Essay About Romantic Relationship

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Relationship Tip #1 - It 's ALL about being a Friend!

Romantic love does not always last. Sometimes you just aren 't in the mood to be all "lovey-dovey, cuddling by the fireside," romantic with your partner. This is not to say that romance is bad, just that you can 't maintain it 24/7. If you think romance is all there is to a relationship, you 're looking for trouble. To have a strong relationship, even when the romance is not present, you need to be really good friends.

Good friends are the people who are there when times are bad, living through the tough times with you, and giving you a shoulder to cry on and support when you need it. Good friends are there in the tough times as well as the good, fun times. Your spouse or partner should …show more content…

Relationship Tip # 3: Accept Each Other

Your relationship is precious. It is the one place you can truly be yourself, flaws and all! This acceptance of each other, only happens when you can be free to be yourself without worrying about judgment. Remember, your spouse or partner in the relationship is the only one who sees you naked, and often the only one who sees the 'front ' you sometimes put on for other people. They are still with you and love you despite your 'flaws '. No-one is perfect, so you have to accept some 'flaws ' from your spouse too.

Be aware here that I am talking about recognizing the slight imperfections every one has and still loving your spouse, things like "he 's getting slightly bald, but he still loves to cuddle me", or "She 's put on weight since the kids, but she still makes me laugh and see the fun side of life". I am not talking about abusive relationships or accepting 'flaws ' that are destructive to you and each other in any way.

Relationship Tip # 4: Spend Quality Time Together

Freedom to be yourself, good communication and joyous friendship can only happen in relationships when you spend time together. Find something you both like to do that encourages activity, turning off the television and actually talking to each other. Spending quality time together is an investment in your future relationship. You can really only feel loved and loving towards your partner if

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