Being your own different self shows other people that there is something you have that they do not. Having something that somebody else does not have makes them interested into getting to know you even better and learning more about the character you are. It gives the individual so much self confidence to continue being their selves and if they had to change themselves it would be only to improve and nothing else. It is better to be one of a kind then to be like everyone else. All humans have at least one thing in common with another, maybe even nothing in common but then everyone knows that “opposites attract.” Being different leads you to become a critical thinker and to express your feelings, thoughts and theories different from others.
This is because the success which is achieved through efforts is valued not only by the achiever but also by others who wants to follow the example. The quick success story may arouse interest but certainly will not inspire. This illustration substantiates the quote "What comes easy won't last. What lasts won't come
Why? Well, the reason is not far-fetched. From my interaction with people, I know why they do so. They give up on their goals when it gets too hard for them to continue or when it’s getting too long to actualize. This invariably sets a pace for the failure to set in.
To achieve great things, hard work needs to be done. One needs to have a good attitude to be able to achieve their goals. If one is always negative, it will only cause anger and take away motivation. One can accomplish great things but to do this, one needs to have a positive attitude. There are many times when life will get difficult, but if one has a positive mindset, they can overcome these hardships and move on to better things.
You must have the self-confidence to stand still with your decisions when you are sure that you are right. You cannot expect someone to listen to you if you are a flip flop going back and forth with your decisions. However, if you do happen to make a mistake, you must own up to it and come up with an alternative plan. Your supporters should feel comfortable
In this case, I will be helping the member to see the connection between the team goal and his persoanl goal. Since the person see the connection, it will be motivating him because he knows that he is able to achieve his goal while also assisting the team to succeed. In addition, the low motivation maybe resulted by the time people spend on achieving the goal. People may lose their patience or forget their goal since they had spend a lot of time and still not achieve it. If the people are still motivated but poorly, I will be emphasizing the importance of the goal to remind and motivated them.
Sometimes motivation may come in a form of discouragement from others. When people try to discourage you, remind yourself that you are yourself and not them, therefore you will make it even when they think you will not. Work your way to your desired destination to prove that you are not born to fail but to reach your goals. This will motivate you to keep focused on your goals. Never
Success is a choice. This might surprise you, but it 's true and if you don 't believe it you have made the choice (yes, the choice) to journey through life without a great deal of success. Success is actually all about choice. You choose the things you want in your life, and then choose to do the necessary things to achieve your goals. You also choose not to quit until you achieve the outcome you desire.
HOW TO GET REAL FRIENDS AND SHAPE PEOPLE’S BEHAVIOR Have you ever felt people don’t understand you? You are not the only one. Most people experience this at some point or another in life. The key to avoid this unpleasant feeling lies in positioning ourselves in a different angle, or in other words, putting ourselves into the other person’s shoes. Indeed, it seems contradictory if we know the other person is the one who’s wrong.
Set some targets and rewards on that. No to Teamwork Some peoples are not willing to move with team. These are single minded people. They like to be performing alone. Arrange some team works and explain the effectiveness of the team works.