Depression may cause mood fluctuations and thus raise unpredictability in parenting styles. Rejections by the parent get internalised by the child who then perceives itself as undeserving of love. This could affect the child 's self-esteem and as they start interacting with others they may have impaired social skills that would further aggravate their anxiety. Schore (2007) suggests that rejection at a young age could also be linked to later developing antisocial traits like borderline personality disorders. The parent may express their anger in non-verbal ways like the silent treatment (Field, 1989) which may be too vague for the child to comprehend and they may feel confused on how to behave and they also may not learn ways express their own anger and thus internalize their emotions.
There were also reasons some parents fear about their child’s health status might worsen after procedures (12.5%) and one parent came out with religious reason (12.5%). Some parents believed lumbar puncture procedures could cause mental retardation to their children (17). Equally important reasons were their children were too small for procedures and it could cause unbearable pain to their children. Besides, some parents said the procedure way too dangerous since it involved in poking children spinal cord and it could weaken children’s kidney. Researchers postulate the arise in wrong belief among the community about lumbar puncture in some way could lead to paralysis to patients.
States that “It is important to bear in mind that children often experience a mix of seemingly contradictory feelings, including sadness, anger, fear, guilt and confusion.” Parents should understand the child’s situation because it’s very difficult for them to accept and adjust and the parents should explain to the child the situation to avoid the child on blaming his/her self on the separation of his/her parents. Blaming themselves can lead them more to feel that life is worthless, when children can feel these emotions, especially in an early stage in the near future they tend to become more worthless. In the long run they might not be able to feel the importance of life when this happens their characteristics might be hard to handle since they were not parented well since they were young. Less opportunity is to come their way since they might as well lost love and proper communication since they become anti-social because of the separation they
• Encouragement: if children are not given the praise and encouragement they need, this will affect their relationships and friendships as they get older and they will have poor attachment this can develop into anxiety, depression and they will lack motivation. • Learning difficulties are also a factor that influences a child’s development. Children with learning difficulties will need extra support with certain areas of development and may develop low self-esteem because they get annoyed with themselves for not being able to do something, such as a simple numeracy problem or read a book. External factors affecting learning and development are likely to be limited access to services and support, but parents and carers may not be aware of this. • Children with ill heath on a regular basis can develop much more slower, this may cause longer term issues such as failure to grow or thrive.
This is a non consistent attachment here there is not real way for the child to cope with the given conditions the infant can become depressed give blank dazed expression and can demonstrate disturbing behavior. (Forms of attachment , 2012) Disorganized attachment arises from fright with out solutions this could be from abuse or neglect un responded trauma and leaving the infant feeling afraid. ( Forms of attachment 2012 ) Infant are born with instinct to seek care from their parents can caregivers their survival depends on it . They try and get their needs met but when there is no organization or a strategy for their care the needs are not met and the child fee unsure of their needs and their importance. ( What is attachment ,2016 ) Long term affects can be actions that do not make sense demonstrating unpredictable and confusing erratic behavior , they will not learn healthy ways to self soothe and can have troubles socializing.
Fear might be woman’s first and most immediate feelings during or after beating, but other negative feelings may surface when she is not in physical anger. The abused woman is apt to develop doubt about herself. The longer she puts up with abuse and does nothing to avoid or prevent it, the less she likes herself. Along with the feelings of being a failure, both as a woman and in her marriage, may come a real feeling of being trapped and powerless, with no way
The higher the age of a women the higher the risk of facing pregnancy problems. Having baby at higher age will not only bring negative effect to the mother but also affect the baby. The baby may suffer from brain damage, mental disorder and other illnesses which may cause the innocent child to have a miserable life in the future. If this unfortunate event occurs, when the child grows up, the parents are already aged, they are incapable of taking care of the child causing the child to be left abandoned. On the other hand, the generation gap exists between the late married couple and their children may have just caused communication problems (Yan 2013).
I believe that parents are more afraid of puberty than children. Children don’t know what they’re getting into so it would be hard for them to really be afraid, however parents have experienced puberty before making them worry and compare their experience to their child’s. Parents may want to protect their kids from experiencing the same things they did but in fact it is often those experiences during our developing stages that shape us the most. What is your main take-away message after watching
The overall poor decision making skills and self esteem of a teenager sometimes lead to teenage pregnancy. The family has a major influence on teenage pregnancy. Some homes lack fathers or other responsible male role models. This can affect the teenager because they might seek this type of love from another teen, which leads to teenage pregnancy. Many people are concerned about the problems teenage parents and their children face.
A consequence of this type of ongoing neglect will lead the child to live in an inappropriate or dangerous environment ; unsuitable clothing for weather, extreme hunger, apparent lack of supervision, a child who is sluggish, suffers from fatigue and has an unexplained weight loss may be under nourished. Domestic violence or abuse; A child who lives with and witnesses domestic abuse between their main care givers may experience perceived or actual threats to themselves, along with the parent who is the direct victim. Domestic violence and triggered disruption in a child’s living situation often causes sudden moves or changes in the family dynamics. Sadly in abuse cases especially sexual children are reluctant to share experiences as they have often been threatened into keeping silent or not sharing the `special secret`. Also being made to feel shame and guilt about the abuse, it was somehow their fault or a result of their actions.