and Sexuality in High School displaying her findings. During her …show more content…
Specifically, she aimed to study the role of masculinity in the everyday behaviors of the students. The form of study conducted by Pascoe was an ethnography. An ethnography is defined as a "sociological method that explores how people live and make sense of their lives with one another in particular places" (Columbia University). Ethnographies are most common when studying a certain culture or subset of people, in this case high schoolboys. Because Pascoe inserted herself into the school environment with the boys, she got to witness their experiences and behavior firsthand over a long period of time. This helped her to obtain a more genuine understanding of how they use the term fag and how the …show more content…
In the beginning of the book, Pascoe writes about watching a skit being performed at an assembly. The boys originally look nerdy and weak, and their girlfriends are stolen by 'gangstas '. A girl then comes on stage with weights to train them, but they cannot even lift the weights and everyone laughs because they are weaker than a female. The boys are being ridiculed and laughed at because a girl is displaying more masculinity than them. Eventually they could easily lift the weights that they struggled with at first, and they confronted the 'gangstas ' and got their girls back (Pascoe 1-3). This skit was significant enough to mention in the book because it showed the setting, and it showed what the high school boys thought of masculinity and how it should be enacted. It is made clear that masculinity is very important to these boys and heterosexuality can be a big part of masculinity. Without their masculinity, they lose status. This is why gender policing becomes so prominent between high school boys. Gender policing is described by sociologists as "responses to the violation of gender rules aimed at promoting conformity." (Wade 71). In this case when a boy does something that is not seen as masculine, he will likely be reprimanded by those around him. The most common form of gender policing among these high school boys is the use of the term 'fag '. This may seem odd as 'fag ' is supposed to attack someone 's sexuality, not gender expression, but the meaning
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The words, “nigger” and “faggot,” I feel are being used more often as a counter to the malediction that was placed on this words; either it be during the civil war in the nineteenth century or the modern day. George Carlin said that there are only bad thoughts and intentions that turn the words that we use into ones that may inflict pain: Both nigger and faggot are degrading terms that by themselves have no power, but when there is a meaning behind them that is intended to inflict agony upon the receiver of the word, only then does the word take on its true form. Nigger, was used commonly in the South part of America during the Civil War, where black people were kept as slaves. The word derives from many languages spelling of the word black,
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But many will not.” This show that he understands not everyone is going to be effected by this cultural phenomenon in a monumental way but it will still effect everyone and some people could have catastrophic reactions. The author is saying that this is exactly the reason that boys act out the way they do and it would benefit society to try to change
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“That’s so gay.” “You’re such a queer.” “Stop being a faggot.” We hear those phrases, those cruel words in our everyday lives. People are using them as insults, and it is not okay.