However, the prejudgements, rumors, misinterpretations, etc. often lead to making that person a target not because of their own self, but for their appearance. Those same reasons also lead to the lack of empathy in an individual. The Maycomb County folks are, “... so busy worrying about the next world they’ve never learned to live in this one, and you can look down the street and see the results.” (Lee p. 73). They are so busy worrying about protecting themselves that they even forget about the others.
Life isn’t fair and even though we may very well be a best kind of human being, people will still find a reason to hate you no matter what you do or how good you are. Probabilities are it’s more about their concern than anything you have or haven’t done. There are people who don’t like me who have never actually met me or had a conversation with me. That’s fine with me. I won’t invest emotional energy into things I can’t change.
Even though this can be somehow beneficial, it may lead to anxiety and distress for certain individuals. Therefore, we may be pressured to reply instantly in fear of being regarded as inattentive or oblivious. Technology may also affect the art of real life conversation which may lead to future leaders of the country deprived of contextual tone and body language. As a result, people who rely deeply on technology to connect with people may find it arduous to engage in real life conversation due to lack of face-to-face interaction that cannot be edited or filtered
Externalising has three tendencies which are: â€¢ Overvaluing your contribution to the relationship and undervaluing the contribution of others. â€¢ Criticising others for being different to you rather than appreciating and building on those differences. â€¢ Seeing othersâ€™ sins against you but not yours against them. Acting in this way can cause major problems within your relationships. People generally act this way because they: â€¢ Find it hard to put themselves in someone elseâ€™s shoes - unable to see things from another personâ€point of view.
Nation and Newton (2009:154-155) say that there are four problems to be identified. The first problem is the difficult task which is commonly caused by lack of practice, this makes them keep doing what they think as difficult tasks. The second problem is not meaning-focus tasks, this kind of task may lead them to lack of self-confidence or anxiety and nervous. The third problem is lack of target or time pressure in doing the speaking practice. The fourth problem is lack of planning and preparation in every practice, this affect the learners’ readiness.
People with low self-esteem has the constant fear that they can’t do things right. They rely upon others, incapable of taking their own decision, they ask others for suggestions and advices as to what to do in a particular situation. They do not respect or value themselves rather think that they are not fit for the environment, are not worthy of anything. Whatever they do for others nobody is going to love them, they are not good enough and they need to be perfect in order to live. But the truth is if an individual wants to love someone they should understand that in order to be loved by someone else one must love themselves.
It is such a delicate time in one 's life and you may be additional touchy to everything. Numerous individuals don 't realize what to say to somebody who is harming. Frequently the individual will endeavor to improve you feel by attempting to give you an answer in the matter of why the misfortune happened or let you know how you ought to feel. You may have likewise encountered those individuals who simply dodge you in light of the fact that your misfortune is excessively uncomfortable for them. These individuals don 't comprehend that everything you need is minding and solace, or perhaps they simply don 't know how to give it.
It was for this very reason my score was low, I simply did not fully comprehend the extent of what integrity truly is. With the help of the MCI I was able to dig deeper into what qualities one must display or not display to be considered a person of integrity. Through the MCI I discovered I fell short in areas such as lack of willingness to help others, being too caught up in yourself is never a good trait this usually results in selfishness. My self-esteem rises and falls with the opinions of others. How can you have integrity when you depend on the opinions of others and not yourself?
But sometimes, stuffs do not meet the requirement. The points to consider is there are no guarantees for all things that you will do, and the way to conquer it is by preparing all possible risks. As you make more and more mistakes, you could also learn from them and look for the opportunities which could open your mindset. The most important thing is whenever you failed to achieve the things that you want because of choosing the wrong decision, you should try to overcome it. Because, some people are too afraid to make a decision and finally lose sight of what they are trying to accomplish, which burden themself in making any
What this also demonstrates is that a person who continuously makes excuses for every action they perform is not that, he or she is control of her life, (although they think and believe they are), but instead, the opposite. Opposite in that, they simply cannot face up to reality or the actual consequences that will or has occurred. Excuses are merely a facade to disguise one's inability to tolerate or accept reality. It can also be described as a tool, a tool which they use to tease other people's sympathies, when things for them don't go according to plan, or when they have presented a challenge, which they are unwilling to act upon and overcome. Check out the kind of excuses we make; Its six o'clock at night and traffic is backed up.You