Filled with a smorgasbord of rich, detailed interviews of solo dwellers and other stakeholders to single living, Eric Klinenberg’s Going Solo: The Extraordinary Rise And Surprising Appeal Of Living Alone (2012) provides an intimate account into the phenomenal rise of solo living that has both paralyzed and empowered American society; a phenomenon that is on an international rise, with its reach extending to other nations across the globe. Klinenberg’s (2002) previous research on the 1995 Chicago heat wave, in which he discovered that most of the 750-odd victims had died in isolation, served as a macabre catalyst that galvanized his initial foray into the rise of living alone. Going Solo thus begins by explaining the social changes that are leading to the rising propensity for solo living, and subsequently takes the reader through a series of life chapters; candidly chronicling the struggles, joys, and quirks of individuals living alone (a population that Klinenberg dubs “singletons” [p.4]). More importantly, he warns of the implications to merely brushing aside this epidemic of singletons as a social problem; a problematic view that echoes the woeful cries of …show more content…
230) – a field of research that links living alone with “the rise of loneliness, the collapse of civil society, and the demise of the common good” (p. 230). In defense of singletons, the author sets out to debunk these misleading myths surrounding a progressively autonomous nation of individuals, and points towards solutions in the form of government and social welfare policies that act as a safety net for this growing demographic. He reasons that this is an irreversible demographic shift that must be embraced, as society celebrates “the emergence of the individual, the rising status of women, the growth of cities, the development of communications technologies, and the expansion of the life course” (p.
In American culture, working long, tiring hours is considered the only way to live. Many individuals feel pressured to follow the path society has set out for them. Walden on Wheels: On the Open Road from Debt to Freedom, chronicles Ken Illgunas’ journey to self efficacy. His 2013 memoir follows his grapple with student debt and social pressure.
The home is generally constructed as a place of ownership, where we feel secure enough to “remove our masks” that we wear when we present ourselves to the rest of the world (293). Our homes often reflect our own or our family’s identity and are indicative of our lifestyles. The stories that are presented in Evicted reveal the intense levels of anxiety and anguish that surround the eviction process due to the nature of how we interact with our homes and the indestructible link that exists between a physical home and
Both books display how being alone can lead to vulnerability, whether it’s relating to simply surviving or keeping sanity in war. Crossing borders into a new place often leads to this sense of
For many people, the childhood house they grew up in has countless memories, both good and bad. However, the concept of home is not confined to a single house or location-- instead, home is mostly made by the people in it. Although this can sometimes be forgotten, the home matters far more than the house. The experiences someone goes through in their home serve as lessons that over time begin to shape their view of the world and themselves. In Jeannette Walls’
I recently read of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck. The book revolves around the motif of isolation. Two characters specifically: Crooks and Curleyś wife were strongly affected by their alienation Those who are lonely are the most desperate to be accepted. I moved to Oregon in the middle of the the school semester of 2009. I was the odd one out.
Xiao Xuan, 22, resident of Beijing is one who suffered the consequences because of the One Child Policy. She was thankful for all the attention and resources but she actually wished to have someone to share (Doc F). Not all children like to have attention always focused on them, Xiao says,” I used to cut myself on my wrist after being yelled at by my mom and dad because I didn’t know who I should talk or turn to,” she was like this for almost two years (Doc F). Many youngsters that were an only child have social problems and felt lonely most of the time because there was no one as close to them as a sibling.
While the intentions behind this philosophy are worthy of respect, actually living a “self-reliant life” is nearly impossible and is likely to backfire. Christopher McCandless, for example, although attempting to embody the ideas of Thoreau in the purest form, is assisted by others countless times throughout his journey. Chris is given much-needed rides, food, advice, and supplies by other people during his adventure (Penn). It is incredibly difficult to live truly on your own because oftentimes, in order to succeed we need the help of other people. In addition, once he is isolated in the Alaskan wilderness, he struggled to provide for himself and eventually died due to starvation (Penn).
Introduction The life course in Canada has changed dramatically over the past several decades – where women once stayed at home, they now gain high degrees of education and employment; where families were once large, they are now steadily declining in size (Statistics Canada 2015; McDaniel 2001, Table 1). However, every individual’s life course is unique as it is affected and shaped by the society that they grow up in and the social, economic and political occurrences over their life course (Pampel & Peters 1995, pp.165; Elder 1999, pp.304; Mannheim 1952, pp.297). In an effort to better understand the individuality of the life course, affected by larger macro processes of society, this paper will analyse the life course of the respondent,
America has had a tumultuous existence, replete with war, progress, and ideologies. The most formidable of these is individualism, or the shift of society’s focus from the group to the individual and a growing emphasis on their personal needs and desires. Despite wide criticism, it has become the societal norm, spanning all generations, genders, races, and walks of life. Individualism, while indeed centered on the individual, is more accurately described as the changing and shifting relationship between the individual and society.
Individualism is when a person has achieved non-conformity, self-reliance, free-thought, confidence, and finding one’s self through nature. Although individualism may be achieved in society, it cannot be fully achieved until one removes himself from society. Chris McCandless did exactly that; he removed himself from society by backpacking and hitchhiking throughout the United States to test and achieve individualism. McCandless’s last great adventure was to Alaska to fully obtain individualism, unfortunately, he died trying to find his spiritual belonging and individualism. Many people would think it was absurd that Chris left his family and threw his life away, and they would think that he was not justified in leaving society, however, Chris McCandless was justified in leaving society because by doing so he could achieve non-conformity and self-reliance without being oppressed.
Due to the rapid population growth and social differentiation, social bonds loosened and long-standing relationships weakened. Social cohesion, which formerly existed within cities, was no longer prominent. “Chicago sociologist Louis Wirth noted that life in the biggest cities was marked by a loss of community. People no longer knew their neighbors and others in the community” (Rury 138). There was no longer a connection with others that once existed in towns and neighborhoods.
Isolation is a dangerous thing. It can push us into thinking very pessimistically, which can lead us into doing harmful actions. As Miguel de Unamuno once said, “isolation is the worst possible counselor.” In Charlotte Perkins Gilman’s The Yellow Wallpaper the narrator is portrayed as psychotic as a result of solidarity; this shows us the dangerous effects of complete isolation.
Social reproduction is a term coined to describe the process of reproducing workers for the labour market. Although social reproduction is focused towards the labour market, Armstrong and Peck distinguish larger processes at work such as gender roles in the household as well as the role of the state in social reproduction. Peck, Armstrong, and Taylor & Rioux explore various ways that social reproduction is accomplished, such as the role of labour regimes and the state. With regards to the gender division of labour, Marglin, Federici, and Gaskell explore how social reproduction has contributed to women and men being treated differently through processes such as the devaluation of skill. With the knowledge of the process of social reproduction,
Individualism not only helps a society grow, but also help the people in it realise that they are good at doing. Richard Koch in this article “In Individual Good or Bad,” compared the pros and cons of individualism. He believes that “individualism has been an enormous success in encouraging ordinary people
Late Adulthood is the stage of the human life cycle where an individual nears the end of their life. The life expectancy in the United States has slowly increased over the years therefore allowed many to further analyze the physical, cognitive, and psychosocial development during late adulthood. The stage of late adulthood has been emphasized by ageism and the stereotypical "old" person but, will be further educated by the normative development of the life cycle of late adulthood. For the “old” experience dramatic changes in their development as they face loss, death, and illness.